How Will You React?
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How will you react to the below situations?
a) If your gf/bf doesn't understand you even after you have repeatedly confided in him/her your problems and stress and keep arguing with you over the slightest things?
b) If your bf/gf was unfaithful to you. Will you give him/her another chance?
c) A lot of people says that money is not important in relationships. But a lot of broken relationships have occured due to broken relationships. Though you love this person...will you give up this person because realistically...and I mean realistically...that it is unable to carry on this relationship because one of the party is so poor that everywhere you go, you have to pay for him/her. In this case, you love the person but he/she is poor and lazy in looking for a proper job. Will you still stick to the relationship out of love? -
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Originally posted by Chrysalis_Guy:
a) lan lan loh.....bad comprehension and insensitivity are not crimes......
How will you react to the below situations?
a) If your gf/bf doesn't understand you even after you have repeatedly confided in him/her your problems and stress and keep arguing with you over the slightest things?
b) If your bf/gf was unfaithful to you. Will you give him/her another chance?
c) A lot of people says that money is not important in relationships. But a lot of broken relationships have occured due to broken relationships. Though you love this person...will you give up this person because realistically...and I mean realistically...that it is unable to carry on this relationship because one of the party is so poor that everywhere you go, you have to pay for him/her. In this case, you love the person but he/she is poor and lazy in looking for a proper job. Will you still stick to the relationship out of love?
b) NO, big fat NO!
c) i wun mind him being poor, but if he is able to work, fit and healthy... but pa si oso dun want find work, then i shall throw him in the dumps and leave him to die -
Originally posted by Chrysalis_Guy:
Typo error.
How will you react to the below situations?
a) If your gf/bf doesn't understand you even after you have repeatedly confided in him/her your problems and stress and keep arguing with you over the slightest things?
b) If your bf/gf was unfaithful to you. Will you give him/her another chance?
c) A lot of people says that money is not important in relationships. But a lot of broken relationships have occured due to broken relationships. Though you love this person...will you give up this person because realistically...and I mean realistically...that it is unable to carry on this relationship because one of the party is so poor that everywhere you go, you have to pay for him/her. In this case, you love the person but he/she is poor and lazy in looking for a proper job. Will you still stick to the relationship out of love?
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Originally posted by Chrysalis_Guy:
[b]How will you react to the below situations?
a) If your gf/bf doesn't understand you even after you have repeatedly confided in him/her your problems and stress and keep arguing with you over the slightest things?
If u love him/her, keep in heart ba..LL..no choice...
b) If your bf/gf was unfaithful to you. Will you give him/her another chance?
Well, for my ex i told her to 4get everything & start afresh, some may say"wrong 1 time, may hv 2nd time" but when the point u feel u cannot lose tat person, watever she do ,u also wun wan her to leave ur sight..thus may become more possessive lor...
c) A lot of people says that money is not important in relationships. But a lot of broken relationships have occured due to broken relationships. Though you love this person...will you give up this person because realistically...and I mean realistically...that it is unable to carry on this relationship because one of the party is so poor that everywhere you go, you have to pay for him/her. In this case, you love the person but he/she is poor and lazy in looking for a proper job. Will you still stick to the relationship out of love?
Back to my ex, she told me tat its part of a reason, after thinking it over i find it true, who wan to settle down wid a person tat everyday dun work, eat & sleep, if really marry, got kids, how to hell to survive...so i feel it dose somehow make a differance...
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can curse yr luck n leave with it lor...
but better go find another one, cos how to long term???
b definitely NO...leopard never change its spots
happens once will happens again...
c me also jobless for months liao...
but my wifey still supports me cos i've been constantly looking...
but if a guy too lazy to work, u are better off w/o him. -
Originally posted by Chrysalis_Guy:
a) Talk and communicate. If things still don't work up, really, like what FireIce has mentioned, "LAN LAN".
[b]How will you react to the below situations?
a) If your gf/bf doesn't understand you even after you have repeatedly confided in him/her your problems and stress and keep arguing with you over the slightest things?
b) If your bf/gf was unfaithful to you. Will you give him/her another chance?
c) A lot of people says that money is not important in relationships. But a lot of broken relationships have occured due to broken relationships. Though you love this person...will you give up this person because realistically...and I mean realistically...that it is unable to carry on this relationship because one of the party is so poor that everywhere you go, you have to pay for him/her. In this case, you love the person but he/she is poor and lazy in looking for a proper job. Will you still stick to the relationship out of love?
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b) Depends on how much I love her.
c) Not a problem. Or perhaps, I am still young. -
the_don says:
a) If your gf/bf doesn't understand you even after you have repeatedly confided in him/her your problems and stress and keep arguing with you over the slightest things?
==>> if u don't understand your other half and do not sarport him/her the way u want to be sarported, then don't expect sarport and understanding from him/her.
b) If your bf/gf was unfaithful to you. Will you give him/her another chance?
==>> would you? personally i buay tahan cos faithfulness is a choice, no matter what the decision to stray or not is yours. reason like "my bf/gf give me problems. that gal/guy happen to be there, etc" is crap.
c) A lot of people says that money is not important in relationships. But a lot of broken relationships have occured due to broken relationships. Though you love this person...will you give up this person because realistically...and I mean realistically...that it is unable to carry on this relationship because one of the party is so poor that everywhere you go, you have to pay for him/her. In this case, you love the person but he/she is poor and lazy in looking for a proper job. Will you still stick to the relationship out of love?
==>> if u love someone, like him/her fully and as he/she is. if now oready got doubts, get married then how? divorce? pls lah, don't waste your time and his/her tim. heartaches are not fun loh. -
not my problem
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A) Communication is very impt. If yr partner is not understanding & u always quarrel over little things, then better to break up.
B) Once the trust is gone, it will take great effort to make relationship work. Also depends on whether the person really regret & won't make the mistake again.
C) Poor is not a problem if he/she is hardworking. But don't ever let him become a parasite & live off u.