one yr on...
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coming tis end sep, will be one yr after me n my ex broke up.. one yr liao.. i still miss her a lot.. every morning when i wake up, i will tink of her.. every nite before i go n sleep, i will wonder whether she has a good day.. juz now was surfing frenster and saw her upload her current pic.. she still look v pretty.. even prettier..
haben been in contact with her for more than 8 mths..i did ask her out before.. but everytime she say she busy.. until i give up and nvr contact her... neither does she.. my bdae juz passed and she din even send me a happy bdae sms.. still rber last yr bdae, when we 2 were still tog.. she folded 13 pink hearts for me.. with the letters HAPPY BIRTHDAY on each heart.. she told me no matter wat i muz not lose the hearts cos it contained her love and she will check on my next bdae. I din throw away the hearts.. it is still inside the box with our diary, our neoprints, our photos, our movie tickets stubs.. everything is still in tact but wat's missing is her heart..
actually i did see her in sch.. but when we see each other, i wanna stop n tok to her but she juz smile and walk on.. this really hurts me a lot.. really in such a hurry dat she got no time to stop n ask me how are u doing? how are u adapting to the new sch? even frens dat i seldom contact with will ask me dat when we saw each other in sch or street.. aren't we frens? didn't she say if we can't be couples, we still can be very good frens?
there is one secret dat she doesn't know.. i hv one present dat i dun hv the chance to give to her.. actually is her last yr chrtismas present.. is a photo of her facing the sea.. the blue sky behind her.. and her hair flying in the air... it's the prettiest photo dat i took for her..she hasn't seen the photo b4 cos it was still in my camera when we broke up..i tink it will make a real nice christmas present but on xmas day, she say she gg to her ex's hse (the guy before me).. wanna give to her on Vday, but she went dinner with her ex.. the last i heard she is back with dat guy.. haiz...so the present is still in my cupboard collecting dust.. really dunno when can i give it to her..
sorry to ppl who clicked this link and read my story.. suddenly juz feel emotional and decide to write it here.. din expect any pity la.. juz wondering wat is love? so foolish for me to tink dat love can be eternal.. dat i can be with her 4 ever.. well, to end it off.. dardar.. i still love u and hope u will be happy always........ ---OBB -
tats sweet, tink she wans to forget u... but u jz hv to accept tat shes gone n move on...
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time to move on... for she has also oredi moved on...
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Originally posted by red_tide24:coming tis end sep, will be one yr after me n my ex broke up.. one yr liao.. i still miss her a lot.. every morning when i wake up, i will tink of her.. every nite before i go n sleep, i will wonder whether she has a good day.. juz now was surfing frenster and saw her upload her current pic.. she still look v pretty.. even prettier..
haben been in contact with her for more than 8 mths..i did ask her out before.. but everytime she say she busy.. until i give up and nvr contact her... neither does she.. my bdae juz passed and she din even send me a happy bdae sms.. still rber last yr bdae, when we 2 were still tog.. she folded 13 pink hearts for me.. with the letters HAPPY BIRTHDAY on each heart.. she told me no matter wat i muz not lose the hearts cos it contained her love and she will check on my next bdae. I din throw away the hearts.. it is still inside the box with our diary, our neoprints, our photos, our movie tickets stubs.. everything is still in tact but wat's missing is her heart..
actually i did see her in sch.. but when we see each other, i wanna stop n tok to her but she juz smile and walk on.. this really hurts me a lot.. really in such a hurry dat she got no time to stop n ask me how are u doing? how are u adapting to the new sch? even frens dat i seldom contact with will ask me dat when we saw each other in sch or street.. aren't we frens? didn't she say if we can't be couples, we still can be very good frens?
there is one secret dat she doesn't know.. i hv one present dat i dun hv the chance to give to her.. actually is her last yr chrtismas present.. is a photo of her facing the sea.. the blue sky behind her.. and her hair flying in the air... it's the prettiest photo dat i took for her..she hasn't seen the photo b4 cos it was still in my camera when we broke up..i tink it will make a real nice christmas present but on xmas day, she say she gg to her ex's hse (the guy before me).. wanna give to her on Vday, but she went dinner with her ex.. the last i heard she is back with dat guy.. haiz...so the present is still in my cupboard collecting dust.. really dunno when can i give it to her..
