R u growing up lik tat??
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hi, everyone, i feel tat i dun really hav gd childhood, teen life til now..i learnt to take care of myself as young as 9 yrs old..as my family is not rich, therefore i started working at 15 as pt-time til poly, really no time for pak tor or other outings wif frds..then got a "small' biz at 19..but now no more liao..worked n worked for $$$ so i can realize my dream..study in uk ! becoz of my dream, i hav sacrificed my romance many times liao
, my parents din support me watever i did..dun really care abt me too, i remembered they beat me up whenever i made mistakes last time..i dun lik to stay at hm.. i was abit rebelious at times esp during my sec days..kept getting punishment lik not doing hmwork, talking in class, etc..picking up bad habits..etc, hav too many details to be revealed here, but jus curious is any ppl here share similar "woes" 
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Hi.. Sorry to hear abt ur plight.. Well, its just that you are unfortunate to be brought up in such a situation.. There are alot of pple in your situation alone.. So don be sad that you are experiencing it..Originally posted by 101wish:hi, everyone, i feel tat i dun really hav gd childhood, teen life til now..i learnt to take care of myself as young as 9 yrs old..as my family is not rich, therefore i started working at 15 as pt-time til poly, really no time for pak tor or other outings wif frds..then got a "small' biz at 19..but now no more liao..worked n worked for $$$ so i can realize my dream..study in uk ! becoz of my dream, i hav sacrificed my romance many times liao , my parents din support me watever i did..dun really care abt me too, i remembered they beat me up whenever i made mistakes last time..i dun lik to stay at hm.. i was abit rebelious at times esp during my sec days..kept getting punishment lik not doing hmwork, talking in class, etc..picking up bad habits..etc, hav too many details to be revealed here, but jus curious is any ppl here share similar "woes"
Now it does not matter whether ur parents supporting you a nt.. What you have is a dream.. something which you hope to fulfil.. I believe if any of ur frens out there... whom noes abt this.. will support you fully.
Its good that you realise your bad points which you have done back when you are younger.. Don you think you should change for the better?
All the best to you..
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my childhood also sux lorz, my family also not rich lor, and I get reprimanded or even insulted by my mom for no reason at all, sometimes even her own faultOriginally posted by 101wish:hi, everyone, i feel tat i dun really hav gd childhood, teen life til now..i learnt to take care of myself as young as 9 yrs old..as my family is not rich, therefore i started working at 15 as pt-time til poly, really no time for pak tor or other outings wif frds..then got a "small' biz at 19..but now no more liao..worked n worked for $$$ so i can realize my dream..study in uk ! becoz of my dream, i hav sacrificed my romance many times liao , my parents din support me watever i did..dun really care abt me too, i remembered they beat me up whenever i made mistakes last time..i dun lik to stay at hm.. i was abit rebelious at times esp during my sec days..kept getting punishment lik not doing hmwork, talking in class, etc..picking up bad habits..etc, hav too many details to be revealed here, but jus curious is any ppl here share similar "woes" 
but then we still one family lorz
and I got driven out of class once for not doing homework 
and dunno how many times also got scolded by teachers, then I give them attitude, haha. -
Hey its situations like that that make you a stronger person. Don't ever wallow in self-pity though. Think on the bright side, you're a self-made man.
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abi similar la... i simply lost interests in everything from pri 3 like dat, so never got much of any childhood. when i was a child, i had the pessimism of an adult. to me, you live in a wishful dream, try to do things dat u wan which inevitably is meaningless, and die. thats it. there is no god, there is nothing. period. so i stopped studying or do anything at all, since school or even life has no meaning to me, indulged myself with food, wadever. so always skipped school and never do hw... etc, dunnoe kana kicked outta class how many times.
its oni when i enter poly i kinda start to find school interesting again, becuz i learnt to have faith in myself after the o lvls.. bt dats another story la. lol. -
i started self-supportin since 14...all the way till my poly days, except for half a year in my olevel year..
well, my childhood consists of beatings...ever so often..it's scary when i tink back...but if i tink a lil bit harder, i can still remember the times when there isn any beatings... but must stop the thoughts immediately..or... i'd "see" the beatings..lolz
like wat my ex and my sch counsellor said to me, wat i went thru made me a stronger person now.. more independent.. and all that..
so...it's not really that bad come to tink of it..
my dream is to get a degree..frm a university and not institutes like SIM.. somehow, that will seem impossible..lolz haven really got any savings at all since wat i earn is barely sufficient... lolz
dun tell me to get more work...
there are other family issues too...juz that...i'm not comfortable disclosin them here...some other forumites noe abt them tho.. =)
101wish, let's do our best together! -
Originally posted by 101wish:hi, everyone, i feel tat i dun really hav gd childhood, teen life til now..i learnt to take care of myself as young as 9 yrs old..as my family is not rich, therefore i started working at 15 as pt-time til poly, really no time for pak tor or other outings wif frds..then got a "small' biz at 19..but now no more liao..worked n worked for $$$ so i can realize my dream..study in uk ! becoz of my dream, i hav sacrificed my romance many times liao , my parents din support me watever i did..dun really care abt me too, i remembered they beat me up whenever i made mistakes last time..i dun lik to stay at hm.. i was abit rebelious at times esp during my sec days..kept getting punishment lik not doing hmwork, talking in class, etc..picking up bad habits..etc, hav too many details to be revealed here, but jus curious is any ppl here share similar "woes"
So how are you doing now? -
I just want to do something special, extraodinary.
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U are not alone. There are many people growing up in dysfunctional families or are underprivilege.
It is sometimes good to make it on yr own without any help from yr parents. U get more satisfaction & make u a stronger person. -
i learnt how to walk home with my brother when i was k1,learnt to walk home alone in k2...worked when i was 15...but not to realise my dream lols...juz wanted to have a taste of working life
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my mom used to throw my school bag at me whenever I couldn't solve some maths problem
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my father chased me with a chopper for not knowing how to write...when i was in k1, first day of sch...Originally posted by vito_corleone:my mom used to throw my school bag at me whenever I couldn't solve some maths problem
heck, i didn evennoe how to hold a pencil until the first day of sch!
my father burnt my maths workbook for not knowin how to do my maths... tt was in pri 3...
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hey ppl, tks, i am "glad" tat i am not alone facing unfortunate family, yeah, stronger n independent indeed, not sure wanna laugh or cry..now i am better now but stil stils hopes i wil meet a gd guy to tak care of me next time !
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Originally posted by 101wish:hey ppl, tks, i am "glad" tat i am not alone facing unfortunate family, yeah, stronger n independent indeed, not sure wanna laugh or cry..now i am better now but stil stils hopes i wil meet a gd guy to tak care of me next time !
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yeah, jiayou..wish u to get ur degree soonOriginally posted by shinta:i started self-supportin since 14...all the way till my poly days, except for half a year in my olevel year..
well, my childhood consists of beatings...ever so often..it's scary when i tink back...but if i tink a lil bit harder, i can still remember the times when there isn any beatings... but must stop the thoughts immediately..or... i'd "see" the beatings..lolz
like wat my ex and my sch counsellor said to me, wat i went thru made me a stronger person now.. more independent.. and all that..
so...it's not really that bad come to tink of it..
my dream is to get a degree..frm a university and not institutes like SIM.. somehow, that will seem impossible..lolz haven really got any savings at all since wat i earn is barely sufficient... lolz
dun tell me to get more work...
there are other family issues too...juz that...i'm not comfortable disclosin them here...some other forumites noe abt them tho.. =)
101wish, let's do our best together! dun giv up ur dream sooo easily..