Wat can I do?

• icekid

  31 Aug 04, 21:24

  Hi all. My gf broke up with me a week ago. The reason given was she could not cope with her schedule and was afraid to neglect me. Tried persuading, but she still wanna break up. Just today,we met coincidentially and started talking.She told me she regretted her decision and said it wld be hard to patch up. As we continued talking, she even pictured the good times we had if we patched. She seemed like she wanted to patch, but again,she was afraid.
  
  My ques is: Does she still have feelings for me? If so,are there any methods for me to sound her out? and Wat can I do?
  
  Thanks for reading..
• ahmike

  31 Aug 04, 22:19

  Originally posted by icekid:

  Hi all. My gf broke up with me a week ago. The reason given was she could not cope with her schedule and was afraid to neglect me. Tried persuading, but she still wanna break up. Just today,we met coincidentially and started talking.She told me she regretted her decision and said it wld be hard to patch up. As we continued talking, she even pictured the good times we had if we patched. She seemed like she wanted to patch, but again,she was afraid.
  
  My ques is: Does she still have feelings for me? If so,are there any methods for me to sound her out? and Wat can I do?
  
  Thanks for reading..

  Wahlau.... u my bro lah....
  
  This case also happen to me ...but on Sun...haih sad and happy ending...sniff sniff
• Devil1976

  1 Sep 04, 10:10

  Originally posted by icekid:

  Hi all. My gf broke up with me a week ago. The reason given was she could not cope with her schedule and was afraid to neglect me. Tried persuading, but she still wanna break up. Just today,we met coincidentially and started talking.She told me she regretted her decision and said it wld be hard to patch up. As we continued talking, she even pictured the good times we had if we patched. She seemed like she wanted to patch, but again,she was afraid.
  
  My ques is: Does she still have feelings for me? If so,are there any methods for me to sound her out? and Wat can I do?
  
  Thanks for reading..

  How old are the both of you? What sort of schedule..?
• Estee

  1 Sep 04, 10:14

  the whether she loves you thingie... only she will know the answer.
• kaobeikaobu

  1 Sep 04, 11:04

  Originally posted by icekid:

  Hi all. My gf broke up with me a week ago. The reason given was she could not cope with her schedule and was afraid to neglect me. Tried persuading, but she still wanna break up. Just today,we met coincidentially and started talking.She told me she regretted her decision and said it wld be hard to patch up. As we continued talking, she even pictured the good times we had if we patched. She seemed like she wanted to patch, but again,she was afraid.
  
  My ques is: Does she still have feelings for me? If so,are there any methods for me to sound her out? and Wat can I do?
  
  Thanks for reading..

  she still has but i believe your relationship is nt as good as last time. Dun patch up too fast if the only reason to is that both of you HAD good times.
  
  Have a good heart-to-heart talk. find out the real problems (e.g. whether she's afraid about commitments..tired etc)....also lend a listening ear about her busy schedule...b understanding and help her whatever you can along the way.
• pete98

  1 Sep 04, 11:11

  Relationship is not only about love, its about commitment too. Both of you must be willing to go through good/bad times with each other. Whats the point if you only stay for good time but break up the next momment theres a little hardship.
• Yunhaier

  1 Sep 04, 18:07

  Originally posted by icekid:

  Hi all. My gf broke up with me a week ago. The reason given was she could not cope with her schedule and was afraid to neglect me. Tried persuading, but she still wanna break up. Just today,we met coincidentially and started talking.She told me she regretted her decision and said it wld be hard to patch up. As we continued talking, she even pictured the good times we had if we patched. She seemed like she wanted to patch, but again,she was afraid.
  
  My ques is: Does she still have feelings for me? If so,are there any methods for me to sound her out? and Wat can I do?
  
  Thanks for reading..

  You must be quite young? (Or at least, she is)
  
  Relationship don't end because you can't seemed to organize time well - That's a poor reason. She can't handle her personal stress, she took it on the relationship. After chilling, she regreted? It really wonders how on earth can your relationship survive future hardship, especially it couldn't even bypass such simple issue?
  
  She needs to understand and evolve her attitude towards her own love affairs - develop a new mindset for it. She is afraid of WHAT? Shouldn't you be more afraid that history will repeat if you were to patch with you and left you stranded alone again?
  
  Cheers
• Hershey

  2 Sep 04, 01:14

  i guess she is just afraid to committ.....well maybe when she thinks it over and is ready to committ she will come back to you
• BrUtUs

  2 Sep 04, 02:51

  Originally posted by icekid:

  Hi all. My gf broke up with me a week ago. The reason given was she could not cope with her schedule and was afraid to neglect me. Tried persuading, but she still wanna break up. Just today,we met coincidentially and started talking.She told me she regretted her decision and said it wld be hard to patch up. As we continued talking, she even pictured the good times we had if we patched. She seemed like she wanted to patch, but again,she was afraid.
  
  My ques is: Does she still have feelings for me? If so,are there any methods for me to sound her out? and Wat can I do?
  
  Thanks for reading..

  guess she still hv feeling for u, well jz tell her ur door is always open, n show her tat u can cope wif her schedule...