Your First Boyfren/Girlfren
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i am like still with my first... sigh... so tired... worst thing is right... we're in the same cohort ! many problems but i chose to stay with him lah... coz i love him still alots... but seems like i am treating him better n he's neglecting me ... =(
everytime got problem, he will find someone else in the cohort to tell... i will call him up n sort out... *_*
feel that he doesnt love me leh... just say say only... i wan action !
nv like call me up to ask me how i am feeling now n then.
when i am sick... he doesnt call up n say he care...
But I still chose to stick with him now... see how... i still care alot and call him up ask him hw he is now n then... i cant bear to hurt him by wanting a breakup/ feels so lonely w/o him... n yet he doesnt seem to care =( unless i call him up ...
is it true that Pisces have are soft hearted ???
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My first gf happened when i was in secondary one.
*sigh*
Hanging out at Mac's to eat and revise work together.
Watch movies.
Go shopping.
Play arcade.
I believed she was my ONE until she got diagnosed with leukemia and lost her life.
Rest in Peace Emily
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First GF, seems so long ago. Sad story...my fault.
We still keep in contact, went to her daughter(1st mth) at her home with my wife last year.
At time, still SMS abit, but not much as her hubby abit jealous type...
Lessoned learned:
Give & Take
Love & Share
Forgive & Forget
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You have a tendency to trap yourself within a circle... Understand that some things cannot be forced...Originally posted by furry_potter:i am like still with my first... sigh... so tired... worst thing is right... we're in the same cohort ! many problems but i chose to stay with him lah... coz i love him still alots... but seems like i am treating him better n he's neglecting me ... =(
everytime got problem, he will find someone else in the cohort to tell... i will call him up n sort out... *_*
feel that he doesnt love me leh... just say say only... i wan action !
nv like call me up to ask me how i am feeling now n then.
when i am sick... he doesnt call up n say he care...
But I still chose to stick with him now... see how... i still care alot and call him up ask him hw he is now n then... i cant bear to hurt him by wanting a breakup/ feels so lonely w/o him... n yet he doesnt seem to care =( unless i call him up ...
is it true that Pisces have are soft hearted ??? -
Ur Pisces qn: Yesh, Pisceans r incredibly soft-hearted, AND kind-hearted.
*hugz* Sometimes it takes a v. long time to let go, but hopefully he'll finally sort out his priorities. Dun take 2nd best, my girl, altho we shdn't go too far & expect us to be our guys' ONLY priorities...
RPOriginally posted by furry_potter:i am like still with my first... sigh... so tired... worst thing is right... we're in the same cohort ! many problems but i chose to stay with him lah... coz i love him still alots... but seems like i am treating him better n he's neglecting me ... =(
everytime got problem, he will find someone else in the cohort to tell... i will call him up n sort out... *_*
feel that he doesnt love me leh... just say say only... i wan action !
nv like call me up to ask me how i am feeling now n then.
when i am sick... he doesnt call up n say he care...
But I still chose to stick with him now... see how... i still care alot and call him up ask him hw he is now n then... i cant bear to hurt him by wanting a breakup/ feels so lonely w/o him... n yet he doesnt seem to care =( unless i call him up ...
is it true that Pisces have are soft hearted ??? -
my first ex, tried to get close to me but i was too green n innocent so rejected him many times. soon he got sian n we broke up.
my 1st serious ex, we are still in contact, we are good friends now.
we started from being very gd friends and ended up in love.
at the end we broke up and realized its still better being gd friends. -
i'm happy for your that u broke up with your first ex (not the serious one)... he is a jerk
*pat pat garfeel*Originally posted by Garfeel:my first ex, tried to get close to me but i was too green n innocent so rejected him many times. soon he got sian n we broke up.
my 1st serious ex, we are still in contact, we are good friends now.
we started from being very gd friends and ended up in love.
at the end we broke up and realized its still better being gd friends. -
What is love?Do we know how to love?How can we be sure we love that person? We love ourselves more than anyone or anything in this world.
