Can't get over emotionally.
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Hey guys, how to console someone or to help someone to get over a guy emotionally. ?
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lend a listening ear
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HI paradox,Originally posted by paradox86:Hey guys, how to console someone or to help someone to get over a guy emotionally. ?
I assume you`re trying to help a fren to get over a fallen love??
For that, i do believe the best medicine is TIME
Keep the fatih,
hold it together again
TIME WILL HEAL ALL THE PAIN..
right now u can advise him to get busy..
get real busy in life..
find an objective and work very hard towards it...
i`m sure at least he won feel so bad. or will have significantly much time lesser to tink negatively..
Cheers to ur fren for havin such a great fren like you!!
Keep up the good work!!~~ -
Yeah, she just called and told me abt this guy she used to like called her. He say i kind of like you back again becuz u looks better than b4 and my friend won't mind if i'll to be with you. WTF rite, i heard liao really dam pissed. Now after she heard this, she can't get over it emotionally. haiz.Originally posted by Fluffy.white.sheeP:lend a listening ear -
Originally posted by BaByBoY:
i told her it'll take TIME to heal all the pain. Actually she's the girl i like ah. Now tht this guy finally show his true self, i'm kind of like happier ?
HI paradox,
I assume you`re trying to help a fren to get over a fallen love??
For that, i do believe the best medicine is TIME
Keep the fatih,
hold it together again
[b]TIME WILL HEAL ALL THE PAIN..
right now u can advise him to get busy..
get real busy in life..
find an objective and work very hard towards it...
i`m sure at least he won feel so bad. or will have significantly much time lesser to tink negatively..
Cheers to ur fren for havin such a great fren like you!!
Keep up the good work!!~~
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then u have to be patient... dun rush into it...Originally posted by paradox86:i told her it'll take TIME to heal all the pain. Actually she's the girl i like ah. Now tht this guy finally show his true self, i'm kind of like happier ?
let her sort it out 1st b4 expressing ur feeling...... -
Hmmm.....Originally posted by paradox86:i told her it'll take TIME to heal all the pain. Actually she's the girl i like ah. Now tht this guy finally show his true self, i'm kind of like happier ?
In this case it makes a lot of differnce altogether..
it`s not a good advice that i`m goin to give you
but i`m rather selfsih in terms of love.
Make use of this uncertainty in her
and grab the chance to pull her to your side
ALL`S FAIR IN LOVE AND WAR
Assure her of your care and concern..
If you`d ever expressed you affinity to her, let her know that u`re still there for her.
Or else, tell her that there`s someone that still cares for her..
My suggestion for immediate action will be to ask her out and let her cry her hearts out and pour all the greviences to you..
However, the information you`ve given to us is rather insufficient for me to make further anaylsis..
I`ll say Love is selfish, if u wan the best for her, set her free from this guy.
Gd luck!!~~ -
And also, to paradox86
I know you`ve certain difficulties to express..
But try to make your posts together
By seprating your problems into many threads sometimes makes it reather hard for people to understand your situation
and the advices hence given might not be appropiate for use in that context anymore
Thx for not spamming in AA -
yes love will make someone becoming very selfish.......Originally posted by BaByBoY:However, the information you`ve given to us is rather insufficient for me to make further anaylsis..
I`ll say Love is selfish, if u wan the best for her, set her free from this guy.
Gd luck!!~~
OT: bbb you u believe love will make someone lose his sense and do something very despicable just becos u want to be with her....? -
sry didn't make it clear the first timeOriginally posted by paradox86:Yeah, she just called and told me abt this guy she used to like called her. He say i kind of like you back again becuz u looks better than b4 and my friend won't mind if i'll to be with you. WTF rite, i heard liao really dam pissed. Now after she heard this, she can't get over it emotionally. haiz.
lend a listening ear and show her your concerns
but don't include in your opinions or comments as it would only make her
miserable
try to comfort her as much as possible and hope that she'd get over it -
as wat BaByBoY had mentioned, let time heal his pain.....solve ur own problems first....
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Yes..Originally posted by WillTurneR:yes love will make someone becoming very selfish.......
OT: bbb you u believe love will make someone lose his sense and do something very despicable just becos u want to be with her....?
Love is an amazing thing
Sometimes it can make people do things they may nv thought possible.
I`ll say love is selfish and can make people despicable at times,
but it AINT WRONG..
Just make sure you think rationaly enough and think abt the consequences that may come.
All love comes at a price, and no promises to back up with.
It`s a risk one must take, but don let it deter you from making any advaces.
Once you realise it`s not goin to work out, then you`ve have to know when to stop and let go to carry one another phase of youur life. -
Originally posted by BaByBoY:
yup, thanks for the advicez. she called me again just now and when i ask her abt tht guy, she suddenly told me she dunwanna tink abt it anymore.. she got over it physically but not emotionally.. the only thing she's concern abt was her studies.. her prelims result came out abit bad. yeah, getting her out was really hard till next wed. Her parents are extremely strict over her daily activity. She's a very vulnerable person, i hope time really heals all the pain for her.
