kana tio chao sai

• tian_xia81

  29 Sep 04, 01:04

  jus a silly question and a doubts to ask u guys.
  i jus found out tat i was ditched becos of a third party and i wanna tok things out with her as in to clarify and she jus deny and deny and deny.
  y she still wanna deny since i have found the truth.
  a painful truth indeed
  
• sleepycat

  29 Sep 04, 01:10

  Originally posted by tian_xia81:

  jus a silly question and a doubts to ask u guys. i jus found out tat i was ditched becos of a third party and i wanna tok things out with her as in to clarify and she jus deny and deny and deny.y she still wanna deny since i have found the truth. a painful truth indeed

  when homo sapiens are confronted, they adopt a fight or flight instinct upon threatened.
  
  btw, how sure are you that you were ditched cuz of tat despicable 3rd guy?
• ditzy

  29 Sep 04, 01:11

  I know someone who's gonna get ditched in time to come coz of a third party too. But I'm not gonna tell him, coz I wanna see him die.
• sleepycat

  29 Sep 04, 01:13

  Originally posted by ditzy:

  I know someone who's gonna get ditched in time to come coz of a third party too. But I'm not gonna tell him, coz I wanna see him die.

  E V I L.... but cheerzzz
• gerrykoh

  29 Sep 04, 11:35

  Maybe she is afraid u will confront the other guy.
• Danisdead101times

  29 Sep 04, 11:56

  Originally posted by tian_xia81:

  jus a silly question and a doubts to ask u guys.
  i jus found out tat i was ditched becos of a third party and i wanna tok things out with her as in to clarify and she jus deny and deny and deny.
  y she still wanna deny since i have found the truth.
  a painful truth indeed
  

  well well...since she keeps denying ,then whatz the point asking her over and over again? if she really did so,just let her be,cuz she don't worth your love dude...look for another one which is much better than her and show her that you can live your life beautifully even without her...
• cutecuteboy

  29 Sep 04, 12:22

  Originally posted by tian_xia81:

  jus a silly question and a doubts to ask u guys.
  i jus found out tat i was ditched becos of a third party and i wanna tok things out with her as in to clarify and she jus deny and deny and deny.
  y she still wanna deny since i have found the truth.
  a painful truth indeed
  

  Sounds exactly like mine couple of months ago.
  
  So much evidence yet can still deny all the way. Mine still dare to turn around and blame the result of relationship as my fault.
  
  Beat that.
• tian_xia81

  29 Sep 04, 17:42

  to cute cute boy.
  yup my case same as u. she came out with all sort of excuses to show i at fault at this relationship and so she wanna break up.
  i confirm tat she having a third party but i not sure if they r together now.any feel been a spare tyre lately cos she sms me and ask me out.
• kaobeikaobu

  29 Sep 04, 18:22

  time has changed...
• tian_xia81

  30 Sep 04, 12:45

  have clarify things with her. she say tat they r not together yet but she admit tat she has a liking to him and they r been close. well jus feel hurt and betray ...........
• Devil1976

  30 Sep 04, 13:12

  Originally posted by kaobeikaobu:

  time has changed...

  RIGHT ON....
• Vonderful

  3 Oct 04, 06:15

  Hi dude,
  
  You can forget about her. She's done it once, she'll do it twice. It's in her blood. Kindly stay away, unless you think your life's too peaceful to be true.
  
  Things between them might not be going the way she had wanted, and as she looks back... Hey! There's still "you"!!!!
  
  It's all about "keep him here first and see how it goes... at least i'll have someone to fall back on when all else fails..."
  
  Makes sense?
  
  Be strong. Leave.
  
• tian_xia81

  4 Oct 04, 11:53

  thanks guys thanks for all ur supportive advise.
  well have to move on with life. its a week plus after i discover the real truth.
  but some times still ponder how she doing....
• Souledge

  4 Oct 04, 19:37

  i guess you just have to move one.... carry on with yr life bro... forget her... i know it is hard... but... i guess you still have to do that... when a girl does not wan to tell you... i don't think confronting her is a good idea... just let it be... i think you will be happier that way... cheers....
• Lingos

  4 Oct 04, 19:43

  If you know.. or think you know the truth.
  Why do you want or need some more confirmation?
  What does that bring you??
• ^Sankawa^

  4 Oct 04, 22:58

  You are not alone, mine too. So what's the big deal actually? ( I told myself.) Cos it's normal now-a-days. Since they thought they found their true love, wish them well. But who knows what will happen in future? They thought and thought and thought...no always the next one will be better. We can only wish and hope. So cheer up.
  
  Regards
• lution

  11 Oct 04, 22:08

  Originally posted by tian_xia81:

  jus a silly question and a doubts to ask u guys.
  i jus found out tat i was ditched becos of a third party and i wanna tok things out with her as in to clarify and she jus deny and deny and deny.
  y she still wanna deny since i have found the truth.
  a painful truth indeed
  

  NO need to question her about it. Simply get another ger, no need to explain to her. Carry on.