Cry wolf but one day she'll jump.
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My friend what she's doing is a classic case of emotional black mail. It'll only work if you react to her threats.
There is only one person who is to blame for a suicide - that's the person herself. No one else. You might feel guilty, but you did not do it.
The next time you receive a call or sms from her with a threat like that, refer the case to the Police. It's an offense to attemp suicide. She'll be arrested and given proper treatment.
She sounds psychotic, and she needs proper medical attention, and reporting her threats to the police is one sure way she gets it.
Tell her you're through with the relationship and that you'll sic the police on her everytime she threatens to kill herself.
Now go out there and find yourself a nice sane chick. SHOO! -
SnowFlag : Yea, I got what you mean.. but fact is. I dont have her friend's contact numbers. Even if I do relate to her friends, she has already warned me, once anyone knows about her situation, i'll get it painfully. She'll jump.
Devil1976 : Thank you for your detailed post.
Well, I suggested locking this thread up or deleting it because I feel that I cannot really be helped much at this instance. Everyone would be better off replying to others and their efforts would be better paid off than mine. Cos nothing seems to work.
In desperation I just called up a neighbourhood police post asking them if anyone committed suicide within the last 24 hours. They said they couldnt help me out because I'm NOT her family member. However, they urged me to come down, file a report and show the officer the sms or threat. Then they would visit her house to clarify things up. The officer responded very nicely to my request. He told me that frankly, nothing could be done until the person actually ATTEMPTS suicide. If I'm mentioned in the suicide note, definitely I will be contacted to give statement. An sms cannot be used as evidence of "attempted suicide". Ah, so complicated. In other words, he can't do anything.
Devil, I understand that she's addicted to it. She has a tendency to take things further if they DONT work, therefore it will LEAD to her jumping. She's been acting crazy recently, like crying and laughing at the same time after I told her I wanted a break up... I mean.. wtf.. that is so insane.. and she blabbers some stuff I cant understand or make out.. then continues laughing again...
I tried drifting away from her.. calling her less..etc.. showing no interest.. there was once she got the idea that I was not interested and the same old threats came again.
Oh yes, she's a horoscope addict. I personally dont believe in this, but just for your info. I'm Scorpio, she's Pisces. She has no family problems although she DOESNT confide in her parents at all.
I havent got a reply/call from her since her threats last night and this is sadly to say, the strangest behaviour ive ever come across from her..
I've done all I can. All I want is to have her LOCKED up so she cant do harm to herself.. but if SHE gets out, first thing she'll do is kill herself. Going against her wont help ease the suicide tendencies, going with her will ease her tendencies but only kill me in the long run.
I'll have to wait for news. Thank you devil and snowflag. I guess there's nothing much to reply or post in this thread. I'll keep u guys updated.
From the bottom of my heart, I thank you guys once again.
Bamboozler: Thanks man, i tried that. Didnt work. -
Originally posted by revvieeee:
Dear revvieeee,
Morning everyone,
This post isn't about "how do I tell this girl I like her" or "help, my girlfriend just dumped me".
[b]Its about getting rid of my girlfriend.
I'm 19, my girlfriend's 18. We've been together for a year already. We both have quite a temper. When fire fights fire, bigger fire. She demands 101% from a relationship, I take it slow and easy, preferring not to commit myself too much to a relationship. I'm the outdoor kind of person, I love sports. She's totally opposite. We fight very often. No violence, only war of words. I hate to have my face thrown anywhere. If we argue while we're outside and I fail to calm her down, I return her handbag and go home myself.
Straight to the point. I dont love her anymore. I want a breakup.
But I can't. 10 minutes after I break up with her, she'd write me a message..
"I'm on the 12th floor now, its quiet here. I'm going to jump. I'll MAKE YOU F-ING REGRET! YOU CAN COME AND COLLECT MY BODY!"
This has happened 30 to 40 times already. I'm sticking to her because she'll commit suicide if I leave her.
Some people say "go ahead! ask her to jump, she wouldnt dare". I know her well myself, she's the kind of person who "cries wolf" to WARN you, then DO IT. She will jump someday, its just a matter of time.
I've had nightmares over this. I dream that she's critically injured in some accident, and I just stand there, watching her die, cos I would rather she die in an accident than to commit suicide. It's taking a horrific mental toll on me. I feel so stressed, so drained of energy. I feel like killing her myself to shut her up.
