It's very normal to feel uneasy, sad or stressed when one is thrust into a new environment or getting along with new ppl, be it at work or studies....
Especially when you had wonderful times in the past....some of which is the happiest and unmemorable ones....And each of these unforgettable moments...happened at different phases of our life..and some had it few times more...
Personally, I had few happy moments, one of which surprisingly happened during army days. Of coz, there are sad and stressed period but most of the most wonderful moments I have in my life happened during that time.
But initially, I detested army life so much...seeing the worst ppl....dreading booking into army..with dead-line work that has no ending...depressed, sad, worried....every moment.
But I began to realise it's nt the environment or the ppl that has problems.
The problem is me. Had to change else it would be unfair to myself for . From then on, I gradually made a lot of true friends frm diff walks of life, helping each other out thru difficult times and I gained new perspectives, life experiences and insights frm friends...frm the cynnicals to one who genuinely care.
Why some ppl had so many unforgetable moments in their life while the rest had only a few? The difference is how you think. If you want to create more unforgetable moments throughout your life, each unique in its own, you have to stop standing and start moving if nt slowly. No special formula. Simple as tt.
To make full use of ur life and have a positive life outlook, will make a small difference in an environment, but a HUGE DIFFERENCE to the person beside u.Wish u all the best in everything including ur studies!! Play hard too!!
(If u managed to see this msg)
Sorry for being long-winded...haa haa..old liao lar..
