Love?
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Every person will need to find four people in their lives. The First person is you. The Second person is the one you love most. The Third person is the one who love you most. And the Fourth is the one you spend the rest of your life with.
In life, firstly you will meet with the one you love most, and learn how love feels. Because you know how love feels, so you can find the person who loves you most. When you have experienced the feeling of loving others and being loved, you will then know what it is you need most. Then you will find the person who is most suitable for you, to be able to spend the rest of your life with.
Sadly, in real life, these three people are usually not the same person. The one you love most doesn't love you. The one, who loves you most, is never the one you love most. And the one you spend your life with, is never the one you love most or the one who loves you most. He is just the person who happens to be at the right place at the right time. Which person are you in other people's life?
No person will purposely have a change of heart. At the point in time when he loves you, he really loves you. But when he doesn't love you anymore, he really doesn't love you anymore. When he loves you, he can't pretend that he doesn't. Same goes, when he loves you no more, there's no way he can pretend he loves you.
When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you. You must ask yourself if you still love him, If you also don't love him anymore, do not keep him just to save your pride. If you still love him, you should wish him happiness, and hope that he will be with the one he loves most, not stop him from it. If you stop him from finding true happiness with the one he loves, it shows you already don't love him, And if you don't love him, what rights do you have to blame him for a change of heart?
Love is not possessive, if you like the moon, you can't just take it down and put it in your basin. But the moonlight still shines upon you. In other words, when you love a person, you can use another method of possessing the person. Let him become a permanent memory in your life. If you really love a person, you must love him for what he is. Love him for his good points, and the bad. You can't wish for him to become like what you like him to be just because you love him. If he can't change to become what you like him to be, you don't love him anymore. When you really love a person, you cannot find a reason why you love him, you only know that no matter when and where, good mood or bad mood, you will wish to have this person be with you.
Real love is when two people can go through the toughest problems without asking for promises or listing criteria. In a relationship, you have to put in effort and give in at times, and not always be on the receiving end. Being away from each other is a type of test. If the relationship isn't strong, then you can only admit defeat. Real love will never become hate. -
Agreed TOTALLY!Originally posted by Devil1976:When you really love a person, you cannot find a reason why you love him, you only know that no matter when and where, good mood or bad mood, you will wish to have this person be with you. Real love will never become hate.
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Thanks.. xie xie ni...Originally posted by BeEtHoVeN:chi version http://wang-yuan.nease.net/wygs.htm
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By the way, it's not my work... Just got it from e-mail and wanna share it...Originally posted by sleepycat:Agreed TOTALLY! Excellent. -
nob head!
the day she walked out of my life, i feel miserable in pain and i missed her cos of no contact.
until i saw her on my friend's friendster photo, i start to feel happy that she is still ok (except putting on weight).
even though this is one-sided love toward her, it start to make me realised that love need not to be possession, just know she is happy each day will be fine with me, nothing else matters... -
TOTALLY agreed again! cheeeeerzOriginally posted by 798:just know she is happy each day will be fine with me, nothing else matters...
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Good to know that your worst dayz have passed... always know there is someone out there who is always willing to help and lend a listening ear.Originally posted by 798:nob head!
the day she walked out of my life, i feel miserable in pain and i missed her cos of no contact.
until i saw her on my friend's friendster photo, i start to feel happy that she is still ok (except putting on weight).
even though this is one-sided love toward her, it start to make me realised that love need not to be possession, just know she is happy each day will be fine with me, nothing else matters...
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totally agree..how many ppl married to their true lov..right plc n right time really impt..
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welcome ... haiz, dun really like the content ... but I have to admit this is quite true ...Originally posted by sleepycat:Thanks.. xie xie ni...
oh well, pisceans are known to live in their world ... -
It's alright. Thanks for sharingOriginally posted by Devil1976:By the way, it's not my work... Just got it from e-mail and wanna share it... -
love this article! esp the 4 persons explantion part...mebbe bcos I have found someone whom I love most but in the end he breaks my heart. I have also found someone whom I know likes and cares for me very much, but I could never love him the same way I loved the other person, becos sumhow even tho he is now not in my life anymore, part of my heart will always belong to him. The memories we share will always be there...