I dont want to visit the mortuary. I dont want the police coming to my house. I dont want her to die and have me REGRET for the rest of my life. THIS IS SO DAMN FRUSTRATING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Silencing my handphone is of NO USE. She calls my house, my friends and even MORE threatening messages appear.
I need help... some kind soul please...[/b]
Sorry to hear about your story.. I wold like to ask is there any major incident that ever happen to her before.. and causes her to react in such a way?? People who often talks about commiting suicide.. are those that they normally wont do it.. Is the psychology.. They use this as threat to make people believe and show sympathy that they will actually do it.. In many of this cases.. how many will actually do?
She needs many attention.. especially from you.. cos she knows that you don't love her anymore.. She jus couldn't accept the fact that you are leaving her for good.. She's a pisces.. you're a scorpio.. two water element sign people.. No wonder thinks always can solved.. Both know that each other are too soft-hearted.. She make use of your weakness.. that's why again and again.. she's using the same old threat.. Cos she knows you too well.. that you wont leave her alone.. She uses emotions to attack you.. On the other hand.. you said that you know that she will really jump.. If she ever did.. or this really come across her mind.. You wont here telling us this story.. She wont be still here threating you over and over..
You cannot based on your feelings to judge things.. This is too serious.. She won't have the courage to jump.. You must be firm and strong.. Not to let her go over you.. and step you down.. If she really decide to jump.. there's nothing much to think about.. and she'll jus jump off the building liao..
If you think that talking to her family or friends are of no use.. then you have to settle it all by yourself.. Its jus a barrier in herself.. something which she cannot let go.. She doesn't love you too.. If she does.. she wont be reacting this way.. Like i say be firm.. don't be too soft hearted.. its getting no where.. If you ever got chance.. talk to her.. you have to! But then again.. is talking.. please don't ever end up quarrelling.. Good talk will help alittle.. better than nothing.. Seek for a professional consultation.. it can help too..
Cheers..
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Originally posted by revvieeee:
Hmm...
SnowFlag : Yea, I got what you mean.. but fact is. I dont have her friend's contact numbers. Even if I do relate to her friends, she has already warned me, once anyone knows about her situation, i'll get it painfully. She'll jump.
Devil1976 : Thank you for your detailed post.
Well, I suggested locking this thread up or deleting it because I feel that I cannot really be helped much at this instance. Everyone would be better off replying to others and their efforts would be better paid off than mine. Cos nothing seems to work.
In desperation I just called up a neighbourhood police post asking them if anyone committed suicide within the last 24 hours. They said they couldnt help me out because I'm NOT her family member. However, they urged me to come down, file a report and show the officer the sms or threat. Then they would visit her house to clarify things up. The officer responded very nicely to my request. He told me that frankly, nothing could be done until the person actually ATTEMPTS suicide. If I'm mentioned in the suicide note, definitely I will be contacted to give statement. An sms cannot be used as evidence of "attempted suicide". Ah, so complicated. In other words, [b]he can't do anything.
Devil, I understand that she's addicted to it. She has a tendency to take things further if they DONT work, therefore it will LEAD to her jumping. She's been acting crazy recently, like crying and laughing at the same time after I told her I wanted a break up... I mean.. wtf.. that is so insane.. and she blabbers some stuff I cant understand or make out.. then continues laughing again...
I tried drifting away from her.. calling her less..etc.. showing no interest.. there was once she got the idea that I was not interested and the same old threats came again.
Oh yes, she's a horoscope addict. I personally dont believe in this, but just for your info. I'm Scorpio, she's Pisces. She has no family problems although she DOESNT confide in her parents at all.
I havent got a reply/call from her since her threats last night and this is sadly to say, the strangest behaviour ive ever come across from her..
I've done all I can. All I want is to have her LOCKED up so she cant do harm to herself.. but if SHE gets out, first thing she'll do is kill herself. Going against her wont help ease the suicide tendencies, going with her will ease her tendencies but only kill me in the long run.
I'll have to wait for news. Thank you devil and snowflag. I guess there's nothing much to reply or post in this thread. I'll keep u guys updated. From the bottom of my heart, I thank you guys once again.
Bamboozler: Thanks man, i tried that. Didnt work.[/b]
Okie.... You want me to help you? Can... What I've previously mentioned to you probably won't work well like you've said... I need the TRUTH from you...
