I'm hurt....
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A gal is competing with me for a guy. Because of that, she stop talking to me.
That guy told me before , that he like me. I'm not sure whether it is true. Do you think i should just ask him or just wait.... -
it takes two hands to clap... if this guy chooses to be with u and u both are reali loving each other, it's a begining for both of u.... i dont know if this guy is reali a nice guy to have, maybe u can give both of u some more time to know each other better before u both choose to proceed on.... alert this guy about ur friend's likings for him and see his response.....
as for that ger, if she's ur so-called best friend, she should understand that breaking up a friendship for a guy she likes isnt worth it..... it's a fair competition... unless she really cherish the friendship between both of u, otherwise do u think the friendship for both of u is really from the bottom of the heart??
there are so many kind of friendships out there, clubbing friends, close friends, "hi" "bye" friends, etc.....what kind of friends do u want?? do u want someone who'll support you and appreciste ur friendship or do u want a friend who'll stab u on ur back and abandon u when u needed some encouragement.......
anyway, all the best to u..... but my last advice is: TRUST NO ONE~~!! u may not agree with mi, but u'll know in future........ good luck~~!! -
Just wait thn, i regretted i confessed my feelings to the ger i like for it may no longer be the same if the result is negative.
Be happy with the present, the ger i like; she called me daily, tell me everything she encountered each day, tell me her woes and going out with her is sufficient. Care for him/her, going steady is noth. If you get so well with each other, thn keep it this way; heck whether u've got him when he's around you whenever you need him.
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Another love triangle problem.. hai.. If you love that guy, and vice versa, it does not matter whether that girl is competing with u.. she will loose.. Love cannot be forced.. It is to be nurtured.Originally posted by asGaL:A gal is competing with me for a guy. Because of that, she stop talking to me.
That guy told me before , that he like me. I'm not sure whether it is true. Do you think i should just ask him or just wait.... -
Such things happen... How else would you expect her to treat a 'competitor'...? Especially so for people around your age...?Originally posted by asGaL:A gal is competing with me for a guy. Because of that, she stop talking to me.
That guy told me before , that he like me. I'm not sure whether it is true. Do you think i should just ask him or just wait.... -
not competitor... victor... maybe she already knows.Originally posted by Devil1976:Such things happen... How else would you expect her to treat a 'competitor'...? Especially so for people around your age...?
by the way, why isnt that guy doing anything about it? why hasnt he asked you out? what is he waiting for?
talk to your 'friend' instead and ask her what is happening.
that guy... is he worth the friendship? -
Find other guys. GIrls usually find it easier to find guys rather than the latter way round.Originally posted by asGaL:A gal is competing with me for a guy. Because of that, she stop talking to me.
That guy told me before , that he like me. I'm not sure whether it is true. Do you think i should just ask him or just wait.... -
I think you should play around with the guy.
Girls cant ask "hey do you like me ?". It just doesnt sound right... Try hinting the guy, he'll take it a step further if he likes you.
As for the girl, a friend lost is better than a competitor. Since she chose to treat you this way, give it to her. Hard. -
Sounds quite spiteful.Originally posted by revvieeee:I think you should play around with the guy.
Girls cant ask "hey do you like me ?". It just doesnt sound right... Try hinting the guy, he'll take it a step further if he likes you.
As for the girl, a friend lost is better than a competitor. Since she chose to treat you this way, give it to her. Hard.
Well, whether there's a competitor or not? Think abt it, there will always be competitors chasing you and that person you like.
Just take it easy, and flirt with the person you like. Let him make the move or if you're brave enough, make the first move and just kiss him! Actions speak louder than words!
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depends on how close u n tat gal, if she nt ur gd frds, who cares, moreover, since he said he likes u..dun worry too much..wait for his action lah...