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this is so true. but when two persons parted, thinking that the other is better without him/her, although deep down, they still love each other, this can be so heart piercingOriginally posted by Devil1976:Love is not possessive, if you like the moon, you can't just take it down and put it in your basin. But the moonlight still shines upon you. In other words, when you love a person, you can use another method of possessing the person. Let him become a permanent memory in your life. -
That's the strange thing about love ...Originally posted by Ice79:this is so true. but when two persons parted, thinking that the other is better without him/her, although deep down, they still love each other, this can be so heart piercing
When two people who love each other cannot be together due to circumstances beyond their control, who happen to meet each other at the wrong time.
The best but painful solution is to wish each other the best and let him/her go ... -
x2Originally posted by 798:nob head!
the day she walked out of my life, i feel miserable in pain and i missed her cos of no contact.
until i saw her on my friend's friendster photo, i start to feel happy that she is still ok (except putting on weight).
even though this is one-sided love toward her, it start to make me realised that love need not to be possession, just know she is happy each day will be fine with me, nothing else matters...
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yeah. it sounds very common sensical actually. good. clap clap clap
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read before liao..... also from some email...... not bad.
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i dun know what's the meaning of this word... maybe not anymore...
can anyone enlighten me?? -
how come suddenly so much FEELings???Originally posted by Devil1976:Every person will need to find four people in their lives. The First person is you. The Second person is the one you love most. The Third person is the one who love you most. And the Fourth is the one you spend the rest of your life with.
In life, firstly you will meet with the one you love most, and learn how love feels. Because you know how love feels, so you can find the person who loves you most. When you have experienced the feeling of loving others and being loved, you will then know what it is you need most. Then you will find the person who is most suitable for you, to be able to spend the rest of your life with.
Sadly, in real life, these three people are usually not the same person. The one you love most doesn't love you. The one, who loves you most, is never the one you love most. And the one you spend your life with, is never the one you love most or the one who loves you most. He is just the person who happens to be at the right place at the right time. Which person are you in other people's life?
No person will purposely have a change of heart. At the point in time when he loves you, he really loves you. But when he doesn't love you anymore, he really doesn't love you anymore. When he loves you, he can't pretend that he doesn't. Same goes, when he loves you no more, there's no way he can pretend he loves you.
When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you. You must ask yourself if you still love him, If you also don't love him anymore, do not keep him just to save your pride. If you still love him, you should wish him happiness, and hope that he will be with the one he loves most, not stop him from it. If you stop him from finding true happiness with the one he loves, it shows you already don't love him, And if you don't love him, what rights do you have to blame him for a change of heart?
Love is not possessive, if you like the moon, you can't just take it down and put it in your basin. But the moonlight still shines upon you. In other words, when you love a person, you can use another method of possessing the person. Let him become a permanent memory in your life. If you really love a person, you must love him for what he is. Love him for his good points, and the bad. You can't wish for him to become like what you like him to be just because you love him. If he can't change to become what you like him to be, you don't love him anymore. When you really love a person, you cannot find a reason why you love him, you only know that no matter when and where, good mood or bad mood, you will wish to have this person be with you.
Real love is when two people can go through the toughest problems without asking for promises or listing criteria. In a relationship, you have to put in effort and give in at times, and not always be on the receiving end. Being away from each other is a type of test. If the relationship isn't strong, then you can only admit defeat. Real love will never become hate. -
nice article
if u're able to love someone who love you most the most then the 3 people in your life would be one.
dunno if anyone is able to do that -
Such things happen... Sometimes love itself is not enough to withstand the 'thrust' of harsh reality...Originally posted by Ice79:this is so true. but when two persons parted, thinking that the other is better without him/her, although deep down, they still love each other, this can be so heart piercing -
It don't have to be painful... If you know how, you can also make it 'beautiful'...Originally posted by Kismet:That's the strange thing about love ...
When two people who love each other cannot be together due to circumstances beyond their control, who happen to meet each other at the wrong time.
The best but painful solution is to wish each other the best and let him/her go ...
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What feelings? Not written by me... Just got it from e-mail and thought it might be useful for some people, so posted it here to share it...Originally posted by jusgal:how come suddenly so much FEELings??? -
DP.
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har?Originally posted by yunzhongzi:i dun know what's the meaning of this word... maybe not anymore...
can anyone enlighten me??