Originally posted by NhuButler:
We have been seeing each other for two months and she wants to stop because I might be leaving Sg in a year's time -- reasoning that we have "no future" and that she is "wasting her time".
This is despite of the fact that she knows I would still very much like for us to continue and gain whatever we can from each other for now.
Is this fair?
Well... You've got what you would like to have from this relationship and she've got her own views... What's 'fair'? It's a RELATIONSHIP... If it doesn't work out, no use for you to hang on to her just for the sake of that? You prefer a year of sufferings for both parties...?
Or does she actually mean something else but is just giving that reason?
Thanks guys.
Well... This makes more sense... And you're thinking... And people often thinks.... It could mean more, it can mean just that... Are you thinking too much? Or do you have some 'sure tell' signs...?
What makes you think that we can tell better just from your post as simple as that...
Hi ahkico,Originally posted by ahkico:Mayb she is jus isn interested in this relationship?
Or tat she feels insecure, coz tat u both will be apart after one yr... So she is feelin unhappy?
Hmm... But most prob i feel tat the main re is tat is jus an excuse to break off the relationship... N tis happen to be a very convinent reason to give...
Coz if she really treasure tis relationship... She will treasure every moment tat u both can still spend tog... N talk bt the future when u go overseas, etc... How to go bt being able to communicate wif each other...etc...
Mayb u should have a gd talk wif her to find out wat is the actual reason... Shower her ur attention n mak her feel tat u r very confi tat it still will work out in the end... Give her more sense of security...![]()
Originally posted by NhuButler:We have been seeing each other for two months and she wants to stop because I might be leaving Sg in a year's time -- reasoning that we have "no future" and that she is "wasting her time".
This is despite of the fact that she knows I would still very much like for us to continue and gain whatever we can from each other for now.
Is this fair?
Or does she actually mean something else but is just giving that reason?
Thanks guys.
Another 2 month relationship gone wrong....there must be an epidemic of those.Originally posted by NhuButler:We have been seeing each other for two months and she wants to stop because I might be leaving Sg in a year's time -- reasoning that we have "no future" and that she is "wasting her time".
This is despite of the fact that she knows I would still very much like for us to continue and gain whatever we can from each other for now.
Is this fair?
Or does she actually mean something else but is just giving that reason?
Thanks guys.
bah...Originally posted by fymk:Another 2 month relationship gone wrong....there must be an epidemic of those.
Just concentrate on ur priorities. Career/Study etc. Then think about relationships when you are well and truly ready for one financially , emotionally and maturely
Don't worry too much pal.. you are thinking too much.. If you really think that you both are truely in love.. maybe this will be a test for both.. However she asking for a break is becos.. Both of you only started for 2 months.. and you are going overseas for about a year.. Noone can gaurantee that nothing will happen within this one year..Originally posted by NhuButler:We have been seeing each other for two months and she wants to stop because I might be leaving Sg in a year's time -- reasoning that we have "no future" and that she is "wasting her time".
This is despite of the fact that she knows I would still very much like for us to continue and gain whatever we can from each other for now.
Is this fair?
Or does she actually mean something else but is just giving that reason?
Thanks guys.
haha. Sounds like she's met someone else. Firstly, you MIGHT be leaving sg. If she was still attracted to you, she would be beggining you to stay and stuff. But it seems she's not, instead she's brushing you off and says ur waste of time.Originally posted by NhuButler:We have been seeing each other for two months and she wants to stop because I might be leaving Sg in a year's time -- reasoning that we have "no future" and that she is "wasting her time".
This is despite of the fact that she knows I would still very much like for us to continue and gain whatever we can from each other for now.
Is this fair?
Or does she actually mean something else but is just giving that reason?
Thanks guys.
Hello NhuButler, from what I can perceived from your situation. I can only say that your relationship together with her is very young. So the foundation of the relationship is still pretty fragile. She probably feels that it is easier and painless for her to let go of this relationship right now rather than later.Originally posted by NhuButler:We have been seeing each other for two months and she wants to stop because I might be leaving Sg in a year's time -- reasoning that we have "no future" and that she is "wasting her time".
This is despite of the fact that she knows I would still very much like for us to continue and gain whatever we can from each other for now.
Is this fair?
Or does she actually mean something else but is just giving that reason?
Thanks guys.