does ur other halves do these to you?
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like not acknowledging u when u 2 meet friends or relatives outside. like for example u 2 were walking in orchard road holding hands den his/her friend walk over and say hi but he/she suddenly let go of ur hand. and say u 2 are just friends...refusing to acknowledge him/her.
second thing is, ur girlfriend recieve a telephone call. den it's very obvious tat she is not able to say a lot of things when the boyfriend is around. if u r the boyfriend how will u feel? if she talk on the phone and said something like "oh i'm outside"... followed by "no lah i'm outside with a friend".... if u're the boyfriend how will you feel?
i'm tremendously sadden and affected by her actions. what should i do? i tried talking to her but she did mention about not being too possessive towards her. aunty agony what should i do? -
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talk with her lor...tell her that you are affected by what she said to you...said that you are hurt when she refered to you as only a fren..and then ask her where you actually stand in her heart.
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I guess she is not ready to accept u as her boyfriend, just normal friend.
Maybe her family is very strict with her? She is afraid of them finding out?
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if i am u, i will seriously try to F her first than ditch her.
else quite wasted cos she is gonna say bye bye to u real soon.
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no problem with the first scenarioOriginally posted by spice boy:like not acknowledging u when u 2 meet friends or relatives outside. like for example u 2 were walking in orchard road holding hands den his/her friend walk over and say hi but he/she suddenly let go of ur hand. and say u 2 are just friends...refusing to acknowledge him/her.
second thing is, ur girlfriend recieve a telephone call. den it's very obvious tat she is not able to say a lot of things when the boyfriend is around. if u r the boyfriend how will u feel? if she talk on the phone and said something like "oh i'm outside"... followed by "no lah i'm outside with a friend".... if u're the boyfriend how will you feel?
i'm tremendously sadden and affected by her actions. what should i do? i tried talking to her but she did mention about not being too possessive towards her. aunty agony what should i do?
but he is rather upset when my fone ring..especially when i appear to be 'siaming'..didn't noe it bother him so much until he told me...so now will make an effort to tell him who call and what the call abt -
trust in a relationship take time to develop.
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i usually walk away when she is talking on the phone. i see no point hanging around and trying to eavesdrop a word or two: if she wants to let you know she will simply tell you.
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Aunt Agony, Yuhaier, is nt here but WILL BE BACK soon.Originally posted by spice boy:like not acknowledging u when u 2 meet friends or relatives outside. like for example u 2 were walking in orchard road holding hands den his/her friend walk over and say hi but he/she suddenly let go of ur hand. and say u 2 are just friends...refusing to acknowledge him/her.
second thing is, ur girlfriend recieve a telephone call. den it's very obvious tat she is not able to say a lot of things when the boyfriend is around. if u r the boyfriend how will u feel? if she talk on the phone and said something like "oh i'm outside"... followed by "no lah i'm outside with a friend".... if u're the boyfriend how will you feel?
i'm tremendously sadden and affected by her actions. what should i do? i tried talking to her but she did mention about not being too possessive towards her. aunty agony what should i do?
Talk to your gf about it. Tell her how you feel.
But, spice boy, be prepared for the worst.
Do update us after you have talked to her.
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Originally posted by spice boy:like not acknowledging u when u 2 meet friends or relatives outside. like for example u 2 were walking in orchard road holding hands den his/her friend walk over and say hi but he/she suddenly let go of ur hand. and say u 2 are just friends...refusing to acknowledge him/her.
second thing is, ur girlfriend recieve a telephone call. den it's very obvious tat she is not able to say a lot of things when the boyfriend is around. if u r the boyfriend how will u feel? if she talk on the phone and said something like "oh i'm outside"... followed by "no lah i'm outside with a friend".... if u're the boyfriend how will you feel?
i'm tremendously sadden and affected by her actions. what should i do? i tried talking to her but she did mention about not being too possessive towards her. aunty agony what should i do?
I am interested in four sets of details:
I) How old are the both of you?
II) How well do know about her before you get together. (May reveal how much you know about her past as well)
III) Time frame aboue being together and time frame of knowing each other before being together.
IV) Is she Taurus, Virgo or Capricorn? If not which sign?
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Haven't ciao yet, Thursday last post.Originally posted by kaobeikaobu:Aunt Agony, Yuhaier, is nt here but WILL BE BACK soon.
Talk to your gf about it. Tell her how you feel.
But, spice boy, be prepared for the worst.
Do update us after you have talked to her.
