Ways to move on ??

• Blueskyz

  6 Sep 04, 00:40

  Hi,
  
  I'm a newbie here. Anyone has any suggestions on how to move on after a failed relationship?
  
  Been trying hard to salvage it but nothing seems to work
  
  Guess the only choice now is to move on but its really hard to let go, or rather I'm not willing to let go.
• MooKu

  6 Sep 04, 00:41

  Fill your life with activities that may help to take your mind off things?
• *Lord Kang*

  6 Sep 04, 00:48

  Letting go needs time...Fill your life with other things...Do things u always wanted to do and go places u always wanted to do...Everything needs time...Just let time heal the wound...
• larry_longwei

  6 Sep 04, 00:52

  yeps.. keep ur mind occupied wif something..
  e.g. glue urself to sgforums.. hehe
  
  http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=92322
• Himbo

  6 Sep 04, 01:03

  Go church
• men_@_arms

  6 Sep 04, 01:06

  Go out with other girls. Take up weight-training. Play soccer. Play AD&D or Warmachine at PI. Drink. Errrrrr Draw.. i dunno.
• SnowFlag

  6 Sep 04, 01:08

  chang tong bu ru dun tong....just turn over a new life
• Blueskyz

  6 Sep 04, 01:40

  Thanks.
  
  I have tried everything but nothing seems to work.
  
  
• larry_longwei

  6 Sep 04, 02:05

  Originally posted by Blueskyz:

  Thanks.
  
  I have tried everything but nothing seems to work.
  
  

  glue urself to the forum n start crapping.. u'll get over it soon..
• larry_longwei

  6 Sep 04, 02:07

  Originally posted by Blueskyz:

  Hi,
  
  I'm a newbie here. Anyone has any suggestions on how to move on after a failed relationship?
  
  Been trying hard to salvage it but nothing seems to work
  
  Guess the only choice now is to move on but its really hard to let go, or rather I'm not willing to let go.

  Read thru tis..
  
  http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=91918
• Himbo

  6 Sep 04, 02:11

  Originally posted by Blueskyz:

  Thanks.
  
  I have tried everything but nothing seems to work.
  
  

  Nothing seems to work ah? Then die liao lor. That's it. The End. That means you will never move on already. You will spend the rest of your life missing whoever. I think you will never get married liao. But even if you do get married, it will only be pretend only, coz you will never forget this girl coz u tried and nothing works already. Die....so sad for you...
• Blueskyz

  6 Sep 04, 02:18

  Originally posted by Himbo:

  Nothing seems to work ah? Then die liao lor. That's it. The End. That means you will never move on already. You will spend the rest of your life missing whoever. I think you will never get married liao. But even if you do get married, it will only be pretend only, coz you will never forget this girl coz u tried and nothing works already. Die....so sad for you...

  
  
  By the way, I'm a gal.
  
  I can only try my best.
• the Bear

  6 Sep 04, 02:22

  trying your best is good...
  
  maybe you could do stuff.. stuff you liked doing by yourself...
  
  or heck! go out with us!!
  
  make new friends!!
  
  i think there'll be a sentosa outing soon.. 19th i think.. join us if you can for beach volleyball, football, cycling, blading, swimming, suntanning or just sit around and vege, play daidee or just indulge in conversation
  
  or the other smaller ones.. there are movies, fishing, ice-cream... stuff like that... just like on sunday, bunch of people went to Pulau Ubin and another mob went to Fish and Co to celebrate MoonIce's birthday
  
  you can move on... give it time and activities
  
  we all can... if we put our minds and souls into it
  
  be well...
  
  p.s. of you dunno what sentosa i'm talking about, click on the smiley =>
• larry_longwei

  6 Sep 04, 02:29

  Originally posted by Blueskyz:

  
  
  By the way, I'm a gal.
  
