Love
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How to define love? How do i know whether am i very deeply in love with someone? What happens if your partner tells you that he cannot love you as much as you loves him?
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hmm sumone told me this before..Originally posted by v gal:How to define love? How do i know whether am i very deeply in love with someone? What happens if your partner tells you that he cannot love you as much as you loves him?
"Love is Patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easilly angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres."
Love is also courage and strength, it is not about money, nor is it about status but it is more of a feelings. It is the strength of being able to work together during hard times, the strength of being able to forgive and forget.
You know you are in love with someone when you care about him/her. As in truly care. You want to stand by him during happiness and sadness, and his/her happiness is of utmost importance to you. Even one smile can make your day seems much brighter...
For me, love is about giivng. So I dun really care who loves who most in a relationship. As long as we are together, I will give him my best. I dun care whether he gives more or less, but I will feel contented that I have loved with all that I have.
Just my opinion. Not that I am that experienced hehe
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Originally posted by v gal:
How to define love?
No wish to comment on that anymore... At least not for now...? Not here... Not at this moment...
How do i know whether am i very deeply in love with someone?
That's easy... You'll know... Naturally...
What happens if your partner tells you that he cannot love you as much as you loves him?
Probably only means so...? Loving would probably not be balanced off this way... It can mean that you're really giving him alot of love... Can also mean that he feels helpless in that sense of contribution... Or an unwillingness to put in effort to love you... -
an unwillingness to put in effort to love you...Originally posted by Devil1976:
What do you mean by that? If someone loves another, y there is even an unwillingness?
Anyway, thanks Icyprincess! -
for mi..? i will sae tt love is romantic n a very curious thingky...Originally posted by v gal:How to define love? How do i know whether am i very deeply in love with someone? What happens if your partner tells you that he cannot love you as much as you loves him? 
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For me, In love is knowing that u have found ur soulmate and ur other half aso agree with that...Originally posted by v gal:How to define love? How do i know whether am i very deeply in love with someone? What happens if your partner tells you that he cannot love you as much as you loves him?
How do u know u r deeply in love with someone? When u keep thinking about him.. and u just want to be with him..
What happens if ur partner tells u that he cannot love u as much as u loves him?
I think there really depends on the situation. Why he say there? Fear of commitment? -
Originally posted by v gal:
maybe he dun love u ENOUGH..... to be willing to sacrifice his time, his money, his whatever for you....
[b]an unwillingness to put in effort to love you...
What do you mean by that? If someone loves another, y there is even an unwillingness?
Anyway, thanks Icyprincess!
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i dunno.... -
love-~love-~love-~ what can i say~ ~ ~
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Originally posted by v gal:
Relax... That's only one of the many possibilities...
[b]an unwillingness to put in effort to love you...
What do you mean by that? If someone loves another, y there is even an unwillingness?
Anyway, thanks Icyprincess!
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Why can a person be unwilling to love another? Too many reasons to be listed down here... -
You cannot define love or measure love. Love is a feeling which attracts you to care for another person. True love will never turn to hate and with love comes happiness.Originally posted by v gal:How to define love? How do i know whether am i very deeply in love with someone? What happens if your partner tells you that he cannot love you as much as you loves him?
Continue to love and care for your loved ones until the day comes when you wake up in the morning and realised that you don't love him anymore. Then you will be eventually released from all the pain that this love has brought you.
Love doesn't requires any reason to begin and it certainly doesn't require one to end.
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Love blah blah thingy sucks,always come wif pain
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Folks,
Thanks for everything! I guess each one of us had our very own stories to tell...
As for mine, my bf had fallen for 2 people. Best friends. One gal (me) likes him, another not. So naturally, he choses the one who likes him too... however, i think the best thing is always the one that you cannot have. So deep inside, he longs for the love of another too... what should i do? -
[quote]Originally posted by v gal:
How to define love? How do i know whether am i very deeply in love with someone? What happens if your partner tells you that he cannot love you as much as you loves him?[/quote]
to be frank i myself did told this to my bf
well.... of cos everyone wants to find someone who can love and cares for him/her truely n faithfully whenever i told him this his reply is he dun mind as long as i'm with him it's okie but for mi i know i hurts him alot i do feel v gulity oso cos of this -
You think so or he said so?Originally posted by v gal:Folks,
Thanks for everything! I guess each one of us had our very own stories to tell...
