How to convince gf that you had forgotten your ex ?

• browniebaobao

  11 Sep 04, 10:11

  Originally posted by december:

  How do i convince her ? I definately had gotten over my ex and i accepts for whoever she is
  

  
  Action speaks louder than words and words are dirt cheap.
  
  I can't tell u what to do..coz i duno..never have to convince people that my love for them is true..they can feel it..
• Devil1976

  12 Sep 04, 13:59

  Originally posted by december:

  But the problem we had a quarrel
  I just lost myself and said
  My other ex had nv treated me like how u had treated me
  How do i save this situation ?

  Hope you've learnt your lesson...
  
  Words once spoken, cannot be retrieve back... Avoid acting on your impulses next time...
• 101wish

  17 Sep 04, 19:49

  Originally posted by Yunhaier:

  One of the worst remark anyone could ever make is to compare him/her with his/her ex. That is pure downright trashing of love, ego, self esteem and perfect element for an ultimate quarrel.
  
  I always believe that it's crap about declaring 'I love you more than my ex' type of statement. There's no need to declare, you only need to show and that's good enough. Learn 'I love my gf' than to compare it with another model shaped from your fantasy, past or future.
  
  So if this relationship don't work out, I presume in your next relationship, you will say you love her more than your latest ex-gf? There's no ending to comparative equation and in the end, you will never truely understand or know your real gf completely.
  
  Cheers

  yeah, raise my both arms. kekeke, DO NOT compare n complain ur gf with ur ex, dun ever mention wat sooo gd abt ur ex, defintely wil on fire, hahaha
• caramelgal

  17 Sep 04, 20:35

  Originally posted by december:

  As in above ? How do i convince her that i had forgotten my ex and i love her more than i love my ex ?
  

  don talk about her.even when she asked you know sometimes ppl get carried away and tell more then they should? just say forgot liao lor. afterall not with her liao so remember so much for wat. i guess she will be pleased
• nuchio

  17 Sep 04, 22:10

  Originally posted by Kennerve:

  Do some soul searching on what you have said and done.. You said things which is NOT ought to be said.. NEVER compare your ex with ur bf/gf.. It will hurt the other party..
  
  What i can suggest is let things cool down between u 2 first.. Ask her out and APOLOGISE with sincerity. This sort of things.. if you have made that mistake.. admit it.. And see what she does abt it.

  i agree that apologising is important so that you both can move on. let her know that you do need time to get used to her way and asks her to be patient with you. tell her you care enough about the relationship to keep trying (women like to hear these mushy stuff..really) and act the part.
  
  difficult situations will arise in any relationship. honesty, openess and sharing is important. let this be a starting point to open communication in your relationship.
  
  good luck.
  
  p/s - you sure you over your ex? seems like you didnt have a choice because you are no longer together..