How long have you known each other? What have you said or DONE to her to cause her to behave in her current state...? Are you seeing another girl..? Or sort of...? -
Originally posted by revvieeee:
throw her out of the window
Morning everyone,
This post isn't about "how do I tell this girl I like her" or "help, my girlfriend just dumped me".
[b]Its about getting rid of my girlfriend.
I'm 19, my girlfriend's 18. We've been together for a year already. We both have quite a temper. When fire fights fire, bigger fire. She demands 101% from a relationship, I take it slow and easy, preferring not to commit myself too much to a relationship. I'm the outdoor kind of person, I love sports. She's totally opposite. We fight very often. No violence, only war of words. I hate to have my face thrown anywhere. If we argue while we're outside and I fail to calm her down, I return her handbag and go home myself.
Straight to the point. I dont love her anymore. I want a breakup.
But I can't. 10 minutes after I break up with her, she'd write me a message..
"I'm on the 12th floor now, its quiet here. I'm going to jump. I'll MAKE YOU F-ING REGRET! YOU CAN COME AND COLLECT MY BODY!"
This has happened 30 to 40 times already. I'm sticking to her because she'll commit suicide if I leave her.
Some people say "go ahead! ask her to jump, she wouldnt dare". I know her well myself, she's the kind of person who "cries wolf" to WARN you, then DO IT. She will jump someday, its just a matter of time.
I've had nightmares over this. I dream that she's critically injured in some accident, and I just stand there, watching her die, cos I would rather she die in an accident than to commit suicide. It's taking a horrific mental toll on me. I feel so stressed, so drained of energy. I feel like killing her myself to shut her up.
I dont want to visit the mortuary. I dont want the police coming to my house. I dont want her to die and have me REGRET for the rest of my life. THIS IS SO DAMN FRUSTRATING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Silencing my handphone is of NO USE. She calls my house, my friends and even MORE threatening messages appear.
I need help... some kind soul please...[/b] -
Hi,
I have just checked the SOS hotline, it works. Its just that sometimes all the counsellors are engaged so you will have to wait and try again.
First for yourself, please seek some counselling to help work some of the issues and stresses that you have experienced (including witnessing the body of the suicide) out of your system. That is important for your future!
As for the girl, its clear that she is unstable. I admire you for the strength and tenderness that you exhibit and the kindness you have for a fellow person even though she has put you through a lot. YOu have been careful not to do anything drastic to push her over the edge. Yes she clearly needs help and you will need to seek professional advise on how to deal with her and get her some help.
You will need to be there just a little longer until either you can pass the weight on to the professional smoothly or when they intervene.
Which school is she from? There are I believe counsellors in school. Call the school, ask to speak to the counsellor personally. explain the situation with or without giving her name (depending on thecounsellor). ask for advise. Perhaps the counsellor can do something or have some suggestions.
Essentially what is required is for some authority and stability to be restored back into her mind that she is answerable to someone else other than herself at this point in time. Handling this sort of situation is tricky and needs tenacity and quite a bit of firm authoritative handling coupled with a certain amount of tenderness. That is the job of the psychologist in helping her come round.
As to whatever it is that may have contributed to this unfortunate situation lets leave that aside for now.
In Singapore just like in many countries, a person who is deemed to be a danger to himself can be detained for medical treatment if a medical professional determines it so. So when seeing a patient they assess the mental stability of the patient and if they deem that she is a threat to herself, she can be referred for treatment even by force! I forget the source of this authority. As for the police, you are right that the police cannot really do much unless she is doing something that is an immediate threat to her own safety like doing something stupid etc.
check out this URL below for some basic info and also for some numbers to call.
http://www.imh.com.sg/patient_education/bereavement.htm
Hope everything will be ok soon. -
OMG.. that is scary stuff.
I think avoiding her is not a solution.
You need to talk to her.. my god.. i'm freaked out now. -
Hi, Again,
Call the SOS number. That is a good first step for her and definately for yourself. You owe this to yourself! -
Actually she just want attention. Just treat her the way she wanted until (hopefully) she c that u suffering also and let you go.Originally posted by revvieeee:Snowflag : No.
Thanks for everybody's help.
gerrykoh, amuletgurl and Ryen (thanks x10), xking, audlenelee, browniebaobao, Ito_^ and www.
The only viable suggestion right now is to .. seek professional advice, which I can't, the numbers wont work. I give up.
www makes sense .. "the more a person crying to kill themselves, the more they fear of death. at least this is how i see it. "
Well, so be it. If she jumps, we HAVE this entire thread to submit as statement. I've already printed everything out.