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'Relationship' nowadays are starting to take much more different definitions...Originally posted by spice boy:like not acknowledging u when u 2 meet friends or relatives outside. like for example u 2 were walking in orchard road holding hands den his/her friend walk over and say hi but he/she suddenly let go of ur hand. and say u 2 are just friends...refusing to acknowledge him/her.
second thing is, ur girlfriend recieve a telephone call. den it's very obvious tat she is not able to say a lot of things when the boyfriend is around. if u r the boyfriend how will u feel? if she talk on the phone and said something like "oh i'm outside"... followed by "no lah i'm outside with a friend".... if u're the boyfriend how will you feel?
i'm tremendously sadden and affected by her actions. what should i do? i tried talking to her but she did mention about not being too possessive towards her. aunty agony what should i do? -
I don't think she's taking you or the relationship seriously.Originally posted by spice boy:i'm tremendously sadden and affected by her actions. what should i do? i tried talking to her but she did mention about not being too possessive towards her. aunty agony what should i do?
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"too ashame to let others know that i'm your boyfriend? then go find one that makes you proud. bye."
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You have a point there.Originally posted by Devil1976:'Relationship' nowadays are starting to take much more different definitions... -
X2Originally posted by choco B:I don't think she's taking you or the relationship seriously.
more problem will come out de lo... my frene have this incident once also.. he became very depress. he change totally , everyday not as happy and is like his mind thinks alot .. eventually i told him to end the relationship... no point -
Originally posted by Yunhaier:Haven't ciao yet, Thursday last post.
Cheers
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Originally posted by www:"too ashame to let others know that i'm your boyfriend? then go find one that makes you proud. bye."
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juz curious, so what if she is a capricorn?Originally posted by Yunhaier:IV) Is she Taurus, Virgo or Capricorn? If not which sign?
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sounds like she isn't ready to commit or she'll not think twice of acknowledging what's going on between both of you. the cause of not being ready can be due to many internal / external factors.. dun blame yourself if u'r doing so now..Originally posted by spice boy:he/she suddenly let go of ur hand. and say u 2 are just friends...refusing to acknowledge him/her.... followed by "no lah i'm outside with a friend".... if u're the boyfriend how will you feel? i'm tremendously sadden and affected by her actions. what should i do? i tried talking to her but she did mention about not being too possessive towards her. aunty agony what should i do?
a few options:
1. stay cool..act blurrrr.. don't do anything & wait for her to raise any funny issue soon.. chances are she may either flare over small things soon or suddenly goes frigid. & U act / behave accordingly.. but at all times, b rational & reasonable..
2. confront her GENTLY on these two occasions that troubled u & hear her out. PLS make sure u're calm & not freaking out first.. u need tonnes of reflection & meditation before this option is chosen.. evaluate your inner emotional strength before u decide.. Make sure it's a nice place with romantic ambience as well.. steady ur heart too.
3. give her a taste of her own medicine.. which is quite child-like.. but fun nonetheless and depends on how old u two are.. & how serious u two r..
4. let her go.. forget abt it.. liFe is still interesting without her though u may feel some side-effects like temporary heartaches..
Last but not least.. to commit means 'to bind or obligate, as by a pledge: to compromise.. to give in trust; to put into charge or keeping..' according to my trusty dictionary..
hence u decide if she's capable of keeping your heart & soul with you and it's impt if she has wholeheartedly pledged to do so.
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Originally posted by audlenelee:
woah... you yi dian xiong...... -
Originally posted by spice boy:like not acknowledging u when u 2 meet friends or relatives outside. like for example u 2 were walking in orchard road holding hands den his/her friend walk over and say hi but he/she suddenly let go of ur hand. and say u 2 are just friends...refusing to acknowledge him/her.
second thing is, ur girlfriend recieve a telephone call. den it's very obvious tat she is not able to say a lot of things when the boyfriend is around. if u r the boyfriend how will u feel? if she talk on the phone and said something like "oh i'm outside"... followed by "no lah i'm outside with a friend".... if u're the boyfriend how will you feel?
i'm tremendously sadden and affected by her actions. what should i do? i tried talking to her but she did mention about not being too possessive towards her. aunty agony what should i do? it happens everywhere even to me my hubby, he's doing that to me also, well sometime i will remind him but if he didn't get my message then i will talk directly to him in front of the others, why must he acted this way since we've already married? that's weird really weird 
may be he's shy, may be he's just wana cover up his EGO 
so complicated lah.. -
Originally posted by mimi71: it happens everywhere even to me my hubby, he's doing that to me also, well sometime i will remind him but if he didn't get my message then i will talk directly to him in front of the others, why must he acted this way since we've already married? that's weird really weird may be he's shy, may be he's just wana cover up his EGO
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Yeah... Human's mind is usually so complicated... Hence the relationship... It works BOTH WAYS.....Originally posted by mimi71: it happens everywhere even to me my hubby, he's doing that to me also, well sometime i will remind him but if he didn't get my message then i will talk directly to him in front of the others, why must he acted this way since we've already married? that's weird really weird may be he's shy, may be he's just wana cover up his EGO
so complicated lah.. -
Different people have different threshold of showing affection publicly.