Find out what she like to do and where she likes to go... (note. not where she would usually like to go / hang out)Originally posted by superworm99:hi,
i need some advice on dating a gal out. i got to know a gal about 4 months back. i went out with her for about 3 times and thereafter, she kinda stopped going out with me. we lost contact after i sms her telling her that i like her. she avoided replying to my sms and rejected my calls.
2 months back, we got in touch again after i introduced a customer to her business. thereafter, i have been helping her run small errands in her office. we did went out a few times thereafter. last week, i was with her and we started talking about our previous bf and gf respectively.
i tried to ask her out again this week and she asked what will we be doing when we meet up. my reply was dinner. she seemed hesitant to meet up because dinner is like quite a routine thing for her as she meets up her friends for dinner regularly, if not daily (her parents are not in singapore)
me being a "not so exciting person" and without a car, i have problem suggesting places to go to and things to do. i usually ask her for dinner and movies.
i do not have any idea as to where are good places to ask her out to. can anyone help by giving me suggestions (i do not own a car)
also, is she trying to sound me out by finding out about my past relationships?
Originally posted by Devil1976:Find out what she like to do and where she likes to go... (note. not where she would usually like to go / hang out)
ULTIMATELY, it'll probabaly still be YOU, HER and the CONVERSATION you're having with her... Don't worry too much about the 'superficials' (not that you should totally ignore them), as a lady who's too much into 'superficials' would probabaly give you an EQUALLY 'superficial' relationship...
i guess u are right...Originally posted by nuchio:sorry to tell you this... really...
1. she decided she didnt like you after going out with you initially, that's why she stopped going out with you after you sms her you liked her.
2. she went out the second time round with you to as a friend, and possibly grateful that you introduced the customers and ran errands in her office.
3. sharing about ex is only sharing, need not be interested in you or wanting to know more. friends, sometimes strangers also talk about the ex.
4. she is not hesitant about dinner, she is hesitant about meeting you. everybody has to eat, what is there to be hesitant about?
5. you have inferior complex - because you dont have a car. dont conveniently blame the car, do some soul searching.
6. if she likes you enough, she just to go where ever you are. even if she has to sit at macs and listen to you talk all night, she would.
7. she isnt interested in you. you probably would have known that. you are in denial because you dont want a reason to give her up.
BE BRAVE and move on. dont waste anymore of your time and effort on her. go find someone who will want to be with you, care for you and most of all, worthy of your love and affection.
you can do it. just do it.