lonely
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i've been reading other ppl's stories regarding relationships,the good n the bad
i cant help yearning to be in a relationship again,to give n to recieve love, yet im afraid to be heartbroken
i dun really have a prob finding a guy,its the end result that i fear of,very very much,becoz when i do get hurt,i will be hurt so deep inside it just feels like its the end....just dun wanna do anything,dun wanna eat,drink,walk,talk...im just freaking scared ,i want to overcome this,i wonder how
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Good thing u don't have a problem finding a guy. Just start out as friends & find out more abt the person, whether u are compatible.
Don't enter a relationship because u are lonely but whether u enjoy being together.
Learn from yr past experiences- what went wrong & try not to make the same mistakes. Be optimistic & don't worry so much -
to be worthy of love, you have to be willing to risk all...
including hurt...
is he worth it?
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knowing other ppl's relationship stories, good or bad, is not wrong...but it's unfair to "put" yourself into their stories. You make your own story. Some ppl met their life partners on their first relationship, some a few n others many before they met their life partners. Some relationships turn bad due to many reasons. Some learnt about the reasons why relationships failed n about themselves more.Originally posted by amuletgurl:i've been reading other ppl's stories regarding relationships,the good n the bad
i cant help yearning to be in a relationship again,to give n to recieve love, yet im afraid to be heartbroken
i dun really have a prob finding a guy,its the end result that i fear of,very very much,becoz when i do get hurt,i will be hurt so deep inside it just feels like its the end....just dun wanna do anything,dun wanna eat,drink,walk,talk...im just freaking scared ,i want to overcome this,i wonder how
at its simplest effect definition, love can HURT or HEAL.
When this person whom u met can make u believe in love and be willing to receive love again, then he could be The One; for he can take away the unbearable hurt n disbelief deep inside you. Dun be surprised if he's not the dream guy in their mind. -
Find a closer friend... And if you find yourselves comfortable with each other, then look into the possibility of the relationship developing further...Originally posted by amuletgurl:i've been reading other ppl's stories regarding relationships,the good n the bad
i cant help yearning to be in a relationship again,to give n to recieve love, yet im afraid to be heartbroken
i dun really have a prob finding a guy,its the end result that i fear of,very very much,becoz when i do get hurt,i will be hurt so deep inside it just feels like its the end....just dun wanna do anything,dun wanna eat,drink,walk,talk...im just freaking scared ,i want to overcome this,i wonder how
No point putting in a 'title' for the sake of it...
I used to tell this old grand daddy story of mine... (ok.. Actually.. It's MY story...??
> ") Now I cut it SHORT. I have had a VERY BAD FALL when I was very much younger... If I would have thought that walking is a DANGEROUS thing.. Should I have been a cripple? -
By the way... Do feel FREE to join us for OUTINGS yeah...?? <
I'm quite SURE MANY of the other OTHER GUYS would be quite PLEASED to MEET YOU...??
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me now also got no bf,but i dun mind.
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like u said.. those are other people's stories.. it is not ur story..Originally posted by amuletgurl:i've been reading other ppl's stories regarding relationships,the good n the bad
i cant help yearning to be in a relationship again,to give n to recieve love, yet im afraid to be heartbroken
i dun really have a prob finding a guy,its the end result that i fear of,very very much,becoz when i do get hurt,i will be hurt so deep inside it just feels like its the end....just dun wanna do anything,dun wanna eat,drink,walk,talk...im just freaking scared ,i want to overcome this,i wonder how
who knows how your story will be like?
nothing to worry so much about... falling in love and getting hurt is part n parcel of life.. that's how we gain experience...
dun worry and when the right time comes.. jus follow the flow of life...
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ahhh,im so glad wif all ur replies,makes me feel lots better
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hhhhmmm... I sure can relate to this.Originally posted by amuletgurl:i've been reading other ppl's stories regarding relationships,the good n the bad
i cant help yearning to be in a relationship again,to give n to recieve love, yet im afraid to be heartbroken
i dun really have a prob finding a guy,its the end result that i fear of,very very much,becoz when i do get hurt,i will be hurt so deep inside it just feels like its the end....just dun wanna do anything,dun wanna eat,drink,walk,talk...im just freaking scared ,i want to overcome this,i wonder how
I have not problem in finding a gal and my friends are all so eager to get me one. sometimes I wonder if they fear that I might b gay
Can't blame them when I have been single for so long and has got only ONE past record.
I not afraid to be heartbroken cos I will take it as a learning experience.