  I can only try my best.

  take it ez la.. he's juz trying reverse-psychology...
  
  u'll get thru it.. no worries.. u hav all we forumites backing u..
• Ice79

  6 Sep 04, 04:23

  "let's break up" is always so easy to say, but how many of us are actually ready to move on upon saying that
  
  keep busy helps in getting over someone, but we can't possibly be busy 18 hrs a day, even machines also break down lah. when time to slow down pace, memories will still come back. guess for those who are still recovering from a failed relationship, we can only hope that time will be the ultimate answer
• larry_longwei

  6 Sep 04, 04:34

  Originally posted by Ice79:

  "let's break up" is always so easy to say, but how many of us are actually ready to move on upon saying that
  
  keep busy helps in getting over someone, but we can't possibly be busy 18 hrs a day, even machines also break down lah. when time to slow down pace, memories will still come back. guess for those who are still recovering from a failed relationship, we can only hope that time will be the ultimate answer

  Time May Heal.. But The Scars Remains..
  but i guess its still the best solution..
• Yunhaier

  6 Sep 04, 11:33

  Originally posted by Blueskyz:

  Hi,
  
  I'm a newbie here. Anyone has any suggestions on how to move on after a failed relationship?
  
  Been trying hard to salvage it but nothing seems to work
  
  Guess the only choice now is to move on but its really hard to let go, or rather I'm not willing to let go.

  The day when you have moved on, is the day when you felt you could more or less walk emotionally away from your plight and when you looked back, you know it's merely memories left. Sometimes, we want to move on, but we subconsciously held back. Don't - release yourself.
  
  P.S: You won't be able to forget, avoid trying to forget. Learn to get used.
  
  Cheers
• Blueskyz

  6 Sep 04, 12:11

  Originally posted by Ice79:

  "let's break up" is always so easy to say, but how many of us are actually ready to move on upon saying that
  
  keep busy helps in getting over someone, but we can't possibly be busy 18 hrs a day, even machines also break down lah. when time to slow down pace, memories will still come back. guess for those who are still recovering from a failed relationship, we can only hope that time will be the ultimate answer

  Guess time is the only answer.
• Blueskyz

  6 Sep 04, 12:14

  
  u'll get thru it.. no worries.. u hav all we forumites backing u.. [/b][/quote]
  
  Thanks.
• Blueskyz

  6 Sep 04, 12:17

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  trying your best is good...
  
  maybe you could do stuff.. stuff you liked doing by yourself...
  
  or heck! go out with us!!
  
  make new friends!!
  
  i think there'll be a sentosa outing soon.. 19th i think.. join us if you can for beach volleyball, football, cycling, blading, swimming, suntanning or just sit around and vege, play daidee or just indulge in conversation
  
  or the other smaller ones.. there are movies, fishing, ice-cream... stuff like that... just like on sunday, bunch of people went to Pulau Ubin and another mob went to Fish and Co to celebrate MoonIce's birthday
  
  you can move on... give it time and activities
  
  we all can... if we put our minds and souls into it
  
  be well...
  
  p.s. of you dunno what sentosa i'm talking about, click on the smiley =>

  Seems like a good suggestion, I may consider joining in.
• Fuqua

  6 Sep 04, 12:18

  Originally posted by Blueskyz:

  Hi,
  
  I'm a newbie here. Anyone has any suggestions on how to move on after a failed relationship?
  
  Been trying hard to salvage it but nothing seems to work
  
  Guess the only choice now is to move on but its really hard to let go, or rather I'm not willing to let go.

  My condelences.
  There's no 1 way of doing it.
  But take heart that millions of ppl has had a failed relationship, and million of ppl has survived thro it.
  U can too.
  Good luck.
• xking

  6 Sep 04, 12:29

  Originally posted by MooKu:

  Fill your life with activities that may help to take your mind off things?

  ya agree wif that.
  Spent more times wif frenz. Jus dun bored urself at home after a failed relationship N think n think all the negative things.
  
  After a while...u'll move on
• larry_longwei

  6 Sep 04, 12:44

  Originally posted by Blueskyz:

  u'll get thru it.. no worries.. u hav all we forumites backing u..

  Thanks.[/b][/quote]
  
  
• Devil1976

  6 Sep 04, 17:16

  -double-
• Devil1976

  6 Sep 04, 17:17

  Originally posted by Blueskyz:

  Hi,
  
  I'm a newbie here. Anyone has any suggestions on how to move on after a failed relationship?
  
  Been trying hard to salvage it but nothing seems to work
  
  Guess the only choice now is to move on but its really hard to let go, or rather I'm not willing to let go.

  That is one of the basic requirement... Hanging on to a dead body won't revive it....