love is patientOriginally posted by paradox86:Heya, just asking you guys smth.. what if the ger u're fond of say tht she likes u but she's having her exams now blah blah.. can't commit to this relationship and thus dunwan disappoint me. she contacts u as normal everyday like b4.. what shld i do ?![]()
it meansOriginally posted by paradox86:Heya, just asking you guys smth.. what if the ger u're fond of say tht she likes u but she's having her exams now blah blah.. can't commit to this relationship and thus dunwan disappoint me. she contacts u as normal everyday like b4.. what shld i do ?![]()
She probably regards you as a good friend or confidante. Do not jeopardise it by being too pushy....might scare her away.Originally posted by paradox86:Heya, just asking you guys smth.. what if the ger u're fond of say tht she likes u but she's having her exams now blah blah.. can't commit to this relationship and thus dunwan disappoint me. she contacts u as normal everyday like b4.. what shld i do ?![]()
be as friends as usual...but to let u know...i wun say "i can't commit(mabe reasonable to say this) n DISAPPOINT(hmmmm.........)" to a person i TRULY like even if i have exams....think u ve already felt tt...Originally posted by paradox86:Heya, just asking you guys smth.. what if the ger u're fond of say tht she likes u but she's having her exams now blah blah.. can't commit to this relationship and thus dunwan disappoint me. she contacts u as normal everyday like b4.. what shld i do ?![]()
Like in this case has 2 meanings for her..Originally posted by paradox86:Heya, just asking you guys smth.. what if the ger u're fond of say tht she likes u but she's having her exams now blah blah.. can't commit to this relationship and thus dunwan disappoint me. she contacts u as normal everyday like b4.. what shld i do ?![]()
yep, i had actually intended to keep her as a friend but she kept calling me dear when we go out.. say love me and all these type of mushy things..Originally posted by kaobeikaobu:be as friends as usual...but to let u know...i wun say "i can't commit(mabe reasonable to say this) n DISAPPOINT(hmmmm.........)" to a person i TRULY like even if i have exams....think u ve already felt tt...
she can't commit to the relationship part of it was because her parents are darn strict, exam period; can't go out, study study.. can hear her mum nagging frm behind the phone when shes on phone with me .. she hafta resort to meet me after her sch and tell her mum she's studying at friend's hse.. how pathetic ya?Originally posted by Fluffy.white.sheeP:ask yourself if u intend to hav a relationship and then ask her if she intends too.
hmm, pretty classical. I have PLENTY of friends with EXACTLY the same problem. To be blunt, no offense, but this seldom ends good. None of my friends got successful with girls who puts it this way. I dont think she's interested, I'm sorry to say.Originally posted by paradox86:Heya, just asking you guys smth.. what if the ger u're fond of say tht she likes u but she's having her exams now blah blah.. can't commit to this relationship and thus dunwan disappoint me. she contacts u as normal everyday like b4.. what shld i do ?![]()
its all up to u actually.Originally posted by paradox86:she can't commit to the relationship part of it was because her parents are darn strict, exam period; can't go out, study study.. can hear her mum nagging frm behind the phone when shes on phone with me .. she hafta resort to meet me after her sch and tell her mum she's studying at friend's hse.. how pathetic ya?
this post made me wana ask u d same old question..Originally posted by paradox86:yep, i had actually intended to keep her as a friend but she kept calling me dear when we go out.. say love me and all these type of mushy things..![]()
Originally posted by sleepycat:I really like her but our commucation became lesser and lesser due to her parents.
this post made me wana ask u d same old question..[b]are u juz fond of her? or, u like her as much as she likes u? [/b]
as i ve mentioned, it will be very very TOUGH...for u n for her as well to be together.Originally posted by paradox86:I really like her but our commucation became lesser and lesser due to her parents.
Firstly, she can only call me for abt like an hr and her parents will start screaming, her sms exploded by me already; she can only meet me up when she's on the way to piano lessons or after her sch.
I could only wait for her phone call every night. Ahhhhh. i kept missing her .. sigh![]()