i am lost....
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ended a relationship with a married woman...
just becos i wanted to be with her so badly, i thought of all ways that might work.... i lost my own self, lost my sense...
unintentionally, i hurt her, betray her trust, ruin her life...
i am sinful, despicable and selfish... she never forgive me, neither i can forgive myself....
suicide thought always in my mind....... recently i resigned from my job cos i couldnt concentrate, most of the time ending up crying in the toliet cubical.... -
How long have you known her? How old are you?Originally posted by WillTurneR:ended a relationship with a married woman...
just becos i wanted to be with her so badly, i thought of all ways that might work.... i lost my own self, lost my sense...
unintentionally, i hurt her, betray her trust, ruin her life...
i am sinful, despicable and selfish... she never forgive me, neither i can forgive myself....
suicide thought always in my mind....... recently i resigned from my job cos i couldnt concentrate, most of the time ending up crying in the toliet cubical.... -
devil : does it matter?Originally posted by Devil1976:How long have you known her? How old are you?
he just needs to move on... -
know her for almost a yr, been together for 3mths... same age as u..Originally posted by Devil1976:How long have you known her? How old are you? -
hey
u'd just gotta get over it and move on
there is no point in holding on and not letting go and making everyone miserable.
sometimes u'd just go to let go to be free.
take care and suicide is doesn't solve anything. cherish yourself! -
Originally posted by nuchio:devil : does it matter?
he just needs to move on...
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Dear WillTurner,Originally posted by WillTurneR:ended a relationship with a married woman...
just becos i wanted to be with her so badly, i thought of all ways that might work.... i lost my own self, lost my sense...
unintentionally, i hurt her, betray her trust, ruin her life...
i am sinful, despicable and selfish... she never forgive me, neither i can forgive myself....
suicide thought always in my mind....... recently i resigned from my job cos i couldnt concentrate, most of the time ending up crying in the toliet cubical....
can i ask you a few qns?
Had u seen it comin when you know she`s a married woman??
I don mean u cant love another but you should haf know the consequence the moment u know she`s married, even more so if she had kids.
Undoublty, you`ve claimed to have made her life miserable.
By how? betraying her??
what did you do?
Perhaps u might have been feeling down,
but had u ever considered the feeling of her, her husband or even her kids?
You had forseen it, yet you did nothing to prevent it.
Suicide is not a way to solve problems..
It` only transfer the problem to another.
Find a objective in life and work towards it.
Let the lady go back to her husband.
Find a new life elsewhere.
If you don`t feel like working.
I suggest you take a break.
Go for a holiday alone and rest..
Think abt what you really want out of life..
Hopefully you`ll be able to cool down and start afresh..
You`re still young and there`s a great future ahead of you..
Don`t waste it..
Til then good luck and rest well. -
WillTurneR, read this thread
http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=94754
by devil... -
So you should be around 28 this year?Originally posted by WillTurneR:know her for almost a yr, been together for 3mths... same age as u..
Is this your 1st relationship? I probably would like to think not...?
Known for a year and been together for 3 months...? What happened during the 1st 7 months of knowing her... She's someone who surrounds your life quite a little..?
A married affair relationship... And it's only 3 months... How long do you really expect it to last...? How do you expect it to end...? 3 months... Find yourself a relationship which you can better handle...
You should have more or less expected this sort of ending probably when you 1st stepped into the relationship...?
I'm not sure if you're exaggerating... But is it REALLY WORTH your life...?
GO THINK ABOUT IT.... -
Originally posted by WillTurneR:ended a relationship with a married woman...
just becos i wanted to be with her so badly, i thought of all ways that might work.... i lost my own self, lost my sense...
unintentionally, i hurt her, betray her trust, ruin her life...
i am sinful, despicable and selfish... she never forgive me, neither i can forgive myself....
suicide thought always in my mind....... recently i resigned from my job cos i couldnt concentrate, most of the time ending up crying in the toliet cubical....
From day one when you decide to chase, you should know that likely, it would not turn out well and your route already promise you tons of misery, tears, disapointment and suffering.
You may like to share details, especially:
(I) Situations when you knew her as friends and during the process of it.
(II) Her marriage
(III) Everything else.
Cheers -
I bet she must be very chiou.Originally posted by WillTurneR:ended a relationship with a married woman...
just becos i wanted to be with her so badly, i thought of all ways that might work.... i lost my own self, lost my sense...
unintentionally, i hurt her, betray her trust, ruin her life...
i am sinful, despicable and selfish... she never forgive me, neither i can forgive myself....
suicide thought always in my mind....... recently i resigned from my job cos i couldnt concentrate, most of the time ending up crying in the toliet cubical....
Else I dont think with your logical mind, you would go after a married woman. -
bro.... there are plenty of stars out there.... if 1 is taken, take another..... even if all are taken, u stil have ur gd frens, buddies and family...
dun give tat crap tat u only wan her alone and stuffs... u tink its worth it ??
U got to move on... there are plenty of other things waiting for u.. -
Move on, life is so short so live it to the fullest.. along the way, u might find anyone just like her. Maybe it's just not meant to be, no point forcing. If u did something wrong to her, seek her forgiveness and try to amend the situation.
Don't wreck ur life with guilt. Do something to make urself busy.
Cheer up