Hmmm.....
In this case it makes a lot of differnce altogether..
it`s not a good advice that i`m goin to give you
but i`m rather selfsih in terms of love.
Make use of this uncertainty in her
and grab the chance to pull her to your side
[b]ALL`S FAIR IN LOVE AND WAR
Assure her of your care and concern..
If you`d ever expressed you affinity to her, let her know that u`re still there for her.
Or else, tell her that there`s someone that still cares for her..
My suggestion for immediate action will be to ask her out and let her cry her hearts out and pour all the greviences to you..
However, the information you`ve given to us is rather insufficient for me to make further anaylsis..
I`ll say Love is selfish, if u wan the best for her, set her free from this guy.
Gd luck!!~~[/b]
i expressed what i could, she called and she say she misses me alot and ask if i do and ask how was my day and so on. I can't relate this to tht guy thingy; guess she dun really wanna talk abt it. I'll stop for now till she bring up the matter again
regarding the mutiple threads, i'm sorry if i confuse ya.
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Yupyup,Originally posted by paradox86:yup, thanks for the advicez. she called me again just now and when i ask her abt tht guy, she suddenly told me she dunwanna tink abt it anymore.. she got over it physically but not emotionally.. the only thing she's concern abt was her studies.. her prelims result came out abit bad. yeah, getting her out was really hard till next wed. Her parents are extremely strict over her daily activity. She's a very vulnerable person, i hope time really heals all the pain for her.
i expressed what i could, she called and she say she misses me alot and ask if i do and ask how was my day and so on. I can't relate this to tht guy thingy; guess she dun really wanna talk abt it. I'll stop for now till she bring up the matter again
regarding the mutiple threads, i'm sorry if i confuse ya.
Just don`t worry too much
Keep us posted of gd news ok??
Let her be done w her exams 1st.
Jus a tip:
Make sure u get to know her parents well too
let them haf a gd impression of u.
Nxt time wanna pak tor also easier.
Haha..
Good luck til then!!~~ -
lick her ear , whisper "dun worry , forget him , remember me"Originally posted by paradox86:Hey guys, how to console someone or to help someone to get over a guy emotionally. ?
then hands move to the chest + the rest you know
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FEI LI ah!!!!!!!! *dial 999*Originally posted by shoutcast:lick her ear , whisper "dun worry , forget him , remember me"
then hands move to the chest + the rest you know -
If I were in her shoes , I would say to him : I used to like you back then but now since ur an a$$ , I really mind it if I am together with you.Originally posted by paradox86:Yeah, she just called and told me abt this guy she used to like called her. He say i kind of like you back again becuz u looks better than b4 and my friend won't mind if i'll to be with you. WTF rite, i heard liao really dam pissed. Now after she heard this, she can't get over it emotionally. haiz. -
Thx for your comment,Originally posted by shoutcast:lick her ear , whisper "dun worry , forget him , remember me"
then hands move to the chest + the rest you know
if you want to poke fun out of people
please proceed to other forums
this place is reserved for more better usage.
Thx for helping AA become a better place.
BaByBoY -
Find her a boy-band type of guy so she can forget her ex.Originally posted by paradox86:Hey guys, how to console someone or to help someone to get over a guy emotionally. ? -
Originally posted by BaByBoY:
Sound so exp SIAaaAaaAaA
HI paradox,
I assume you`re trying to help a fren to get over a fallen love??
For that, i do believe the best medicine is TIME
Keep the fatih,
hold it together again
[b]TIME WILL HEAL ALL THE PAIN..
right now u can advise him to get busy..
get real busy in life..
find an objective and work very hard towards it...
i`m sure at least he won feel so bad. or will have significantly much time lesser to tink negatively..
Cheers to ur fren for havin such a great fren like you!!
Keep up the good work!!~~
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Sigh, i don't think she will ever say tht; she's got over her physically but not emotionally. She still told me feeling bad not picking up his call. I mean wtf rite, he told you this sheesh and u still feel bad abt not answering his call. omg. I feel like whacking like tht guyOriginally posted by fymk:If I were in her shoes , I would say to him : I used to like you back then but now since ur an a$$ , I really mind it if I am together with you.
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some girls never learn...they like bad boys and there is nothing u can do about it except let her make her mistakes and learn from them. She has to experience it herself then she will know better next time. Nothing u can do about it. Love is blind ..Originally posted by paradox86:Sigh, i don't think she will ever say tht; she's got over her physically but not emotionally. She still told me feeling bad not picking up his call. I mean wtf rite, he told you this sheesh and u still feel bad abt not answering his call. omg. I feel like whacking like tht guy
jin jiu bu he , he fa jiu....