Sorry to tell everyone, nobody can help me except that crazy girl herself.
I thank everyone once again. When you step into a relationship, be careful and get to know the person's bad side better. I dont want anyone to end up the same fate as me. Nobody, be it human or animal, deserves such psychological torture. It'll scar.
I'll notify again if she jumps or the police calls. Meanwhile, I'll return to my work. I dont wanna pick up her calls anymore.
Please lock this thread moderator. Thanks.
Try to be ........ caring those stuff.....but show at the same time u trying your best. Bcos i think she got less fren and possible family/studies problem also and sad to say r/s comes in now also.Sooooooooooo she just want attention.
*If u cant beat them....join them. -
Everybody. I would like to thank all of you for your help.
Every single post everybody made I've read it word for word, character after character.
It was a normal arguement about the "I hate town, can we dont go there so often" issue... and it blew up too far.. drag throughout the entire bloody day.
Its time to do something. I'm going to convince her to jump. I'm going to be there to watch her drop. -
That's not the way man..
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Weiiiii dun do like that lah... u dun care meh later if she really jump off???Originally posted by revvieeee:Everybody. I would like to thank all of you for your help.
Every single post everybody made I've read it word for word, character after character.
It was a normal arguement about the "I hate town, can we dont go there so often" issue... and it blew up too far.. drag throughout the entire bloody day.
Its time to do something. I'm going to convince her to jump. I'm going to be there to watch her drop.
Advice.
*Remember things happens bcos of "Cause & Effects" -
sweet. but dont think that is the right choice.
standing in your shoes, i would be worrying about the trouble i would get into far more than her death.
you just have to ignore her threats. but to encourage her is another things altogether. -
i had the same encounter with my ex before. he was devasted by my decision and threatened to jump as well.
he will call me everynight and ask for patch back... and when i said no, he will say he's gonna reach my place in 1/2 hr and jump down from my flat.
i was dead worried, cried and asked my fren what i should do.
but of coz, i dun see him at all after every call. it happened for a few times.
the very last time was, he said he wanna see me one last time and promise to leave me alone after that. we chatted a while at the void deck.
he told me that he wanted to jump because he cannot handle all that stress and rejections. after saying all these, he suddenly grabbed my hand and force me to the lift and said he's bringing me to the top floor to see him jump.
-_-!!!!
i cried and tried to stop him with all my strength, and i told him "you are very selfish! you only care about dying and you are leaving me alone to face the police and your parents!"
he gave me a very shocked look
.... and he went into his deep thoughts for a few secs.
then he calmly said that he was surprised that i only care about the things which i'm gonna face after he jump, and not feel about if i will really be sad and regret my decision.
he gave me a last hug and left after that. we never really contact each other ever since.... -
Rant!!
my post got too long tt it`s eaten up by the IE monster!!
so i`ll haf to make a very very short summary of my post..
I agree to a very big extend w Devil on wat could be done to `drift` away from her.. but as u did that u muz show ur disinterest in her, let her know ur love for her is dead. ur relationship is empty.
however i muz say she`s very deeply attached to you.
haf u done something in the past that makes her `unable ` to leave u?
if drifting fails.
may i suggest that you give her the `hard ` treatment??
show her your temper.. let her know she`s pissing you off
and let her get away from u...
also possibly she may have used death to threaten u again
ask her to cool down in fake promise that you`ll care for her again
but end up to abuse her again
she`s nt stupid.. after a few rds of abuse.. naturally she`ll give up on u too..
this maybe a longer process and definatly not a gd advice
only use it as a last resort..
surely u won want to be controlled by her your whole life ??
do something abt it..
i`ll be back in the next few days..
meanwhile take care my fren..
BaByBoY -
Originally posted by revvieeee:
Post on behalf of Yunhaier
Morning everyone,
This post isn't about "how do I tell this girl I like her" or "help, my girlfriend just dumped me".
[b]Its about getting rid of my girlfriend.
I'm 19, my girlfriend's 18. We've been together for a year already. We both have quite a temper. When fire fights fire, bigger fire. She demands 101% from a relationship, I take it slow and easy, preferring not to commit myself too much to a relationship. I'm the outdoor kind of person, I love sports. She's totally opposite. We fight very often. No violence, only war of words. I hate to have my face thrown anywhere. If we argue while we're outside and I fail to calm her down, I return her handbag and go home myself.
