How Often Do You Meet Your Bf/Gf Each Week
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As above for all to discuss. [/b]
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on average...4~5 days
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Some believe that meeting everyday or often will make the relationship turn stale. However, they cant help it because they will miss him/her so much if didnt meet. Some don't mind meeting only on weekends but their relationship still strong as wkdays they spend talking on phone. Overall, what do you guys/gals think of the above?Originally posted by FireIce:on average...4~5 days -
i try not to meet too much... too much PT very siong to pocket ah...
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Originally posted by Chrysalis_Guy:
there is no standard forumula to wat u said above.....
[b]Some believe that meeting everyday or often will make the relationship turn stale. However, they cant help it because they will miss him/her so much if didnt meet. Some don't mind meeting only on weekends but their relationship still strong as wkdays they spend talking on phone. Overall, what do you guys/gals think of the above?[/b]
for us, it's due to our working hours (his working hours actually).....the usual stuff we do is eat dinner, watch tv, sleep......not much of movies or stroll the beach tt kinda thing.....
when we no meet, we communicate by fone calls, SMS, ICQ, IRC.....
absence makes the heart grow fonder.......applies to some..... -
i go ur house, u come my house.......bery economicalOriginally posted by audlenelee:i try not to meet too much... too much PT very siong to pocket ah...
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hehehe... usually is go my house... but go too much oso sian mah... so go out 4 dinner, etc... so... very bad for pocket...Originally posted by FireIce:i go ur house, u come my house.......bery economical -
usually is me go his house....his mom will cook dinner......no damage to pocketOriginally posted by audlenelee:hehehe... usually is go my house... but go too much oso sian mah... so go out 4 dinner, etc... so... very bad for pocket... -
then sometimes can Pian Mee Fen somemore leh..... ahahahahOriginally posted by FireIce:usually is me go his house....his mom will cook dinner......no damage to pocket -
Originally posted by Chrysalis_Guy:
I actually thinks this happen to me. you can read from my post...
[b]Some believe that meeting everyday or often will make the relationship turn stale. However, they cant help it because they will miss him/her so much if didnt meet. Some don't mind meeting only on weekends but their relationship still strong as wkdays they spend talking on phone. Overall, what do you guys/gals think of the above?[/b]
"What should i do".
Average 1 month i see her for 15 days(of course not one time straight 15 days lah, but like every 3-4 days i go work then the 5th day i only see her). She boring not bcos i didnt bring her go to the place she wants or accompany her but dun have the "i miss u " feeling after some time.
So my advice is next time don't disturb girls when they want to go out with their friends. Or keep asking them where they go... hmmm this one abit tricky... got ask "they feel fan" ...dont ask "they feel you not think of their safety". haaaaaaaaaaiiiiiiiiiiihhhhhhhhhhhhhzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz -
almost everyday if possible
times where i confirm won't meet is :-
1) when i'm working
2) i'm playing football
3) got outing with my friends -
haha x2Originally posted by audlenelee:hehehe... usually is go my house... but go too much oso sian mah... so go out 4 dinner, etc... so... very bad for pocket...
however, my current gf dun allow that cos both our parents still dun know abt our relationship (cos only stead for 3 mths and parents conservative type) and we cant go to each other houses as of now. so...hai...miting places are always outside lor....$ fly away...haha..how i wish that day will come when either me or her can go to each other's home. -
the most decent yu pian mi fen in the area lah.....lazy to go too far......heheheheheOriginally posted by Estee:then sometimes can Pian Mee Fen somemore leh..... ahahahah -
eheheeheh.... no chance to eat.... only eat b4 the fishball beehoon.... hahahaha...... acceptable to me loh.... ;POriginally posted by FireIce:the most decent yu pian mi fen in the area lah.....lazy to go too far......hehehehehe -
Must a boyfriend necessarily see his girlfriend that often?!
Would have thought once a week or once every 2 weeks enough. -
necessity will be decided by the couple.Originally posted by men_@_arms:Must a boyfriend necessarily see his girlfriend that often?!
Would have thought once a week or once every 2 weeks enough.
everyone has different needs
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Up to you. No SOP for that.Originally posted by men_@_arms:Must a boyfriend necessarily see his girlfriend that often?!
Would have thought once a week or once every 2 weeks enough. -
Once a week or twice
Both of us are busy or tired -
I mean if you KEEP seing each other SO OFTEN, won't the 2 of u get like bored with each other??? Like, i find girls i hardly see keep me attracted to them longer and we cherish whenever we see each other (however rarely), similarly girls miss me a lot and hardly see me, but it keeps the mystery/attraction goin "lor"
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like i said, that's the indivual's lifestyle and thinking. what applies to you might not apply to other people.Originally posted by men_@_arms:I mean if you KEEP seing each other SO OFTEN, won't the 2 of u get like bored with each other??? Like, i find girls i hardly see keep me attracted to them longer and we cherish whenever we see each other (however rarely), similarly girls miss me a lot and hardly see me, but it keeps the mystery/attraction goin "lor"
some want some mystery, some love each other so much they just want to see each other everyday for the rest of their lives, some don't even want to meet unless they feel sick of loneliness... we're human, everyone is different. -
Originally posted by FireIce:
yupx.. totally agree with that...my gf didnt realise how much i meant to her till i got food poisoning... 4 consecutive days didnt talk much or go out with her cuz i had no strength to even walk much..only then did she realize tt she missed me alot and that i meant realli alot to her =P
there is no standard forumula to wat u said above.....
for us, it's due to our working hours (his working hours actually).....the usual stuff we do is eat dinner, watch tv, sleep......not much of movies or stroll the beach tt kinda thing.....
when we no meet, we communicate by fone calls, SMS, ICQ, IRC.....
[b]absence makes the heart grow fonder.......applies to some.....
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p.s. don't eat pandan cake imported from m'sia. (I MEAN, SERIOUSLY, DON'T!!) -
My gf keep wanting to meet me almost everyday. Meet almost 4 to 5 times a week. Is it wise to meet for so many times?? I wanna reject her sometimes as i feel tat its not v gd to meet so often but her words such as "i love u n miss u so much" melt n soften my heart hence agree in stead of rejecting her...
We r together for abt 4 mths already... -
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hmmm do u all keep doing the same things over and over again when u 2 meet up ?Originally posted by Ogbunwezeh:My gf keep wanting to meet me almost everyday. Meet almost 4 to 5 times a week. Is it wise to meet for so many times?? I wanna reject her sometimes as i feel tat its not v gd to meet so often but her words such as "i love u n miss u so much" melt n soften my heart hence agree in stead of rejecting her...
We r together for abt 4 mths already... -
well actuali i mit my bf if we got the time cos he bz wif wk, but i always free wan..so depends on him. abt 3-5 times a week or sumtimes less.depends...mit liao either go his hse, shoppin, movie, eat, watch vcds,arcade, or cho bo tok cock...aiya wat can couple do? lai lai qu qu all the same wan la..in sg u cant do much..shoppin oso sianz.. waste $$ only..