I hate it....
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when people think i'm a butch loh... cos my features r sharp and considering yandao lah... but doesn't meant i'm a butch n got girls/guys stared at me loh but then i'm straightttttttttt..... now cannot cut short hair..... y?? cos scared people think i'm butch loh... even my friends think i shouldn't cut short hair... waulau.. for a girl, it's very sad loh cos i can't change my style the way i want loh...
Does guys stub butches that they don't know?? cos' i got stub b4 loh.. when i have my short hair..
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stub?Originally posted by ooh_lala:when people think i'm a butch loh... cos my features r sharp and considering yandao lah... but doesn't meant i'm a butch n got girls/guys stared at me loh but then i'm straightttttttttt..... now cannot cut short hair..... y?? cos scared people think i'm butch loh... even my friends think i shouldn't cut short hair... waulau.. for a girl, it's very sad loh cos i can't change my style the way i want loh...
Does guys stub butches that they don't know?? cos' i got stub b4 loh.. when i have my short hair..
PS: i'm not discrimanting against butch....
the guys are most probably dead jealous of ur looks...niak niak niak...dun waste time bothering tos ppl...
short hair is coolz....
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Just be yourself...Originally posted by ooh_lala:when people think i'm a butch loh... cos my features r sharp and considering yandao lah... but doesn't meant i'm a butch n got girls/guys stared at me loh but then i'm straightttttttttt..... now cannot cut short hair..... y?? cos scared people think i'm butch loh... even my friends think i shouldn't cut short hair... waulau.. for a girl, it's very sad loh cos i can't change my style the way i want loh...
Does guys stub butches that they don't know?? cos' i got stub b4 loh.. when i have my short hair..
PS: i'm not discrimanting against butch....
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DP.
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i'm a guy and i've seen many a girl with hair much shorter than mine and i have to say that some actually look better with long hair so relax dude.
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Originally posted by ooh_lala:when people think i'm a butch loh... cos my features r sharp and considering yandao lah... but doesn't meant i'm a butch n got girls/guys stared at me loh but then i'm straightttttttttt..... now cannot cut short hair..... y?? cos scared people think i'm butch loh... even my friends think i shouldn't cut short hair... waulau.. for a girl, it's very sad loh cos i can't change my style the way i want loh...
Does guys stub butches that they don't know?? cos' i got stub b4 loh.. when i have my short hair..
PS: i'm not discrimanting against butch....
Wah another one.
I was once mistaken as a butch by a les and was like wtf.
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tink bo bian lor coz if nt others mistaken how?? or perhaps u can put some make-up n wear dresses?
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You are too handsome to girls.. and too chio to guys@@@!!!Originally posted by Yunhaier: Wah another one.
I was once mistaken as a butch by a les and was like wtf.
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IRRESITABLE AH!!!!!!
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Don't worry about what ppl says.. If you think you are not.. no one can see anything about you.. they jus preceived from what they sees.. Be more confident and bring out yourself the way you look...Originally posted by ooh_lala:when people think i'm a butch loh... cos my features r sharp and considering yandao lah... but doesn't meant i'm a butch n got girls/guys stared at me loh but then i'm straightttttttttt..... now cannot cut short hair..... y?? cos scared people think i'm butch loh... even my friends think i shouldn't cut short hair... waulau.. for a girl, it's very sad loh cos i can't change my style the way i want loh...
Does guys stub butches that they don't know?? cos' i got stub b4 loh.. when i have my short hair..
PS: i'm not discrimanting against butch....
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why care about everyone else?
It is yr own view that counts!!!
It is yr life u r living!!!
Ppl can think whatever they want, I don't give a damn about what they think..
There is always so many views n opinions, how r u going to accommodate to everyone!!!
Just be yrself!!!!
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Ya, ya and you attracted the 10 years old kid.Originally posted by SunRisE:You are too handsome to girls.. and too chio to guys@@@!!!
