There is always enough time for other activities other than studying for your degree. The reason why you are tired or burnt out could be that you are focusing too much on your studies and neglecting to eat well / sleep well / exercise etc.Originally posted by Jazzytunez:I like to play hard, work hard but my degree i currently studying doesn't allow me to have the freedom to play as hard as i want... or can...
i wish i have the same kind of energy and dynamics as i used to have... i'm just feeling tired now...
There's nothing wrong with having a serious mindset and attitude... Just understand that there's a time for work... And there's a time for PLAY... There are books available in the market and library to help you change your mindset... Source for them...Originally posted by Jazzytunez:The problem is that i'm not motivated to study... there why 'dabao' so many subjects...so sianz and stress cos' have to clear them... even now when i'm having my holiday...i didn't study at all.. where peers of mine are not slogging..
Simply study for the sake of a degree...
How to cure my serious mindset and attitude?
HiOriginally posted by Jazzytunez:Without much awareness, as the years go by, i find it harder to look life with a lighter heart... not as light-hearted as i'm used to be... well, things will never be the same esp after going through a period of darknes.. and struggling.. after that, u will feel tired... of everythings..
Duno why i finding it harder to be less serious... miss those time when i can crap with friends and play... when my life is more idle...When i stop thinking more about things and start to living life in the moment and for the moment.
Lots of my friends complain that they are old but heck they just reach only 21 years old. Feel like my education is draining my energy away.
I think i need to readjust my negative mental mindset... but it's not like ABC?
Originally posted by Jazzytunez:Without much awareness, as the years go by, i find it harder to look life with a lighter heart... not as light-hearted as i'm used to be... well, things will never be the same esp after going through a period of darknes.. and struggling.. after that, u will feel tired... of everythings..
They say setbacks & failures are part of a learning process & we can learn a lot frm our mistakes. But think there's also a contradictory part to this--- sometimes aft a setback (eg. a relationship that went terribly wrong), the after effects may be so great that things dun remain the same anymore
maybe i'm quite weak emotionally.. with each failed relationship, i can increasingly weighed down. it's like my baggage frm the past jus keep pilling up.. i wan let it down, but it's not easy
Lots of my friends complain that they are old but heck they just reach only 21 years old. Feel like my education is draining my energy away.
I think i need to readjust my negative mental mindset... but it's not like ABC?
i wish to too... does anyone have a way ??
Yeah, that's why I usually tell people who are still studying to enjoy their school days. Things are pretty much crap once you enter the rat race...Originally posted by Lingos:Yeah well.. after uni it's all downhill.
Sigh.. working is an endless treadmill.
I hear ya sista sighh...Originally posted by Kismet:Yeah, that's why I usually tell people who are still tudying to enjoy their school days. Things are pretty much crap once you enter the rat race...
i always felt old.. even when im a child.Originally posted by Jazzytunez:Without much awareness, as the years go by, i find it harder to look life with a lighter heart... not as light-hearted as i'm used to be... well, things will never be the same esp after going through a period of darknes.. and struggling.. after that, u will feel tired... of everythings..
Duno why i finding it harder to be less serious... miss those time when i can crap with friends and play... when my life is more idle...When i stop thinking more about things and start to living life in the moment and for the moment.
Lots of my friends complain that they are old but heck they just reach only 21 years old. Feel like my education is draining my energy away.
I think i need to readjust my negative mental mindset... but it's not like ABC?
yea right on! .... juz wish to get out of d rat race & quit hanging ard like a rat, scurrying here & there for rotten cheese & left-over meat! then again, not many are like that blessed Kiyosaki.. watever. Juz stay sane & sober enough to remember u r still a breathing man / woman.. chillzzzzzzzzOriginally posted by Kismet:.... Things are pretty much crap once you enter the rat race...