Misunderstanding...

• 101wish

  5 Oct 04, 17:46

  Hello ppl, i hav been misunderstood by someone, tink tat person go n spread the "rumours", now the ppl in my dept behave weird when they saw me..this is ridiculous..i oredi hav some many thgs to make me stressful..yet they add unnecessary rumour to bother me..i tried to pretend not to know anythg but they r getting on my nerves !!! so, wat shld i do now
• audlenelee

  5 Oct 04, 17:46

  confront 'tat' person
• hopy

  5 Oct 04, 17:46

  clarify the misunderstding lor
• FireIce

  5 Oct 04, 17:47

  be urself and prove them wrong
  
  dun have to care wat others think
  
  the truth will come to light
• 101wish

  5 Oct 04, 17:50

  Originally posted by audlenelee:

  confront 'tat' person

  i dun know who's the culprit..
• audlenelee

  5 Oct 04, 17:53

  wat did they spread?
• 101wish

  5 Oct 04, 18:03

  Originally posted by audlenelee:

  wat did they spread?

  actually this sounds silly, i oso pai seh to say...but this really ruin my reputation...ok, when i saw ppl coming towards me, i would say hi then i wil look down the floor, then they misunderstand..they thot i am "pervert", looking below their waist ( err, do u know wat i mean ? ), so now all the guys r so "afraid" of me now, this is sooooo RIDICULOUS !!!
• v gal

  5 Oct 04, 18:05

  you have to ask yourself what is the rumor? is it true? y pple want to spread rumor abt you? Even so, sure there is someone, your collegues, out there who is close to you will stand by you, right?
  
  sometimes we always blame pple when things happen... we usually neglect the part that ourselves are partly to be blame too...
  
  haha... think i am not consoling pple, right??????
• audlenelee

  5 Oct 04, 18:07

  Originally posted by 101wish:

  actually this sounds silly, i oso pai seh to say...but this really ruin my reputation...ok, when i saw ppl coming towards me, i would say hi then i wil look down the floor, then they misunderstand..they thot i am "pervert", looking below their waist ( err, do u know wat i mean ? ), so now all the guys r so "afraid" of me now, this is sooooo RIDICULOUS !!!

  u guy ah? then next tym stare at girls' breasts lah...
  
  this kind of silly rumours.. pls... ignore lah..
• 101wish

  5 Oct 04, 18:10

  Originally posted by audlenelee:

  u guy ah? then next tym stare at girls' breasts lah...
  
  this kind of silly rumours.. pls... ignore lah..

  i am gal, sigh~
• FireIce

  5 Oct 04, 18:12

  the most safe place to stare is the nostrils
• Fluffy.white.sheeP

  5 Oct 04, 19:43

  no la not nice to stare into people's nostrils
  can see a jungle inside
  ahahahahahaha...
• Devil1976

  6 Oct 04, 01:02

  Originally posted by 101wish:

  i am gal, sigh~

  The more you should just ignore them... Don't take such to heart... Not worth it....
• mancha

  6 Oct 04, 02:21

  You hit the problem on the head, with your heading.
  Misunderstanding.
  You misunderstand them and they notice it, and you notice that they look at you in a funny way because you look at them in a funny way.
  Its all in your head.
  Understand.
  Be normal and all will be normal.
• the.raven

  6 Oct 04, 03:33

  dont care, eventually the rumours will end cuz it is not true.