lack of confidence in yrself.....Originally posted by o(O.o)o:can sum1 plz tell me y i always feeling tt i'll lose my stead to other ppl... like kana poach u noe wat i mean?
i'm always feeling so inferior to her guy frenx... hear tt they together in a group onli i jealous (mixture of boys and gurls).....
can sum1 plz tell me y im feeling so insecure...... i tot guys nt supposed to feel dis way...
p.s.esp................................ bear plz advise...
Its your thinking that makes yourself think you are not as good as her guy frens.. They have your strength, you have your strengths.. Just that maybe you did not utilise your strength well enough and tat makes you think that you are weaker that her guy frens..Originally posted by o(O.o)o:can sum1 plz tell me y i always feeling tt i'll lose my stead to other ppl... like kana poach u noe wat i mean?
i'm always feeling so inferior to her guy frenx... hear tt they together in a group onli i jealous (mixture of boys and gurls).....
can sum1 plz tell me y im feeling so insecure...... i tot guys nt supposed to feel dis way...
p.s.esp................................ bear plz advise...
You are lacking of self confidence and your trust in her and yourself.. Dont be so negative.. Open your heart.. Don't ever let possessiveness take over control!! This will result in quarrelling and break-ups..Originally posted by o(O.o)o:can sum1 plz tell me y i always feeling tt i'll lose my stead to other ppl... like kana poach u noe wat i mean?
i'm always feeling so inferior to her guy frenx... hear tt they together in a group onli i jealous (mixture of boys and gurls).....
can sum1 plz tell me y im feeling so insecure...... i tot guys nt supposed to feel dis way...
p.s.esp................................ bear plz advise...
You seriously need a boost of self esteem. I wonder why your feelings of lousiness exist in the first place.Perhaps there is a stimulus in your body that triggers a release of certain hormones in your brain that makes you feel lousy whenever you see your girl's guy friends. Consult your local GP for help.Originally posted by o(O.o)o:can sum1 plz tell me y i always feeling tt i'll lose my stead to other ppl... like kana poach u noe wat i mean?
i'm always feeling so inferior to her guy frenx... hear tt they together in a group onli i jealous (mixture of boys and gurls).....
can sum1 plz tell me y im feeling so insecure...... i tot guys nt supposed to feel dis way...
p.s.esp................................ bear plz advise...
Originally posted by shade343:You seriously need a boost of self esteem. I wonder why your feelings of lousiness exist in the first place.Perhaps there is a stimulus in your body that triggers a release of certain hormones in your brain that makes you feel lousy whenever you see your girl's guy friends. Consult your local GP for help.
Originally posted by An Eternal Now:if u really love her u wont mind even if she leaves u so that she can be happier.
Originally posted by o(O.o)o:
p.s.esp................................ bear plz advise..
Coz u prolly will??? And ur afraid of your relationship reaching its breakeven point peak of Law of Diminishing Marginal returns?Originally posted by o(O.o)o:can sum1 plz tell me y i always feeling tt i'll lose my stead to other ppl... like kana poach u noe wat i mean?
i'm always feeling so inferior to her guy frenx... hear tt they together in a group onli i jealous (mixture of boys and gurls).....
can sum1 plz tell me y im feeling so insecure...... i tot guys nt supposed to feel dis way...
p.s.esp................................ bear plz advise...
Dear o(O.o)o,Originally posted by o(O.o)o:can sum1 plz tell me y i always feeling tt i'll lose my stead to other ppl... like kana poach u noe wat i mean?
i'm always feeling so inferior to her guy frenx... hear tt they together in a group onli i jealous (mixture of boys and gurls).....
can sum1 plz tell me y im feeling so insecure...... i tot guys nt supposed to feel dis way...
p.s.esp................................ bear plz advise...
Originally posted by BaByBoY:Agree with babyboy. i used to think that all that i had done are acts of love, but come to realise that in the end, im the most unhappy party in the whole picture. why throw urself into a deep hot well and suffocate u and her? its not easy, but learn to let go and see the whole picture with a different perspective. if she is meant to be urs, whatever happens, you two will be together. if in the course of relationship, u realise that she is straying off, be glad that u koe that before marriage.. cos, it is a total different thing after marriage.. so treasure her and at the same time, be confident of urself.. confidence is not something that jus come overnight, but u have to give urself that..
Dear o(O.o)o,
I believe you`re suffering from the symtoms of loving too much and wanting too see her too much. Naturally, you`ll be afraid that you`ll lose her to other ppl.
I can say you really cherished her, so much so to the extent you`re over possesing he..
What you felt is naturally, i do believe you`re newly coupled? or that ur gf have a very big circle of friend that u may not know of all even.
tt`s why you feel insecure, cuz u don kow who she maybe goin out w and wat they may be doin..
you could haf tried to `tag` along her whle she go out w her friends if she allows u to. make frens w her frens let her fren know she haf a BF aka YOU.
i believe that will ease the uneasiness in you, so you`ll feel more secured as she`ll appear `booked` by you.
well who says guys can feel insecure too??
guys are afterall humans and made of blood..
even superman cries once ni a while
well, afterall it still boils down to how much trust you give her
[b]If you love her, TRUST her
tt`s what i believe LOVE is all about..
Be more confident of yourself, most gals like confident man.
if you think this way, as time passes, your actions will revael ur insecurity to her and she may even change opinion of you
PS. if you really don feel secure and such
i find it reasonable to talk to her direct also
let her know how you feel, u too should know how she feels..
Don suffocate her..
All the best,
Stay natural and be confident
she`d chosen you for a reason and you know it
BaByBoY[/b]
People are hitting on the spot... If you feel inferior, then improve yourself... Gain more confidence... Have more faith in her....Originally posted by o(O.o)o:can sum1 plz tell me y i always feeling tt i'll lose my stead to other ppl... like kana poach u noe wat i mean?
i'm always feeling so inferior to her guy frenx... hear tt they together in a group onli i jealous (mixture of boys and gurls).....
can sum1 plz tell me y im feeling so insecure...... i tot guys nt supposed to feel dis way...
p.s.esp................................ bear plz advise...