Maybe I enjoy the freedom of being single.. being able to hang out with whoever I want, whenever I want.....I'm just not ready to give it up but of cos if someone comes along and its worth giving all this up.... I will... gladly will. -
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Originally posted by nOrmalbOi:
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Well at least it is 'again' for you. All my loveboat sunk before they can leave the port. Nowadays all my feeling and passion seems to be diluted. Even if I like a person, I no longer feel the same yearning I felt before. I am being way too cautious to pursue any relationship. I seems to be falling for the wrong ladies throughout my life so my heart have hardened to prevent the same mistake again. I want to love, to feel love, to know what its like to love but alas life is not that easy. So which is worse afraid to love becos of hurt or no longer feeling love? I am having difficulty finding thing to touch my heart nowadays, any 1 have any movies or novel to introduce? Opps sorry for hijacking the thread.
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I can help you overcome this fear....
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heyhey,no worries,i guess im stronger than i thought i mOriginally posted by pete98:Well at least it is 'again' for you. All my loveboat sunk before they can leave the port. Nowadays all my feeling and passion seems to be diluted. Even if I like a person, I no longer feel the same yearning I felt before. I am being way too cautious to pursue any relationship. I seems to be falling for the wrong ladies throughout my life so my heart have hardened to prevent the same mistake again. I want to love, to feel love, to know what its like to love but alas life is not that easy. So which is worse afraid to love becos of hurt or no longer feeling love? I am having difficulty finding thing to touch my heart nowadays, any 1 have any movies or novel to introduce? Opps sorry for hijacking the thread. -
u can?Originally posted by yukinari:I can help you overcome this fear.... 
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Sure... I can...Originally posted by amuletgurl:u can? -
Good for you. Hope you goes this phrase better than I did.Originally posted by amuletgurl:heyhey,no worries,i guess im stronger than i thought i m -
or maybe i havent reach the worse yetOriginally posted by pete98:Good for you. Hope you goes this phrase better than I did.
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Hi, I can totally feel for your thoughts. It's true. When my ex left me, I was so totally devastated that I just can't do anything and life for me was like walking through hell....Originally posted by amuletgurl:i've been reading other ppl's stories regarding relationships,the good n the bad
i cant help yearning to be in a relationship again,to give n to recieve love, yet im afraid to be heartbroken
i dun really have a prob finding a guy,its the end result that i fear of,very very much,becoz when i do get hurt,i will be hurt so deep inside it just feels like its the end....just dun wanna do anything,dun wanna eat,drink,walk,talk...im just freaking scared ,i want to overcome this,i wonder how
I dont dare to take up another relationship for fear that it may bring me another devastating blow. But love is such a fascinating thing....it can bring so much pain...and it can bring so much joy at the same time.
The feeling of having someone who will be there for you....who loves you...who cares for you...and one whom you know you can confide in and share all your joys/sadness etc......it's just great!
Then there's the other side....the usual quarrels...the pain of breakups....the aftermath..etc....
Remember, we DON'T go looking for love. If it happens, it will happen. What I suggest that you don't start pondering whether you should get into a relationship again or not. Let nature takes its course. If fate destined that you are to fall into a love nest once again, then dont reject it for fear of the past. Instead, I would advise you to grab it. What is life without love? Life is short...do we really have time to ponder over so many things? If you love someone in the future, then don't PURPOSELY reject it just because of your PAST. Move forward......with life.....with your new-found love. Even if it turns out bad again....we should always treat it as 'cheng jing yong you'...and not necessary everyting must be 'tian chang di jiu'. -
Aiya she's in Oz Land, unless u guys so eng to visit her?Originally posted by Devil1976:By the way... Do feel FREE to join us for OUTINGS yeah...?? <
I'm quite SURE MANY of the other OTHER GUYS would be quite PLEASED to MEET YOU...?? 
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which part?
got a few in Melbourne (well, going to be a few), at least one in Sydney and one in Canberra..
why not huh?Originally posted by cooleo:Aiya she's in Oz Land, unless u guys so eng to visit her? -
Originally posted by the Bear:which part?
got a few in Melbourne (well, going to be a few), at least one in Sydney and one in Canberra..
why not huh? -
Originally posted by amuletgurl:ahhh,im so glad wif all ur replies,makes me feel lots better
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who who?Originally posted by the Bear:which part?
got a few in Melbourne (well, going to be a few), at least one in Sydney and one in Canberra..
why not huh?