I'm a kept woman
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Im a kept woman to this married man. Ben was his name.
It has been 2 long painful years.
Met him on a flight to NY. He requested for warm water has he has a server migrain. He overslept and has to be waken up by my colleagues. Thats how he caught my attention.
A couple of mths later, i met him on the trip to China. Immediatly, we both recognized, he was blushing. (embarassed on the previous incident)(enough of how i knew him)
LOve is blind. How true it is? Very true.
I couldnt care less whether he is married, attached or single. He was comfortable to be with, sensitive, thoughtful, definately a women's man.
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u cldnt careless of his marriage yet it was two painful yearS?
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Well.... hope you are prepared for the future. Things will blast open at some point in time and I hope you are mentally prepared to face whatever that maybe coming in future. If you are not a strong woman, don't try this type of game. Very very dangerous and many parties can get hurt including yourself and possible his offsprings. You sure you want to do this??
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love?
what is best for him?
and yourself?
anyway, you made your decisions, you have to bear with the consequences.. such is humanity...
but do think about it... love.. figure out what it really is.. and what is best for himself, and yourself...
mayhap, even he does not know what love is.. for if he did, he'd be a one-woman man... -
When you say you got together eventually, meaning that he divorced his wife to be with you?Originally posted by patri_cia:Im a kept woman to this married man. Ben was his name.
It has been 2 long painful years.
Met him on a flight to NY. He requested for warm water has he has a server migrain. He overslept and has to be waken up by my colleagues. Thats how he caught my attention.
A couple of mths later, i met him on the trip to China. Immediatly, we both recognized, he was blushing. (embarassed on the previous incident)(enough of how i knew him)
LOve is blind. How true it is? Very true.
I couldnt care less whether he is married, attached or single. He was comfortable to be with, sensitive, thoughtful, definately a women's man.
We got together eventually.
I hope that's not the case because I can't see happiness when you actually cause unhappiness to someone to gain happiness.
Yes, love can be selfish but if he can do it to someone else, he can do the same to you.
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Would you like to be called a 3rd party? Would you like to be called a ji*x or a fcuking b*tch who tries to snatch a married man? Get alive and face with reality.. He is married.. It Does not matter if he likes or does not like his wife.. You coming into the picture and trying to snatch him away, is something which is not to be done..Originally posted by patri_cia:Im a kept woman to this married man. Ben was his name.
It has been 2 long painful years.
Met him on a flight to NY. He requested for warm water has he has a server migrain. He overslept and has to be waken up by my colleagues. Thats how he caught my attention.
A couple of mths later, i met him on the trip to China. Immediatly, we both recognized, he was blushing. (embarassed on the previous incident)(enough of how i knew him)
LOve is blind. How true it is? Very true.
I couldnt care less whether he is married, attached or single. He was comfortable to be with, sensitive, thoughtful, definately a women's man.
We got together eventually.
Be it he is attached or married.. he as another half... If he is single, by all means.. no one is stopping you. Get it into your thick skull.!! -
Actually divorce better. At least better than to have wife + mistress.Originally posted by elindra:When you say you got together eventually, meaning that he divorced his wife to be with you?
I hope that's not the case because I can't see happiness when you actually cause unhappiness to someone to gain happiness.
Yes, love can be selfish but if he can do it to someone else, he can do the same to you.
Think about it. -
get him to be a mormon..then he can keep many wives
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Hi, Patricia? What is/are the problem/s that is/are bothering you now?Originally posted by patri_cia:Im a kept woman to this married man. Ben was his name. It has been 2 long painful years. Met him on a flight to NY. He requested for warm water has he has a server migrain. He overslept and has to be waken up by my colleagues. Thats how he caught my attention. A couple of mths later, i met him on the trip to China. Immediatly, we both recognized, he was blushing. (embarassed on the previous incident)(enough of how i knew him) LOve is blind. How true it is? Very true. I couldnt care less whether he is married, attached or single. He was comfortable to be with, sensitive, thoughtful, definately a women's man. We got together eventually. -
honestly that's an overused phrase...Originally posted by elindra:When you say you got together eventually, meaning that he divorced his wife to be with you?