Straight to the point. I dont love her anymore. I want a breakup.
But I can't. 10 minutes after I break up with her, she'd write me a message..
"I'm on the 12th floor now, its quiet here. I'm going to jump. I'll MAKE YOU F-ING REGRET! YOU CAN COME AND COLLECT MY BODY!"
This has happened 30 to 40 times already. I'm sticking to her because she'll commit suicide if I leave her.
Some people say "go ahead! ask her to jump, she wouldnt dare". I know her well myself, she's the kind of person who "cries wolf" to WARN you, then DO IT. She will jump someday, its just a matter of time.
I've had nightmares over this. I dream that she's critically injured in some accident, and I just stand there, watching her die, cos I would rather she die in an accident than to commit suicide. It's taking a horrific mental toll on me. I feel so stressed, so drained of energy. I feel like killing her myself to shut her up.
I dont want to visit the mortuary. I dont want the police coming to my house. I dont want her to die and have me REGRET for the rest of my life. THIS IS SO DAMN FRUSTRATING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Silencing my handphone is of NO USE. She calls my house, my friends and even MORE threatening messages appear.
I need help... some kind soul please...[/b]
Scorpio has intense relartionship at least once in a lifetime. Pisces; a higher level pisces would believe in sacrificing much for a relationship. However, afflicted pisces will misuse this sacrificial energy in a negative sense.
There are no best of both world solution in love. Very often we would only attempt one decision and stick along with it - like the bowling pin. Each fallen pin creates other reaction you cannot control nor stop! It means that you have already tried all your means to change her mindset and since you mention that you have no problem in leaving her at all.
Do it!
Reason Being:
You are simply not the person that would change her because someone else has to do the job. You know she won't jump and even if she jump, let it be! Eventually you still will have to leave her. Wouldn't you? How long you want to drag this? 5 years? 10 years? you wanna marry her? Of cos NOT!
P.S: Here soemthing to think about. Are you sure she is the one who resisted against leaving the relationship OR is it you subconciously? Remember we have the power to leave any relationship; it is but us who choose to stay.
Cheers -
*pat pat ah chu*Originally posted by Churra:i had the same encounter with my ex before. he was devasted by my decision and threatened to jump as well.
he will call me everynight and ask for patch back... and when i said no, he will say he's gonna reach my place in 1/2 hr and jump down from my flat.
i was dead worried, cried and asked my fren what i should do.
but of coz, i dun see him at all after every call. it happened for a few times.
the very last time was, he said he wanna see me one last time and promise to leave me alone after that. we chatted a while at the void deck.
he told me that he wanted to jump because he cannot handle all that stress and rejections. after saying all these, he suddenly grabbed my hand and force me to the lift and said he's bringing me to the top floor to see him jump.
-_-!!!!
i cried and tried to stop him with all my strength, and i told him "you are very selfish! you only care about dying and you are leaving me alone to face the police and your parents!"
he gave me a very shocked look .... and he went into his deep thoughts for a few secs.
then he calmly said that he was surprised that i only care about the things which i'm gonna face after he jump, and not feel about if i will really be sad and regret my decision.
he gave me a last hug and left after that. we never really contact each other ever since.... -
Yup. I believe it's a legal offence?Originally posted by www:sweet. but dont think that is the right choice.
standing in your shoes, i would be worrying about the trouble i would get into far more than her death.
you just have to ignore her threats. but to encourage her is another things altogether. -
A friend I had, used to threaten to take panadol overdose. She call me to tell me her bf dumped her and she told him she taken 30 panadol. So I ask her ...how much panadol ...she says 30. When I got to the house , she was whining about killing herself....and I told her direct: take a 100 then it will kill you instantly rather than slowly and painfully. She told me to bring her to the hospital which I did.Originally posted by revvieeee:Snowflag : No.
Thanks for everybody's help.
gerrykoh, amuletgurl and Ryen (thanks x10), xking, audlenelee, browniebaobao, Ito_^ and www.
The only viable suggestion right now is to .. seek professional advice, which I can't, the numbers wont work. I give up.
www makes sense .. "the more a person crying to kill themselves, the more they fear of death. at least this is how i see it. "
Well, so be it. If she jumps, we HAVE this entire thread to submit as statement. I've already printed everything out.
Sorry to tell everyone, nobody can help me except that crazy girl herself.
