Hey friend, take it easy. Don't allow yourself to be upset over such an incident. Give yourself some time to sort yourself out and don't start looking out for another relationship because you are not ready for one. Study hard, keep yourself fit by exercising and playing outdoor games with your friends, and do anything to enjoy life. Love is not meaningless, it has to do with giving and sacrifice. Don't confuse romance with love. Once again, don't give up on yourself. Although you may fail hundreds of times, but it's okay to fail. Everyone fails. But if only you can start picking yourself up each time you fall, there'll surely be a light at the end of the tunnel. Be strong!Originally posted by Promises:Right people, please give me some comments and advice about this problem of mine.
I fell for this guy at my school this year. It has been around 7 months. Indeed, i have confessed to him few months back, he did too. We've then remain as really close friends, to get to know each other better. There have been the days when we were constantly messaging each other, chats on the phone and msn. Some group outings. Things seemed rather hopeful and oh-so-sweet. We then started to drift a little. But we got back too. But chats on the phone and outings stopped. Mostly it was just casual chats online or a few smses here and there.
Maybe I had been dreaming too much or I was just too hopeful, but why can one change his mind so fast? And yes, i forgot to add, he was in love with another girl before he confessed to me, but the girl kind of rejected him. Did he treat me as a back-up?
As for now? Things seem to be getting worst. Whenever i go online, he sets to away mode. And when i sms him, i don't get replies. Why, why, why ... If there was an explanation or something, yes, i would go away silently, forgetting everything slowly. But now, its just like having someone tell you he loves you one moment and the next, he just slips away.
I still believe it isn't on purpose as he is just not such a jerk. But still i feel so upset. He told me he was busy and will get back to me at night, I was really excited and i couldn't get to sleep. I never heard from him since. Not even when he woke up, i had sent him a "Asleep? Okay, good night and rest well." sms at 2am.
This isn't the first time I have a problem with a guy. Things always end up like that. Come and go. I feel like forgetting everything about love. It just seems so meaningless to me. Sigh...
hihiOriginally posted by Promises:Right people, please give me some comments and advice about this problem of mine.
I fell for this guy at my school this year. It has been around 7 months. Indeed, i have confessed to him few months back, he did too. We've then remain as really close friends, to get to know each other better. There have been the days when we were constantly messaging each other, chats on the phone and msn. Some group outings. Things seemed rather hopeful and oh-so-sweet. We then started to drift a little. But we got back too. But chats on the phone and outings stopped. Mostly it was just casual chats online or a few smses here and there.
Maybe I had been dreaming too much or I was just too hopeful, but why can one change his mind so fast? And yes, i forgot to add, he was in love with another girl before he confessed to me, but the girl kind of rejected him. Did he treat me as a back-up?
As for now? Things seem to be getting worst. Whenever i go online, he sets to away mode. And when i sms him, i don't get replies. Why, why, why ... If there was an explanation or something, yes, i would go away silently, forgetting everything slowly. But now, its just like having someone tell you he loves you one moment and the next, he just slips away.
I still believe it isn't on purpose as he is just not such a jerk. But still i feel so upset. He told me he was busy and will get back to me at night, I was really excited and i couldn't get to sleep. I never heard from him since. Not even when he woke up, i had sent him a "Asleep? Okay, good night and rest well." sms at 2am.
This isn't the first time I have a problem with a guy. Things always end up like that. Come and go. I feel like forgetting everything about love. It just seems so meaningless to me. Sigh...
Originally posted by Promises:Right people, please give me some comments and advice about this problem of mine.
I fell for this guy at my school this year. It has been around 7 months. Indeed, i have confessed to him few months back, he did too. We've then remain as really close friends, to get to know each other better. There have been the days when we were constantly messaging each other, chats on the phone and msn. Some group outings. Things seemed rather hopeful and oh-so-sweet. We then started to drift a little. But we got back too. But chats on the phone and outings stopped. Mostly it was just casual chats online or a few smses here and there.
Maybe I had been dreaming too much or I was just too hopeful, but why can one change his mind so fast? And yes, i forgot to add, he was in love with another girl before he confessed to me, but the girl kind of rejected him. Did he treat me as a back-up?
As for now? Things seem to be getting worst. Whenever i go online, he sets to away mode. And when i sms him, i don't get replies. Why, why, why ... If there was an explanation or something, yes, i would go away silently, forgetting everything slowly. But now, its just like having someone tell you he loves you one moment and the next, he just slips away.
I still believe it isn't on purpose as he is just not such a jerk. But still i feel so upset. He told me he was busy and will get back to me at night, I was really excited and i couldn't get to sleep. I never heard from him since. Not even when he woke up, i had sent him a "Asleep? Okay, good night and rest well." sms at 2am.
This isn't the first time I have a problem with a guy. Things always end up like that. Come and go. I feel like forgetting everything about love. It just seems so meaningless to me. Sigh...
Give him some time...Originally posted by Promises:Right people, please give me some comments and advice about this problem of mine.
I fell for this guy at my school this year. It has been around 7 months. Indeed, i have confessed to him few months back, he did too. We've then remain as really close friends, to get to know each other better. There have been the days when we were constantly messaging each other, chats on the phone and msn. Some group outings. Things seemed rather hopeful and oh-so-sweet. We then started to drift a little. But we got back too. But chats on the phone and outings stopped. Mostly it was just casual chats online or a few smses here and there.
Maybe I had been dreaming too much or I was just too hopeful, but why can one change his mind so fast? And yes, i forgot to add, he was in love with another girl before he confessed to me, but the girl kind of rejected him. Did he treat me as a back-up?
As for now? Things seem to be getting worst. Whenever i go online, he sets to away mode. And when i sms him, i don't get replies. Why, why, why ... If there was an explanation or something, yes, i would go away silently, forgetting everything slowly. But now, its just like having someone tell you he loves you one moment and the next, he just slips away.
I still believe it isn't on purpose as he is just not such a jerk. But still i feel so upset. He told me he was busy and will get back to me at night, I was really excited and i couldn't get to sleep. I never heard from him since. Not even when he woke up, i had sent him a "Asleep? Okay, good night and rest well." sms at 2am.
This isn't the first time I have a problem with a guy. Things always end up like that. Come and go. I feel like forgetting everything about love. It just seems so meaningless to me. Sigh...