I hope that's not the case because I can't see happiness when you actually cause unhappiness to someone to gain happiness.
Yes, love can be selfish but if he can do it to someone else, he can do the same to you.
Think about it.
not that it's wrong, but that's the FIRST thing anyone says, when someone shares a story like this.
so i guess NO ONE has ever heard of a blissful marriage that began with a cheating party?
i'm not advocating that anyone falling out of love with their partner should leave them and hop onto another ship (concurrently or otherwise).
I don't think we should be quick to condemn relationships that start that way. NO ONE, in thier right minds, would wanna go thru the hassle and heartache of being a, or with, a third party. wat makes it worth it for them? think about it for a moment.
your heart is fragile, esp when u've ever suffered the loss of a loved one to a third party. so too, are the hearts of those whose friends do not understand, just by virtue of them being a third party. it ALWAYS hurts if u have such a story, and no one seems to understand wat u are going thru, including urself.
so back to the phrase, if he can do it to someone else, he can do it to you: pple can do it REGARDLESS of whether they've done it to someone else before. -
well say .. but this isnt right .. building ur happiness on other sorrow .. makes mi wonder wat's love n true happiness ..Originally posted by jOhO:honestly that's an overused phrase...
not that it's wrong, but that's the FIRST thing anyone says, when someone shares a story like this.
so i guess NO ONE has ever heard of a blissful marriage that began with a cheating party?
i'm not advocating that anyone falling out of love with their partner should leave them and hop onto another ship (concurrently or otherwise).
I don't think we should be quick to condemn relationships that start that way .NO ONE, in thier right minds, would wanna go thru the hassle and heartache of being a, or with, a third party. wat makes it worth it for them? think about it for a moment.
your heart is fragile, esp when u've ever suffered the loss of a loved one to a third party. so too, are the hearts of those whose friends do not understand, just by virtue of them being a third party. it ALWAYS hurts if u have such a story, and no one seems to understand wat u are going thru, including urself.
so back to the phrase, if he can do it to someone else, he can do it to you: pple can do it REGARDLESS of whether they've done it to someone else before. -
i still dun see what the problem is? U made up your mind and u r happy so whats the problem?
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doesn't a man feel stressful handling 2 women in his life?
since u dun mind if he's married, so, what's ur concern here? -
i salute u,Originally posted by patri_cia:Im a kept woman to this married man. Ben was his name.
It has been 2 long painful years.
Met him on a flight to NY. He requested for warm water has he has a server migrain. He overslept and has to be waken up by my colleagues. Thats how he caught my attention.
A couple of mths later, i met him on the trip to China. Immediatly, we both recognized, he was blushing. (embarassed on the previous incident)(enough of how i knew him)
LOve is blind. How true it is? Very true.
I couldnt care less whether he is married, attached or single. He was comfortable to be with, sensitive, thoughtful, definately a women's man.
We got together eventually.
take care -
Won't quite agree with this...Originally posted by the Bear:mayhap, even he does not know what love is.. for if he did, he'd be a one-woman man... -
Hmm.. It's nice to see someone using his brains at such a late hour?Originally posted by jOhO:honestly that's an overused phrase...
not that it's wrong, but that's the FIRST thing anyone says, when someone shares a story like this.
so i guess NO ONE has ever heard of a blissful marriage that began with a cheating party?
i'm not advocating that anyone falling out of love with their partner should leave them and hop onto another ship (concurrently or otherwise).
I don't think we should be quick to condemn relationships that start that way. NO ONE, in thier right minds, would wanna go thru the hassle and heartache of being a, or with, a third party. wat makes it worth it for them? think about it for a moment.
your heart is fragile, esp when u've ever suffered the loss of a loved one to a third party. so too, are the hearts of those whose friends do not understand, just by virtue of them being a third party. it ALWAYS hurts if u have such a story, and no one seems to understand wat u are going thru, including urself.
so back to the phrase, if he can do it to someone else, he can do it to you: pple can do it REGARDLESS of whether they've done it to someone else before.
