family problem?

• pUnkSai

  26 Sep 04, 00:54

  i feel very frustrated, very angry and mad about my family... hatred and anger has taken over me..
  
  my parents betray me.. invade my privacy.. they lie to me.. nags too much.. kp too much.. brother sometimes brainless.. asking idiotic questions.. asking for trouble..
  
  any1 experiences the same ting?
• SnowFlag

  26 Sep 04, 00:57

  it is normal. gives thanks that u can live with your family. some ppl dun even have such a chance.
• Kennerve

  26 Sep 04, 01:01

  Originally posted by pUnkSai:

  i feel very frustrated, very angry and mad about my family... hatred and anger has taken over me..
  
  my parents betray me.. invade my privacy.. they lie to me.. nags too much.. kp too much.. brother sometimes brainless.. asking idiotic questions.. asking for trouble..
  
  any1 experiences the same ting?

  How old are you? Every family is like that.. Don use the word betray or invade your privacy.. Ask yourself.. when you are in deep shit outside.. who are the ones who will protect you.. Not your frens.. Your parents are the ones.. no matter what.. they are the one who gave you life.. Just bear with them.. You are going to be a father/mother one day.. You will need to learn how to tolerate them.
• BLIM

  26 Sep 04, 11:58

  Originally posted by pUnkSai:

  i feel very frustrated, very angry and mad about my family... hatred and anger has taken over me..
  
  my parents betray me.. invade my privacy.. they lie to me.. nags too much.. kp too much.. brother sometimes brainless.. asking idiotic questions.. asking for trouble..
  
  any1 experiences the same ting?

  Hi Punksai,
  
  The way you put it is very childish. Your parernts betray you? In what way? Invade ur privacy? Although you have your own privacy but as long as you are their child for your entire life, they will care for you and try to understand you better. . What Kennerve said is true. When you are in trouble, you dun seek ur friends, you seek help from your parents.
  
  In future you are going to be a father and you will know it's not easy to be one as you are the disiciplinarian and the one who makes decisions in the house etc.....
  
  Think before you say anything. If you are considerate enough and caring enough, you will understand that the best friend you have in your life is actually your parents!!!!!
• gerrykoh

  27 Sep 04, 09:47

  Maybe u should ask yourself whether u have done something to make them behave this way. Have u been hanging out with the wrong people, not studying, rebellious etc.
  If u communicate more with yr family & show u are responsible, I'm sure yr parents will give u more freedom.
  Also u need to be more patient with younger sibling.
• spy8reak

  27 Sep 04, 12:50

  Originally posted by pUnkSai:

  i feel very frustrated, very angry and mad about my family... hatred and anger has taken over me..
  
  my parents betray me.. invade my privacy.. they lie to me.. nags too much.. kp too much.. brother sometimes brainless.. asking idiotic questions.. asking for trouble..
  
  any1 experiences the same ting?

  i do.
  
  sometimes they ask stupid questions.
  
  but depends on what triggers the argument.