As for mine, my bf had fallen for 2 people. Best friends. One gal (me) likes him, another not. So naturally, he choses the one who likes him too... however, i think the best thing is always the one that you cannot have. So deep inside, he longs for the love of another too... what should i do? -
well, he confessed.
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Under what circumstances...?Originally posted by v gal:well, he confessed.
He just said it out of the blue or ya kept pestering him for an answer...? -
heyz.... Love... Is more about self-sacrifices... I attempted thrice on my first 3 dates to be a gentleman.. On the fourth date then i realise this was the girl for me.. I wooed her for three months.. After all, when love comes, its unstoppable isnt it? .. Pity.. After about 1 month.. I found that she has a BF .. But.. Couldn't stand the fact that i had to break with her.. I continued the relation.. I adviced and told her many times to break up.. But she didn't want to .. So i finally decided to be against this whole thing.. She was very angry with me.. What to do? Whose at fault? .. Generally.. She is in the same school and class as me.. When I go School everyday.. Im trying to forget her.. but i cant? .. Imagine everyday facing something you wanna forget? ITs EXcruciating! ... But... I didn't Regretted my time spent with her in the past.. SHe.. Is THe person that i truely love... All those time, Ain't Spent wrongly.. My Promos are next week, I can't Study, thinking about our relationship.. Can't forget her, cause shes always in my life.. But.. I firmly believed.. Even If i fail my promo exams.. I will still love her.. After all, Love, Is aways about self sacrifice.. ain't it? .. 
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Abit blind by her eh...Though i admit is more about self-sacrifices, i would say u should study hard for her and most impt yourself. She does not want you to fail your promo exams yah..Originally posted by Ledikusa: heyz.... Love... Is more about self-sacrifices... I attempted thrice on my first 3 dates to be a gentleman.. On the fourth date then i realise this was the girl for me.. I wooed her for three months.. After all, when love comes, its unstoppable isnt it? .. Pity.. After about 1 month.. I found that she has a BF .. But.. Couldn't stand the fact that i had to break with her.. I continued the relation.. I adviced and told her many times to break up.. But she didn't want to .. So i finally decided to be against this whole thing.. She was very angry with me.. What to do? Whose at fault? .. Generally.. She is in the same school and class as me.. When I go School everyday.. Im trying to forget her.. but i cant? .. Imagine everyday facing something you wanna forget? ITs EXcruciating! ... But... I didn't Regretted my time spent with her in the past.. SHe.. Is THe person that i truely love... All those time, Ain't Spent wrongly.. My Promos are next week, I can't Study, thinking about our relationship.. Can't forget her, cause shes always in my life.. But.. I firmly believed.. Even If i fail my promo exams.. I will still love her.. After all, Love, Is aways about self sacrifice.. ain't it? ..
Priority Yourself first though its hard in your circum... : )
I too got my dificulties in love..everyone does... -
be prepared to be hurt..
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Ledikusa,
If you were to find a gal, who loves you too... in a great relationship.... will you forget her? the next time you saw this girl with your new gf, will seeing her triggler any feelings in you?
devil,
during a heart to heart talking session with him... he confessed that it had been bothering him...... -
HEy... Even if i find another girl... It would most probably be like her.. .. And i doubt i be truely loving her.. I could never forget her... You know how we communicate? We never quarreled.. Cuz we share our feelings through diaries.. Everynight we write out our feelings for each other to share... Therefore there was no miscommunication.. It was beautiful... I dun tink i will ever forgot..
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Love is patient; love is kind.
Love is not envious or boastful
or arrogant or rude.
It does not insist on its own way:
it is not irritable or resentful;
it does not rejoice in wrong doing,
but rejoices in truth.
Love bears all things,
believes all things,
hopes all things, endures all things
And now faith, hope, and love abide,
and the greatest of these is love
this is from the bible. Well, if you understand the meaning then you will have found your true love.
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Yup... Like I've said... Of course it probably would... He's confused..Originally posted by v gal:Ledikusa,
If you were to find a gal, who loves you too... in a great relationship.... will you forget her? the next time you saw this girl with your new gf, will seeing her triggler any feelings in you?
devil,
during a heart to heart talking session with him... he confessed that it had been bothering him......