a poor boi's story...
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hi pple i am asking if u all can give me ani advice on my situation...
i am a simple n ordinary guy with no special talents or skills to boost
off.. neither am i a rich or handsome guy too.. i had never been in a
relationship in my entire 21 yrs of life.. though i do like gals b4..
here is goes, i've known her since jc1 and realli admired and
liked her since yr 2000..
but i did not do anithing but just silently suppressed the feelings and
emotions deep inside me cause last time my opinion was that i had
to study hard and do well for my A levels and also i will be enlisted
into the army n will not have time for such this relationship..
Also i had this sort of inferiority complex in me tat no gal would ever
accept or like some1 like me then...
so when during army we kinda lost contact though sometimes we do go
out in a group of jc friends.
now i had finished servin the army and just started my uni sch term.
just went out with that gal for her 2 weeks in advance birthday
celebration on last sunday and upon seeing her again i developed this
"xin dong" feeling for her again... realli feel like she's the one and
i cannot help but always thinkin of her. Though she is not veri pretty
i am captivated by her smile, eyes, behaviour etc.. ( hard to define)
i just can't help but wonder if she has ani good feelings towards me..
i think she does not have a boifren currently and i will realli like
to be with her. i am thinking of asking her out and giving her a
birthdae present on her actual birthday. but dun reali know wat to buy
or how to get the courage to ask her out and tell her that i like her..
could u kind pple pls give me some advice as to wat i shd do??? -
jus go for it...
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yal0r.......just do it
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jia you jia you !!
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Hey man, just ask her out.
Most ppl belong to the average category anyways. -
r you a guy? if u are, u should have the balls are date her out. no risk no gain. u r human she also human, no reason why u should be afraid of
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Originally posted by c2on2:hi pple i am asking if u all can give me ani advice on my situation...
i am a simple n ordinary guy with no special talents or skills to boost
off.. neither am i a rich or handsome guy too.. i had never been in a
relationship in my entire 21 yrs of life.. though i do like gals b4..
here is goes, i've known her since jc1 and realli admired and
liked her since yr 2000..
but i did not do anithing but just silently suppressed the feelings and
emotions deep inside me cause last time my opinion was that i had
to study hard and do well for my A levels and also i will be enlisted
into the army n will not have time for such this relationship..
Also i had this sort of inferiority complex in me tat no gal would ever
accept or like some1 like me then...
so when during army we kinda lost contact though sometimes we do go
out in a group of jc friends.
now i had finished servin the army and just started my uni sch term.
just went out with that gal for her 2 weeks in advance birthday
celebration on last sunday and upon seeing her again i developed this
"xin dong" feeling for her again... realli feel like she's the one and
i cannot help but always thinkin of her. Though she is not veri pretty
i am captivated by her smile, eyes, behaviour etc.. ( hard to define)
i just can't help but wonder if she has ani good feelings towards me..
i think she does not have a boifren currently and i will realli like
to be with her. i am thinking of asking her out and giving her a
birthdae present on her actual birthday. but dun reali know wat to buy
or how to get the courage to ask her out and tell her that i like her..
could u kind pple pls give me some advice as to wat i shd do???
This is a great chance to break through your current stage - not saying that by chasing her you will definitely get her as your gf - however, this is a form of challenge to youself. Would you like to break free from your 21 years of mono love life and attempt something?
Warning: You may fail, but at least you gain experience. In business, the legendary theory always apply - high risk, high gain. Low risk, low gain. You make your choice.
Cheers -
haha....
all the best 2 u man.... -
ask her out la...fun
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Go for it! Who noes..sekali she has been waiting for u keke
Buy a cake, bring her to the seaside or watver, sing birthday song, give her a surprise! Confess ur feelings for her and make here touched by your words
What to buy? If you can afford it, maybe a necklace, bracelet or watever..but not too expensive lor..she might not accept. Anyway it's the thoughts that counts!
Gd luck!
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go for it, esp when both of u are single, things are so much easier....best still she still meet up with you after a few years that's a gd sign.... don regret for not open up your feelings, it will hurt alot of more if down e years, u found out she has a bf, n tell yers tat back then she also likes U...
As for gifts, best u can make one her, or create a present, girls will find it very sweet of you rather than just buy.... All the best to u -
Yeah ask her out. Get urself looking good and cleaned up 1st, appearance and personality-wise. As for the b-day thing, make her something urself, but.. make her something SIMPLE so u don;t come across as overly eager to please.. e.g. sandwhich
(BIG CHUNKY JUICY RICH CREAMY CRUNCHY one; subway times 10) -
Jus go ahead and do it.. but remember don't let your emotions over take your rational thinking.. this is not yet a chasing period or wat.. so don't spoilt it.. This is a good time for you to know her better and understand her more..Originally posted by c2on2:hi pple i am asking if u all can give me ani advice on my situation...
i am a simple n ordinary guy with no special talents or skills to boost
off.. neither am i a rich or handsome guy too.. i had never been in a
relationship in my entire 21 yrs of life.. though i do like gals b4..
here is goes, i've known her since jc1 and realli admired and
liked her since yr 2000..
but i did not do anithing but just silently suppressed the feelings and
emotions deep inside me cause last time my opinion was that i had
to study hard and do well for my A levels and also i will be enlisted
into the army n will not have time for such this relationship..