sorry to ppl who clicked this link and read my story.. suddenly juz feel emotional and decide to write it here.. din expect any pity la.. juz wondering wat is love? so foolish for me to tink dat love can be eternal.. dat i can be with her 4 ever.. well, to end it off.. dardar.. i still love u and hope u will be happy always........ ---OBB
If there isn't a way for friendship to revert after a fallen relationship - so be it. You may type this whole chunk of emotional words, but unknown to you, she have already moved on. To you, you still hold her deep in your heart, but in return, you have already vanished long ago.
Reality is such that, the person you truely care once, has already LONG moved on and held little of his/her past.
Cheers -
yes move on, better to put those gifts away so u won't be reminded of the past. She won't be the only one for u, there are others out there
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It's OVER. Whether you love her or not. Things of PAST. Look FORWARD. Not BACKWARDS.
Keeping your mind INDULGED in the PAST like that would ONLY MEANS that you'll be MISSING OUT on ALOT of what the FUTURE has IN STORE for YOU...
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My sympathy.. well love isnt abt possesion.. but i strongly think u can gif her the box.. tt's the least u can do.. really
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Though just pass 2 month after my break off... going to have the same feeling as your's. Wondering how's she? And also is it she change or i've change? Still worrying her, but life still go on, I'm thinking the same way as you. Will think of her day and night expecially when wake up, pain in heart. Earn more , study hard, this rest leave to fate. Since she has done this, no point regaining it , i think. There might be a second time. Here's my thread.
http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=89937
Regards -
Eason Chan : Ten Years.
Ten Years before we were strangers, you don't know me, I don't know you.
Ten Years later we are only friends.
Life is a journey you don't have a map for. Sometimes you have to retrace your steps, sometimes you have to move on. Sometimes you have to decide which road to take and this journey will eventually end.
My advice: Move on. You have to grow over it. -
sometimes it so so hard to let go.... haiz....
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Some things are just meant to be.
Let time do its job and ease u of ur sorrow -
if that the case how i wish time go real fastOriginally posted by Patrik:Some things are just meant to be.
Let time do its job and ease u of ur sorrow -
hmmm that means u would be missing out a lot of things in present ..Originally posted by blowfish:if that the case how i wish time go real fast -
Me too,just found out she had bf,very sad,thought whether she actually break up because of been a singer or because of that guy.Originally posted by blowfish:sometimes it so so hard to let go.... haiz....
Sad is still sad...nothing i can do...now both you and me need to try put down.
Yah it's very hard...I'm struggling too, get our stuff done 1st,have money,no scare no romance.
Just broke up for 2 months after 3yrs 3 mth relationship.
I'm trying to put down...hope you can do it together...
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Haiz...
I can understand how u all feel...
I also dunno what to sae liao..
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Ouch
Luckily i've never been dumped for another girl (yet) or else i will kick his balls -
Ya. It's a fact of life.
You may not forget but, let go little by little. Let the feeling fade with Time. -
i can feel e sadness going thru you. the pain is ever so similar no matter wat e situation is. haizzz.... love hurts.
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It's true...love really hurt,untill u know that he/she actually lied ...What she said i'm the only one she love in her life, will not accept other guys,will come back to me after a long rest. Those words she said during the break up. Haiz..all lies..my relative told my mum that she saw her holding hand with another guy while we're still together. Really hurts,but what's the point? Heaven is toying me or training me? Got to be strong or she'll "diao qi lai mai".
That's fate...which everyone actually waiting for. He/she is only be ur's when you're dead and their by your side. As marriage still can divorce.
Regards -
its already a year liao...... dun worry soon u willl forget her...