I thank everyone once again. When you step into a relationship, be careful and get to know the person's bad side better. I dont want anyone to end up the same fate as me. Nobody, be it human or animal, deserves such psychological torture. It'll scar.
I'll notify again if she jumps or the police calls. Meanwhile, I'll return to my work. I dont wanna pick up her calls anymore.
Please lock this thread moderator. Thanks.
People threaten suicide , I call their parents to tell them to keep an eye on that person. If too many times, I tell them to get it right the first time. Usually it's the guys who kill themselves suddenly .....but girls usually - it's a cry for help.
However saying all these, your gf is placing psychological pressure and manipulating you as she sees fit. Frankly if I were in ur shoes, I tell her to do what she want and she alone is responsible for her decisions including jumping off the roof. I rather if they commit suicide, they better get it right the first time or else they may end up on a ventilator like a vegetable. -
you are so screwed.
but i tell u what u can do
you can inform the police
i am sure they will take appropriate measures, since killing yourself is agasint the law.
other then tat i don't see how u can put a stop to it since u feel she would realli kill herself.
i rather i not haf blood on my hands. -
Hi everyone,
I've read all your replies, every single one of em.
Its a very heartwarming thing to see so many Aunt Agony users offering their advice and help. I dont even know you, and you dont even know me..and it touches me most to see that you're trying to help me.
Thank you everyone. You have my continued support in this forum.
Good news..
I managed to solve the problem. She whined (again) about "jumping down the block.. i'm at the rooftop.. it's quiet here i'm gonna jump.. " ok fine.. So i told her on the phone..
"I can't bear to see you die, I'm going first. Enough of you threatening me. I'm GOING to make u regret now."
Fight fire with fire.
Which I promptly turned off my handphone. Of course I won't jump, heh. I drove to the gym as usual... left my handphone at home. Silence really felt so good... I had the best workout of my life..
Great coordination with my dad as well.. I told him to call my girlfriend 15 minutes later, asking her why I went out barefoot and crying. Dad's acting was so realistic that even my sister came out of her room and gave him the stare. LOL. My girlfriend got the biggest shock of her life... She even begged my dad to find me. Dad said he couldnt do anything much because I took his car out. But of course, dad knew what was going on.
I returned home around 11pm, with a naturally tired voice, called her. She was so happy to hear my voice she started apologizing for her foolish acts and that she wouldn't think about suicide ever again.
Sometimes, the weirdest solutions do work.. -
congrats
i had a fren who had the same prob as you. the bf threatened suicide every time she wanna break up.
the good news: he didn't die of suicide...
the bad news: he died falling down accidentally - from the 2nd floor... obviously he just wanted to scare her but missed his footing...
the good news: my fren is now (happily, i hope) married...
the bad news: she'll never forget.
the best news: you're lucky. get out while you can... -
2nd floor? How? It must have been very very traumatic for the girl... Yea. good for your friend, at least she's happily married now.
-
Originally posted by revvieeee:
Power-pack wei...........!!!
Hi everyone,
I've read all your replies, every single one of em.
[b]Its a very heartwarming thing to see so many Aunt Agony users offering their advice and help. I dont even know you, and you dont even know me..and it touches me most to see that you're trying to help me.
Thank you everyone. You have my continued support in this forum.
Good news..
I managed to solve the problem. She whined (again) about "jumping down the block.. i'm at the rooftop.. it's quiet here i'm gonna jump.. " ok fine.. So i told her on the phone..
"I can't bear to see you die, I'm going first. Enough of you threatening me. I'm GOING to make u regret now."
Fight fire with fire.
Which I promptly turned off my handphone. Of course I won't jump, heh. I drove to the gym as usual... left my handphone at home. Silence really felt so good... I had the best workout of my life..
Great coordination with my dad as well.. I told him to call my girlfriend 15 minutes later, asking her why I went out barefoot and crying. Dad's acting was so realistic that even my sister came out of her room and gave him the stare. LOL. My girlfriend got the biggest shock of her life... She even begged my dad to find me. Dad said he couldnt do anything much because I took his car out. But of course, dad knew what was going on.
I returned home around 11pm, with a naturally tired voice, called her. She was so happy to hear my voice she started apologizing for her foolish acts and that she wouldn't think about suicide ever again.
Sometimes, the weirdest solutions do work..[/b]
Anyhow good luck in your r/s . -
Thank you ahmike! I like your quotes