Also i had this sort of inferiority complex in me tat no gal would ever
accept or like some1 like me then...
so when during army we kinda lost contact though sometimes we do go
out in a group of jc friends.
now i had finished servin the army and just started my uni sch term.
just went out with that gal for her 2 weeks in advance birthday
celebration on last sunday and upon seeing her again i developed this
"xin dong" feeling for her again... realli feel like she's the one and
i cannot help but always thinkin of her. Though she is not veri pretty
i am captivated by her smile, eyes, behaviour etc.. ( hard to define)
i just can't help but wonder if she has ani good feelings towards me..
i think she does not have a boifren currently and i will realli like
to be with her. i am thinking of asking her out and giving her a
birthdae present on her actual birthday. but dun reali know wat to buy
or how to get the courage to ask her out and tell her that i like her..
could u kind pple pls give me some advice as to wat i shd do???
No pain no gain.. -
Wah Lau, you sound like me sia.
Know exactly how you feel... See I remember first day of secondary school, during registration I was KBKPing to my mother want to transfer because I no like the school... Then I saw her... Hehe. Then we happen to be in the same class... And who knows so lucky, even in the same House... Erm... House you know hor... Not people stay that kind of house. Then I even joined a CCA I didn't like just so I can see her, luckily that CCA gives people a lot of CCA points... If not I pengz ar... Then we were same class for 2 years.
And whenever she is around I would act siao siao to attract her attention... I know its not going to be the type of attention I want but still... Then Sec 3, Sec 4 that time we different class mah, then I always kaysiao walked around the school just to catch a glimpse of her... Now graduate liao... She go JC... I go Poly...
See who more miserable? -
eh brother, she has a boyfriend liao. what i can advise you is to broaden your social circle. Get to know more friends. If there are more gals, I dun care also. By opening your social circle, u will be open to more opportunities and by no less got more frinds.
can remain friends with this gal but have to tell yourself to draw the line very clear. by doing so, you won't be bothered by so much thinking that she's all u ever want mentality.
all the best. -
Erm, I thought he said she got no bf?Originally posted by F Takuyou:eh brother, she has a boyfriend liao. what i can advise you is to broaden your social circle. Get to know more friends. If there are more gals, I dun care also. By opening your social circle, u will be open to more opportunities and by no less got more frinds.
can remain friends with this gal but have to tell yourself to draw the line very clear. by doing so, you won't be bothered by so much thinking that she's all u ever want mentality.
all the best. -
oh no, so sorry about that.Originally posted by Ayukat:Erm, I thought he said she got no bf? -
hihi pple i just chatted with the gal on msn yesterdae and she like tried veri hard to sound me out as to whom i like... aniwae i din confess to her online but instead i asked if i could call her on the phone to tell her exactly how i feel towards her after i done my tutorial assignments
and she said ok...
then when i almost finished it i looked at the time and it was past 12 and i sent her a sms asking if she's asleep and if can call her now and seems that she did not reply it at all...
after that i sent another good night sleep tight sms to her and i myself sleep liao...
how shd i proceed now ar? -
Actually hor, just let your friends know about it and they big mouth go spread then observe her atitude towards you after that. The indirect way, but it works.Originally posted by c2on2:hihi pple i just chatted with the gal on msn yesterdae and she like tried veri hard to sound me out as to whom i like... aniwae i din confess to her online but instead i asked if i could call her on the phone to tell her exactly how i feel towards her after i done my tutorial assignments
and she said ok...
then when i almost finished it i looked at the time and it was past 12 and i sent her a sms asking if she's asleep and if can call her now and seems that she did not reply it at all...
after that i sent another good night sleep tight sms to her and i myself sleep liao...
how shd i proceed now ar? -
She obviously know how you feel towards her.. but she jus wanna hear it from your mouth.. Call her out and talk face to face.. In this situation is you that needs to know how she feels towards you and the guy.. So wat if you tell her? Is she goin to do anything about it?Originally posted by c2on2:hihi pple i just chatted with the gal on msn yesterdae and she like tried veri hard to sound me out as to whom i like... aniwae i din confess to her online but instead i asked if i could call her on the phone to tell her exactly how i feel towards her after i done my tutorial assignments
and she said ok...
then when i almost finished it i looked at the time and it was past 12 and i sent her a sms asking if she's asleep and if can call her now and seems that she did not reply it at all...
after that i sent another good night sleep tight sms to her and i myself sleep liao...
how shd i proceed now ar?
ANyway you both are not into r/s. dun make the whole situation like so complicated.. if she really feels for you.. you already win half the battle liao.. then the next move.. jus have to make plans and move on in chasing her lor.. Not together yet.. got such things liao.. think so much.. -
2 paths...
1) tell her tat n see the results good or bad
2) b a coward n see her holding hands with other guys.
for me...i like this gal rite now la. she still no over her ex. n got ppl jio her. i oso quite ugly...can ask brownie. i oso poor. i got 1 skill tho. making ppl hate me. n i got bad attitude problem.
but point is...u heck care all this. u like tat person juz go for it. or else in future will regret. me at least ask her le. altho rejected but at least i noe i tried.