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Totally agree with this. If the first one can be the last one, you are a lucky one!Originally posted by amuletgurl:i always believe so,thats y the last one matters,not the 1st
Mine was just a wrong to begin with. Although so, do think of him once in a while but it's just another nightmare for the night. -
*smilez*
There's someone for ev. body, I believe, altho there're increasing #s who choose to be single. Gd for them, I'd sez, if it makes them happee : )
RPOriginally posted by Starletz:Totally agree with this. If the first one can be the last one, you are a lucky one!
Mine was just a wrong to begin with. Although so, do think of him once in a while but it's just another nightmare for the night. -
hee... Yupz. I still believe in that there's someone for everybody. And I'm still waiting for mine to appear....Originally posted by RainbowPrincess:*smilez*
There's someone for ev. body, I believe, altho there're increasing #s who choose to be single. Gd for them, I'd sez, if it makes them happee : )
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Yeah. U and I are standing on the same side...waiting...waiting...waiting...dunno until when.Originally posted by Starletz:hee... Yupz. I still believe in that there's someone for everybody. And I'm still waiting for mine to appear.... -
i dun tink i have any real 1st bf..i have crushes on a lot of guys but they never really did cross over the line between frenship and relationsip..
i still remember my first crush la...at dat time i hated him, i m weird dat way. i will tell everyone in school i hated him, when in fact i liked him a lot. so one day he got into a big row wif me, said why i told ppl i hated him, and at dat time i really din like him anymore. So got cold war with him for several years, then as fate has it, he became my classmate during the last 2 years of my high school years. and summore, he became the president of the club, in which I was the secretary. But at dat time, i already liked sumone else...so we patched things up lor, until now we still kept in touch...he became so leng chai oledi sia...heard the latest news is he became part time model oledi...
so i wonder when will my first love come into my life?
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Guess after so many years of being in and out of r/s trying to figure if this guy or that guy is THE ONE or that whether things would turn out fine. I've came to realise that some things would just appear at the unexpected moment. SO DUN FRET! I've sort of stopped "FINDING LOVE". heee... Coz I guess if someone's mine, he'll be mine. I'm just waiting for that unexpected moment to occur. You will too... heee... no harm continuing your little dreams as long as you don't pin too much hopes on someone that you think MIGHT be THE ONE. THat was me in the past....Originally posted by GrimR:Yeah. U and I are standing on the same side...waiting...waiting...waiting...dunno until when. 
By the way, I still believe in r/s that starts from friends are THE BEST coz it's with the strongest foundation of knowing someone well and falling in love with the someone you know thoroughly and not an ideal one that you want him or her to be. hehe....
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my first love was with my neighbour's cat. -
agrees.... me think that way too...Originally posted by Starletz:Guess after so many years of being in and out of r/s trying to figure if this guy or that guy is THE ONE or that whether things would turn out fine. I've came to realise that some things would just appear at the unexpected moment. SO DUN FRET! I've sort of stopped "FINDING LOVE". heee... Coz I guess if someone's mine, he'll be mine. I'm just waiting for that unexpected moment to occur. You will too... heee... no harm continuing your little dreams as long as you don't pin too much hopes on someone that you think MIGHT be THE ONE. THat was me in the past....
By the way, I still believe in r/s that starts from friends are THE BEST coz it's with the strongest foundation of knowing someone well and falling in love with the someone you know thoroughly and not an ideal one that you want him or her to be. hehe.... -
+1Originally posted by p|p|:agrees.... me think that way too... 
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Haiz..... Where is the love ?
Actually single is better off but it's kinda lonely sometimes !
Now, Where's my love ?
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my first gf became my wife lao, but i still have gfs till now...
so be the first one is not important! -
I agree : )
My grumpyoldman is my v. best fren
RPOriginally posted by Starletz:Guess after so many years of being in and out of r/s trying to figure if this guy or that guy is THE ONE or that whether things would turn out fine. I've came to realise that some things would just appear at the unexpected moment. SO DUN FRET! I've sort of stopped "FINDING LOVE". heee... Coz I guess if someone's mine, he'll be mine. I'm just waiting for that unexpected moment to occur. You will too... heee... no harm continuing your little dreams as long as you don't pin too much hopes on someone that you think MIGHT be THE ONE. THat was me in the past....
By the way, I still believe in r/s that starts from friends are THE BEST coz it's with the strongest foundation of knowing someone well and falling in love with the someone you know thoroughly and not an ideal one that you want him or her to be. hehe....