IRRESITABLE AH!!!!!!
WHAHAHAAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAA!
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If you think you are not a butch, than you are not a butch.. But ask yourself this.. Is your dressing and how you behave like one? Girls and guys both have their restrictions.. You don go around seeing a guy wear skirt do you? Sometimes due to your features or dressing, the people you are with, you are easily mistaken..Originally posted by ooh_lala:when people think i'm a butch loh... cos my features r sharp and considering yandao lah... but doesn't meant i'm a butch n got girls/guys stared at me loh but then i'm straightttttttttt..... now cannot cut short hair..... y?? cos scared people think i'm butch loh... even my friends think i shouldn't cut short hair... waulau.. for a girl, it's very sad loh cos i can't change my style the way i want loh...
Does guys stub butches that they don't know?? cos' i got stub b4 loh.. when i have my short hair..
PS: i'm not discrimanting against butch....
Maybe you can improve on your dressing and image, hairstyle and such.. If you like to keep short hair, than when pple say anything, give them the excuse that you are feeling hot in Singapore weather and keeping short hair is good..
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It's the stare that i cant tahan...... quite pissed loh.... i once hear two gers giggling and say me shuai ge jie jie in the bus... my hair is not even considered short... loh and i dun dress like a butch...
i overheard so many times they say i look like malay/unsingaporean cos of my sharp features... i even once caught a ger taking my photo on her handphone... sia... what the f..... i wish i'm a normal looking girl and living a peaceful life; like an ordinary person.... unharrassed loh... then dun need to act so aloof in the public liao... -
I have a friend with sharp features and short hair that look quite stunning. It's all a matter of how u dress-up, make-up or have your eyebrows done.
With unique face features, there's an advantage u will leave a memorable impression.
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Originally posted by Magnus:I have a friend with sharp features and short hair that look quite stunning. It's all a matter of how u dress-up, make-up or have your eyebrows done.
With unique face features, there's an advantage u will leave a memorable impression. 
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Try taking train down Orchard road, and then someone opposite stare at u... Mmm... then I could be thinking..." why u stare ahh?? KAO..." Then i act ultra-dao liao.... which is a bad habit that i have carefully nuture all these years... People mistaken me that i'm english-speaking person while i'm more chinese-speaking... people think i sporty person while i'm not realli one... people think i'm butch while i'm not loh..... more like a mismatch face and identity to me... who am i??Originally posted by Magnus:I have a friend with sharp features and short hair that look quite stunning. It's all a matter of how u dress-up, make-up or have your eyebrows done.
With unique face features, there's an advantage u will leave a memorable impression.
The funny thing is i keep getting people asking me whether i'm her fren from some school or her sister's fren .... so what memorable impression leh?? -
Don't worry! I always have this problem when I have my hair short. Alot guys even said " Agua" or even " cha bo or da bo" and even have girls chasing after me to double check if I'm a female or a male.Originally posted by ooh_lala:when people think i'm a butch loh... cos my features r sharp and considering yandao lah... but doesn't meant i'm a butch n got girls/guys stared at me loh but then i'm straightttttttttt..... now cannot cut short hair..... y?? cos scared people think i'm butch loh... even my friends think i shouldn't cut short hair... waulau.. for a girl, it's very sad loh cos i can't change my style the way i want loh...
Does guys stub butches that they don't know?? cos' i got stub b4 loh.. when i
So stay cool!
It's better for people 2 look at you as you are pretty rather no one looks rite? -
Originally posted by ooh_lala:
Who are you?
Try taking train down Orchard road, and then someone opposite stare at u... Mmm... then I could be thinking..." why u stare ahh?? KAO..." Then i act ultra-dao liao.... which is a [b]bad habit that i have carefully nuture all these years... People mistaken me that i'm english-speaking person while i'm more chinese-speaking... people think i sporty person while i'm not realli one... people think i'm butch while i'm not loh..... more like a mismatch face and identity to me... who am i??