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It's not about building love on another sorrow or another happiness... Things usually happens for at least a reason....Originally posted by stem_-_daimyou_asobi_hen:well say .. but this isnt right .. building ur happiness on other sorrow .. makes mi wonder wat's love n true happiness ..
True love and happiness?
How about giving yourself a chance to live it again? Of course, it's not guaranteed... But it's still a chance?
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Originally posted by Devil1976:Won't quite agree with this...
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Good for you...Originally posted by patri_cia:Im a kept woman to this married man. Ben was his name.
It has been 2 long painful years.
Met him on a flight to NY. He requested for warm water has he has a server migrain. He overslept and has to be waken up by my colleagues. Thats how he caught my attention.
A couple of mths later, i met him on the trip to China. Immediatly, we both recognized, he was blushing. (embarassed on the previous incident)(enough of how i knew him)
LOve is blind. How true it is? Very true.
I couldnt care less whether he is married, attached or single. He was comfortable to be with, sensitive, thoughtful, definately a women's man.
We got together eventually. -
well .......so proud of announcing ur a kept woman.... *claps claps GAGs*
For one , at least now I know if I want to get married , I better get a good lawyer and a great prenuptial agreement - if my spouse is unfaithful, I take everything , dog/cat/clothing/house/car/children ,and leave the third party to support the idiot. -
hahah pre-nup??Originally posted by fymk:well .......so proud of announcing ur a kept woman.... *claps claps GAGs*
For one , at least now I know if I want to get married , I better get a good lawyer and a great prenuptial agreement - if my spouse is unfaithful, I take everything , dog/cat/clothing/house/car/children ,and leave the third party to support the idiot.
not bad to be tickled early in the morning...... ahahahahha -
congrats. what else can i say? she is just telling us how she get to know her current beau
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x 2..... din see her post saying there's problem about the 'relationship' leh.Originally posted by vroomvroom:congrats. what else can i say? she is just telling us how she get to know her current beau -
Originally posted by patri_cia:Im a kept woman to this married man. Ben was his name.
It has been 2 long painful years.
Met him on a flight to NY. He requested for warm water has he has a server migrain. He overslept and has to be waken up by my colleagues. Thats how he caught my attention.
A couple of mths later, i met him on the trip to China. Immediatly, we both recognized, he was blushing. (embarassed on the previous incident)(enough of how i knew him)
LOve is blind. How true it is? Very true.
I couldnt care less whether he is married, attached or single. He was comfortable to be with, sensitive, thoughtful, definately a women's man.
We got together eventually.
You are so beautiful, your heart your mind and your soul, your family and friends and colleagues respect you and ofcourse everybody wants to see you happily ever after get married with a prince charming of your dream.
Your life and your future is the most crucial thing to consider. If you choose the right way then your future husband and children and families will lead a better way, but if you choose the wrong and hard way of life, then I am sure you'll lead a hardway life full of obstacles etc.
You are so talented and kind hearted and calm and down to earth person, think about your future, think it over. I've gone through so many problems of getting to know someone who's married and single and it's not easy. If you are single, you still have the chance to find your true and sincere and faithful and of course "LOYAL" Prince Charming, you don't have to hunt for that Prince Charming he will come to you naturally, love comes to you naturally not by forcing someone to love you etc.
But, if you are married now, then all I can say is good luck because life is not that easy when a married person wana get involve wif another married person.
Urgghhh God help them ALL
All I can say is avoid him, I know it's not easy, but just avoid him, think positive, keep yourself busy, I know how you feel at this time that you're going to miss him and everything but please think about your future and look for that "Prince Charming"...just look for him.
Feel free to email me "[email protected]"
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B!tch!!!