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same happening.. one yr after breaking up, i now suspected she's been lying to me a lot.. dat time she keep telling me she is busy with sch work.. EVERY WEEK got tests, hv to stay back in sch til late everyday.. she keep using sch commitments as excuse not to go out with me..can u believe it? i din see her for 3 weeks at all before we broke up ok..3 weeks!! weekend she also say she is busy...but now becos i'm in uni myself.. i discovered the situation is not as bad as hers leh.. i still got time to meet up with my frens.. somemore if u really love ur partner, u will find means to meet up with him/her despite being busy right?Originally posted by ^Sankawa^:It's true...love really hurt,untill u know that he/she actually lied ...What she said i'm the only one she love in her life, will not accept other guys,will come back to me after a long rest. Those words she said during the break up. Haiz..all lies..my relative told my mum that she saw her holding hand with another guy while we're still together. Really hurts,but what's the point? Heaven is toying me or training me? Got to be strong or she'll "diao qi lai mai".
That's fate...which everyone actually waiting for. He/she is only be ur's when you're dead and their by your side. As marriage still can divorce.
Regards -
Yup,if love do fade,then whats love for? companion? or just for fun? She had went for singing performance and not getting any calls or even sms from her for 2 weeks. My this young girl going to be 20 yrs old, mind concept will change. Or maybe 3 yrs liao, she feel sianz with me,then look for other guy. Her character like this , marriage won't last long too.Originally posted by red_tide24:same happening.. one yr after breaking up, i now suspected she's been lying to me a lot.. dat time she keep telling me she is busy with sch work.. EVERY WEEK got tests, hv to stay back in sch til late everyday.. she keep using sch commitments as excuse not to go out with me..can u believe it? i din see her for 3 weeks at all before we broke up ok..3 weeks!! weekend she also say she is busy...but now becos i'm in uni myself.. i discovered the situation is not as bad as hers leh.. i still got time to meet up with my frens.. somemore if u really love ur partner, u will find means to meet up with him/her despite being busy right?
But bare in mind we're just looking for advice or just telling sorrow here, don't think too much liao, i'm trying real hard too. Time heals. -
yea.. lucky for me.. it has been one yr liao.. i'm slowly healing.. did date some other girls during this one yr.. but still haben found the right girl yet.. dun worry ^Sankawa^.. u will find a better girl than her.. is her loss not urs...
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today i finally meet up with my ex for lunch.. and we really tok abt a lot of stuff and i still feel she is still the person i can best tok cock with.. only she will appreciate my joke.. and i pass her that present also.. and i'm happy dat she din reject my gift...
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Hey red_tide24, i rely felt for ur storyOriginally posted by red_tide24:same happening.. one yr after breaking up, i now suspected she's been lying to me a lot.. dat time she keep telling me she is busy with sch work.. EVERY WEEK got tests, hv to stay back in sch til late everyday.. she keep using sch commitments as excuse not to go out with me..can u believe it? i din see her for 3 weeks at all before we broke up ok..3 weeks!! weekend she also say she is busy...but now becos i'm in uni myself.. i discovered the situation is not as bad as hers leh.. i still got time to meet up with my frens.. somemore if u really love ur partner, u will find means to meet up with him/her despite being busy right?
I broke up with her more than 3 yrs ago.. & i still miss her a lot.
We met less than 3 times in the past 3 yrs. And Yes, her reasons are always she's busy.
We lost contact for more than 1 yr plus. I finally found her in April & i was so darn happy. we celebrated her bdae, she sms me that nite, everythk went so well.
But the next time i asked her out, she always agree but on the day itself came up with a reason for not coming. The last time she stood me up, she didn't call me. i waited frm evenin to nite, strollin Orchard like a drifter..
So busy that she cannot even giv me a call to say she's nt turning up.. I feel so shattered. i mean, u wouldn't treat a normal fren tis way, wat's more after what we been thru.
Anway i hav always been amazed how easily & thoroughly my ex forgets me. Too busy?? i am also in the uni nw, & always wonder how busy can life actually be..
ultimately, its jus how much that person means to u rite?