GROW UP.Originally posted by JuNW3i:here's e situation...
A is my gf.. we juz gone steady..meetonly 1-2 times a wEek due to her busy sch schedule..at first..we had so much joy together...but recently..i juz had tat fEeling tat she's unhappy...e feeling isn't e same as before..she's seems so moody nowadays..whnever i ask her wat's wrong..she juz say nothin....then we always ran out of topics to chat while chatting...in e past it wasn't like tat...we could chat for hrs....feels tat she started to dun hav fEelings for me le..sometimes i juz dun Feel anything...
then there is my colleague, B.. noe her 1yr+ le... can get along really well wif her.. at first i treated her as very gd fren...but as times go by..i started to develop feelings for her...i noe its wrong coz me attached le.. but some how..i feel more comfy when i wif her...we always squabble wif each other...suaning each other non stop...we can chat on abt any topics.. then recently when we went clubbing wif our frenz...juz feel like sitting down wif her n chat..although i hyperactive type..normally prefer dancing.. dunno y.. she told me b4 tat she likes me...but i presumed tat she juz joking wif me...considering e fact tat we always joke ard...but some how..now i tink its true..
now i having a dilemma..whether to continue my r/s wif A n remains as gd frenz wif B..or break off wif A..n start pursueing B.....help help
Dear JuNW3i,Originally posted by JuNW3i:here's e situation...
A is my gf.. we juz gone steady..meetonly 1-2 times a wEek due to her busy sch schedule..at first..we had so much joy together...but recently..i juz had tat fEeling tat she's unhappy...e feeling isn't e same as before..she's seems so moody nowadays..whnever i ask her wat's wrong..she juz say nothin....then we always ran out of topics to chat while chatting...in e past it wasn't like tat...we could chat for hrs....feels tat she started to dun hav fEelings for me le..sometimes i juz dun Feel anything...
then there is my colleague, B.. noe her 1yr+ le... can get along really well wif her.. at first i treated her as very gd fren...but as times go by..i started to develop feelings for her...i noe its wrong coz me attached le.. but some how..i feel more comfy when i wif her...we always squabble wif each other...suaning each other non stop...we can chat on abt any topics.. then recently when we went clubbing wif our frenz...juz feel like sitting down wif her n chat..although i hyperactive type..normally prefer dancing.. dunno y.. she told me b4 tat she likes me...but i presumed tat she juz joking wif me...considering e fact tat we always joke ard...but some how..now i tink its true..
now i having a dilemma..whether to continue my r/s wif A n remains as gd frenz wif B..or break off wif A..n start pursueing B.....help help
You should keep both. Keep your options open. Wait for one of them to ask you to commit. If none of them asks your committment, you are still in the green zone which is good. GIrls do it too.Originally posted by JuNW3i:here's e situation...
A is my gf.. we juz gone steady..meetonly 1-2 times a wEek due to her busy sch schedule..at first..we had so much joy together...but recently..i juz had tat fEeling tat she's unhappy...e feeling isn't e same as before..she's seems so moody nowadays..whnever i ask her wat's wrong..she juz say nothin....then we always ran out of topics to chat while chatting...in e past it wasn't like tat...we could chat for hrs....feels tat she started to dun hav fEelings for me le..sometimes i juz dun Feel anything...
then there is my colleague, B.. noe her 1yr+ le... can get along really well wif her.. at first i treated her as very gd fren...but as times go by..i started to develop feelings for her...i noe its wrong coz me attached le.. but some how..i feel more comfy when i wif her...we always squabble wif each other...suaning each other non stop...we can chat on abt any topics.. then recently when we went clubbing wif our frenz...juz feel like sitting down wif her n chat..although i hyperactive type..normally prefer dancing.. dunno y.. she told me b4 tat she likes me...but i presumed tat she juz joking wif me...considering e fact tat we always joke ard...but some how..now i tink its true..
now i having a dilemma..whether to continue my r/s wif A n remains as gd frenz wif B..or break off wif A..n start pursueing B.....help help
intro A to me. go start wif B.Originally posted by JuNW3i:here's e situation...
A is my gf.. we juz gone steady..meetonly 1-2 times a wEek due to her busy sch schedule..at first..we had so much joy together...but recently..i juz had tat fEeling tat she's unhappy...e feeling isn't e same as before..she's seems so moody nowadays..whnever i ask her wat's wrong..she juz say nothin....then we always ran out of topics to chat while chatting...in e past it wasn't like tat...we could chat for hrs....feels tat she started to dun hav fEelings for me le..sometimes i juz dun Feel anything...
then there is my colleague, B.. noe her 1yr+ le... can get along really well wif her.. at first i treated her as very gd fren...but as times go by..i started to develop feelings for her...i noe its wrong coz me attached le.. but some how..i feel more comfy when i wif her...we always squabble wif each other...suaning each other non stop...we can chat on abt any topics.. then recently when we went clubbing wif our frenz...juz feel like sitting down wif her n chat..although i hyperactive type..normally prefer dancing.. dunno y.. she told me b4 tat she likes me...but i presumed tat she juz joking wif me...considering e fact tat we always joke ard...but some how..now i tink its true..
now i having a dilemma..whether to continue my r/s wif A n remains as gd frenz wif B..or break off wif A..n start pursueing B.....help help
Originally posted by JuNW3i:here's e situation...
A is my gf.. we juz gone steady..meetonly 1-2 times a wEek due to her busy sch schedule..at first..we had so much joy together...but recently..i juz had tat fEeling tat she's unhappy...e feeling isn't e same as before..she's seems so moody nowadays..whnever i ask her wat's wrong..she juz say nothin....then we always ran out of topics to chat while chatting...in e past it wasn't like tat...we could chat for hrs....feels tat she started to dun hav fEelings for me le..sometimes i juz dun Feel anything...
then there is my colleague, B.. noe her 1yr+ le... can get along really well wif her.. at first i treated her as very gd fren...but as times go by..i started to develop feelings for her...i noe its wrong coz me attached le.. but some how..i feel more comfy when i wif her...we always squabble wif each other...suaning each other non stop...we can chat on abt any topics.. then recently when we went clubbing wif our frenz...juz feel like sitting down wif her n chat..although i hyperactive type..normally prefer dancing.. dunno y.. she told me b4 tat she likes me...but i presumed tat she juz joking wif me...considering e fact tat we always joke ard...but some how..now i tink its true..
now i having a dilemma..whether to continue my r/s wif A n remains as gd frenz wif B..or break off wif A..n start pursueing B.....help help