Girls reactions to sms?

pete98

11 Oct 04, 17:59

1)Would it bother them to receive sms reeting from a guy almost everyday?
2)If so, would they responds to such greeting or would they ignore them?
3)Is it obvious to them that the guy is interested in her if he is sending sms daily to her?
4)If she responds to such sms greeting with her own sms greeting most of the times, does she do it out of friendship or something else(love, pity, etc).
5)Would she make a effort to send the guy a sms early in the morning before he goes to work if she does not like the guy?

SnowFlag

11 Oct 04, 18:14

i know some gals can be rather friendly Razz

huiz

11 Oct 04, 18:23

1) would probably be puzzled & thinks this guy sure hav a lot of smses to spare Laughing

2) read liao, then close it. nothing much

3) depends on the contents of the sms, might be a hint. which guy would be so free to send sms everyday to a girl? even as normal same gender frens, u might not do tat.

4) hmm...probably out of frenship unless she likes the guy

5) dun like the guy as in dun love the guy but still frens?

kiri

11 Oct 04, 18:26

most would just ignore the sms

elindra

11 Oct 04, 18:42

1) Err depending. If she thinks the guy is a pain in the a** then yeah, it would bother her

2) Well, if it is those cute forwarded sms greetings, tendancy to ignore is high, if not she may respond out of courtesy.

3) No.

4) It can be anything. Some girls are friendly, some reply coz its only polite, friendship etc etc

5) This can be tricky. It may be or may not. Though tendancy is that she does like the guy to a certain extend

Lingos

11 Oct 04, 18:44

Depends..
i think it's weird.. kinda like close to stalking.
I dunno.. i wouldn't do that.

Xcert

11 Oct 04, 21:00

if the guy is so interested in her...why not just ask her out?No guts?then stay home suck thumb lor... Laughing

jazzy13

11 Oct 04, 21:08

1) if she likes the guy, then she wont feel bother...if she doesn't like the guy then she may feel irritated.
2) unless require reply, otherwise no lor.
3) yes in my opinion
4) maybe she likes u?
5) if i really like the guy, i might! Razz

lution

11 Oct 04, 21:52

if you like her and really want to get her, QUIT worrying about her reactions to sms!

*Lord Kang*

11 Oct 04, 21:54

I think most of the gals will simply ignore the sms...Some may just reply with another greeting...But if the girl is interested in u, she may reply asking how was ur day all that...

pete98

11 Oct 04, 22:47

6)On the average, would a girl exchange about 50 sms greetings within a period of less than 1 month with a guy shes not interested in?

pete98

11 Oct 04, 22:50

Stalking would be more like tracking her wherever she goes. Greeting are just greeting(good morning, etc). Not sure how they could be linked together?

browniebaobao

11 Oct 04, 23:07

1. no bother
2. depends on the girl. no harm responding.
3. not obvious. coz some pple send as frens only.
4. could be just friendship. must see contents.
5. why not? isn't it just a morning greeting? dun like doesnt mean detest right?

jeslin

12 Oct 04, 03:41

1) hmm no.. but its nice to have attention sometimes

2) if the girl likes you, she'll reply most of the times. if not, nope.

3) IMO, daily sending of sms sure indicate something.

4) if lets say she respond with a forwarding sms, it might be out of friendship or just purely replying. if she's replying with her own words, she's starting a conversation. like what some said, it really depends on contents.

5) if she don't like you, she don't even care to read or reply. what for sms?

sgboy2004

12 Oct 04, 07:20

no handphone leh Sad

yukinari

12 Oct 04, 08:35

I'm doin' tat to a gal whom i like.... sometimes she reply me.. sometimes not.. cos she busy mah.... i suppose so... i ask her b4 if I'm a Nuisance but she say I'm not lor.... maybe she likes me too.... I ask her b4... tat I like her... but she say she wants to concentrate on her exams first....

simulacrum

12 Oct 04, 08:56

01) if she dislikes the guy, of course will feel irritated. BUT even if it doesnt bother her, does not mean that she likes him or even anything close

04) could be love, pity, pure friendship or even plain courtesy. some gers do feel that they are rude if they leave a sms unanswered or unreplied

05) what's the big deal if she is already awake? again no conclusive answer to a non conclusive question Wink

pete98

12 Oct 04, 11:15

Thanks for all the response Very Happy

Seems like theres many different opinion, just wondering if its all base on real experience or just individual thoughts? And also which replies are from guys and which are from girls, cos different gender may have different perspective about this.

sgFish

12 Oct 04, 22:16

doing the same thing here ..cept that i never told her i like her before...and she's having her exams now too...wad sch is that girl from?

EDIT: omg...the red part is the exact same thing happening to me

curiousity

13 Oct 04, 18:03

depends.. some gals love to rec sms greetings so can share with other frens also. i hv alot of such sms greetings or fwd sms... mostly guy frens send them to me..but i read liaos no feelings leh... i juz fwd on to my other frens...
so it became like exchging sms ... juz like those emails u rec n fwd on to others.
provided u know tat the person got hao gan for u.. n everytime he/she sms u are those related sweet stuffs... if got others non related sms, then no lah...
esp like if its alrdy afternn now then she send u a gd morning sms or gdnite sms... then its obvious juz fwding on to u.

pete98

13 Oct 04, 23:27

Ok now for more details Smile

Ever since since the last gd morning sms I send her which she never replies. I quit sending her anything for the last 24hrs or more. And this is the reply I just from her at 9pm:

"Hi (my name) how are u? I didn't sms u yesterday n today coz my phone credit(she live in malaysia) have finished n just now only i top up n sraight away sms u. R u really busy? How about ur training in IA? Is that very difficult 4 u? I think no coz u smart what".Hey how about ur study? Good nite n take care urself.Sms if u free ok,i miss u n ur sms.

Feel free to comments but try to be polite. Thanks Smile

PS: I just sms her to ask her out(on our free day) for a friendly chat. Waiting for a reply. Wish me luck Smile

jazzy13

13 Oct 04, 23:36

my tots..maybe she likes u...dropping hints for u to pick up...
anyway, good luck! Wink

Magnus

14 Oct 04, 04:27

My personal experience :

I have a lady colleague who is still single but attached, I am married with children.

We grown close as we do travel on business trip together before.

We do SMSes each other after work on a daily basis about work, her bf, my family & other stuffs.
Most weekends, we dun SMS unless related to work.

There's an un-spoken pact between us about our friendship as to where to draw the line. So far, nothing 'crazy' happened and should stay that way.

My point is, in your case,
Work on being friends first, dun think so much.
Even if she do likes u, it can mean just that - just friends.

Cheers. Smile

pete98

14 Oct 04, 16:05

I got another morning greeting sms from her again early(5am) this morning. This makes it the 50th sms I gotten from her since we start exchanging sms about 1 month ago. I don't think I ever got that much sms from a single person in a month before? Granted most are gd morning, nite and day greeting with some 'miss you' sms mixed in. But is this normal? She seems to be sending me more sms than I am.

Ayla

15 Oct 04, 09:56

i presumed u like this gal. From my point of view, I think this gal is trying to capture your attention. She is playing hard to get!!! See, the moment you stopped sms-ing her as much, she comes back to you. Some gals are like that. If you really like her, just tell her straight in the face, go straight to the point. Don't dilly dally here and there. If she is really meant to be yours, you don't need 50 sms-es to win her heart...

P.S : Juz my 2 cents worth of opinion Smile