Hmmmm i would advice u to try to bring your wife and yourselves to go somewhere etc. travelling or do something wild once a while. This will "refill" the flames with oilOriginally posted by posterboy_101:in summary, i am questioning my relationship w my wife.
ive known her almost my whole life, and i love her, and though there were times i was not sure of myself, i have always come back to her end of the day... that is, until recently.
i met this woman while she was on a 1 week tour to s'pore for work. though we've known each other since her 1st day here, nothing happened betw us. however, on the 3rd last day, sparks flew out of nowhere (kinda like the movies) and the last 3 days before she left we spent as much time as we could. it wasnt sexual at all, but rather it was some strange and magnetic attraction that is unexplainable. yet it was truly amazing.
before anyone starts pointing fingers, no, there wasnt sex involved, except 1 kiss. but to me (and her probably) it was like a kiss that dreams are built on, which was way more than enough...
anyway shes gone, and my lifes back to *normal*... still do think of her all the friggin time. was tt love? cos that wasnt a crush, not built on the love-at-first-sight basis, cosmic is the closest word i can describe... weird cos i dint expect to experience this at the ripe old age of 28.
so where does my wife come in? nowhere really. i still do love her, and she is a great girl, and i cant think of anyone who is more suitable, but somehow the feeling's different.
i really hope theres someone out there who has been in situations like this to shed some light. could really grab some advice. can a person love more than 1 person, for different reasons?
Originally posted by posterboy_101:in summary, i am questioning my relationship w my wife.
ive known her almost my whole life, and i love her, and though there were times i was not sure of myself, i have always come back to her end of the day... that is, until recently.
i met this woman while she was on a 1 week tour to s'pore for work. though we've known each other since her 1st day here, nothing happened betw us. however, on the 3rd last day, sparks flew out of nowhere (kinda like the movies) and the last 3 days before she left we spent as much time as we could. it wasnt sexual at all, but rather it was some strange and magnetic attraction that is unexplainable. yet it was truly amazing.
before anyone starts pointing fingers, no, there wasnt sex involved, except 1 kiss. but to me (and her probably) it was like a kiss that dreams are built on, which was way more than enough...
anyway shes gone, and my lifes back to *normal*... still do think of her all the friggin time. was tt love? cos that wasnt a crush, not built on the love-at-first-sight basis, cosmic is the closest word i can describe... weird cos i dint expect to experience this at the ripe old age of 28.
so where does my wife come in? nowhere really. i still do love her, and she is a great girl, and i cant think of anyone who is more suitable, but somehow the feeling's different.
i really hope theres someone out there who has been in situations like this to shed some light. could really grab some advice. can a person love more than 1 person, for different reasons?
You're drifting and probably slowly falling apart... It's not a good sign...?Originally posted by posterboy_101:call it fate? i dunno... i sure as hell am not gonna grab the next flight to america to be with her (shes non asian, while i am)... but i have a feeling that should our paths meet again i wont hold back either...
You can love more than 1 if you allow your heart.. The one you love most might not be the one that is the most suitable for you (the woman).. Same goes to the one whom you don't love most is the one for you (your wife)..Originally posted by posterboy_101:in summary, i am questioning my relationship w my wife.
ive known her almost my whole life, and i love her, and though there were times i was not sure of myself, i have always come back to her end of the day... that is, until recently.
i met this woman while she was on a 1 week tour to s'pore for work. though we've known each other since her 1st day here, nothing happened betw us. however, on the 3rd last day, sparks flew out of nowhere (kinda like the movies) and the last 3 days before she left we spent as much time as we could. it wasnt sexual at all, but rather it was some strange and magnetic attraction that is unexplainable. yet it was truly amazing.
before anyone starts pointing fingers, no, there wasnt sex involved, except 1 kiss. but to me (and her probably) it was like a kiss that dreams are built on, which was way more than enough...
anyway shes gone, and my lifes back to *normal*... still do think of her all the friggin time. was tt love? cos that wasnt a crush, not built on the love-at-first-sight basis, cosmic is the closest word i can describe... weird cos i dint expect to experience this at the ripe old age of 28.
so where does my wife come in? nowhere really. i still do love her, and she is a great girl, and i cant think of anyone who is more suitable, but somehow the feeling's different.
i really hope theres someone out there who has been in situations like this to shed some light. could really grab some advice. can a person love more than 1 person, for different reasons?