The funny thing is i keep getting people asking me whether i'm her fren from some school or her sister's fren .... so what memorable impression leh??
[/b] To me, even though I dun know you, you are definitely a COMPLETE lady and WILL ALWAYS BE as you have thoroughly reflected through your posts.
From what you have mentioned, I understand it's indeed fustrating having ppl staring and getting undeserved controversy.
Simply said, your feelings has been betrayed by your looks.
It's not only you who faces this problem but many who are like you.
Strangers u met on the street dun know u at all, unlike me, they never get to read what you have written here or get to know the REAL you. It's important to know all that.
Looks can be misleading so you can't blame them - for that not only happens in cases like your's, but in different aspects as well e.g. one who look as cute as doraemon but might be evil at heart.
You dun have to change your looks cuz you are already a lady.
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That's even better right? you have a familar face. Not some strange alien. Right?Originally posted by ooh_lala:..The funny thing is i keep getting people asking me whether i'm her fren from some school or her sister's fren .... so what memorable impression leh??
I got mistaken for someone else a number of times too. This year alone 3~4 times. I got this guy with a female friend approaching me, mistaken me me as a long lost friend, called me some other name, shook my hand, short of a hug. I was quite shock. After some parry here & there, he was very paiseh indeed. In front of his lady friend some more. 
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Originally posted by Yunhaier:Ya, ya and you attracted the 10 years old kid.
WHAHAHAAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAA!
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when was it?? how come i dunno??
NAN DAO??!!! you are the 10 years old kid!!!??? -
You act alittle more lady-like.. have a little make-up on.. mild one..Originally posted by ooh_lala:It's the stare that i cant tahan...... quite pissed loh.... i once hear two gers giggling and say me shuai ge jie jie in the bus... my hair is not even considered short... loh and i dun dress like a butch...
i overheard so many times they say i look like malay/unsingaporean cos of my sharp features... i even once caught a ger taking my photo on her handphone... sia... what the f..... i wish i'm a normal looking girl and living a peaceful life; like an ordinary person.... unharrassed loh... then dun need to act so aloof in the public liao...
shaped your eyes.. try not to weart oo big clothes or loose ones...
you can still keep yur short hair.. you see how many on the street got short.. how they bring out themselves.. maybe you observe some people and learn from their fashion sense..
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Think you're being oversensitive.... If not too paranoid....Originally posted by ooh_lala:It's the stare that i cant tahan...... quite pissed loh.... i once hear two gers giggling and say me shuai ge jie jie in the bus... my hair is not even considered short... loh and i dun dress like a butch...
i overheard so many times they say i look like malay/unsingaporean cos of my sharp features... i even once caught a ger taking my photo on her handphone... sia... what the f..... i wish i'm a normal looking girl and living a peaceful life; like an ordinary person.... unharrassed loh... then dun need to act so aloof in the public liao... -
Don't kk!!!Originally posted by SunRisE:
when was it?? how come i dunno??
NAN DAO??!!! you are the 10 years old kid!!!???
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do as u like... dress as u want... anyone who judges you for wat u are on the outside w/o knwg u on the inside.. his/her opinion is crap.Originally posted by ooh_lala:when people think i'm a butch loh... cos my features r sharp and considering yandao lah... but doesn't meant i'm a butch n got girls/guys stared at me loh but then i'm straightttttttttt..... now cannot cut short hair..... y?? cos scared people think i'm butch loh... even my friends think i shouldn't cut short hair... waulau.. for a girl, it's very sad loh cos i can't change my style the way i want loh...
Does guys stub butches that they don't know?? cos' i got stub b4 loh.. when i have my short hair..
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U should be thankful u've got an unusual face that people like to look at.
U are not the only one. I've a fren who always got mistaken for an Eurasian cos she is very fair, has brown hair & sharp features. She is fed up with having to explain to strangers that she is pure Chinese.