Originally posted by supercharger:
Let it go. nothing can come out of this unless she wants it and there is nothing that you can do to make her love you more than just treating you as a friend. the more you press the more she will avoid you until the day will come where you will loose all communication with her.
Knowing your history from the other thread... (I hope I got the right one) its too short a time to have built any real meaningful and lasting bonds. further to have her under pressure like this from school work etc... she really needs to have her own time and space. she is not ready for you and if you try pushing your luck now you are likely to loose her.
dont wait for her... move on with your own life and dont compare with your peers esp in army when the weekend comes and your peers go out with gf and stuff, dont let these be the driving force in getting hitch... just live your own life now and move on. she will respect you for it and you will respect yourself better as well then to wallow and beg to be loved.
take care
sigh, i definately can't forget her thou.. she will still call me almost everyday except now her o's is really near.. so nt so much. she said she wants to know me better first.. so i told her yes sure.. i'm not telling you now for a relationship. i'm telling her i'll wait for her after her exams.. actually i didn't want to say at all but she keep asking me when i ask her do smth (forgotton what was it) "why shld i listen to you?" i just say u want or not is up to u.. and she pressurize me for an ans ... finally i told her cuz i love ya (this is the ans she wants) and now lidat.. i really dun understand.. today she called me and told me i might not treat ya as gd as u treat me .. she told me she'll try.. i say its ok im not expecting anything frm ya except loving ya with all i can. after exams we'll work things out..
The reason i tink why she can't commit to a relationship was due to her parents.. darn strict eh.. reach sch 15 mins late her mum call bak already.. reach sch must report to her.. very saddening lorz.. can't really go out and exams somemore around the corner.. worse..perhaps thts y she said she can't treat me as gd as i treat her. She told me to choose to be lyke now and bond the r/s frm here or keep a distance and start as friend.. she let me choose..
she is the who lead me on and now come lidat and sae dunwanna hurt me more and didn't reject me either.. dun get it.. she dunhave anyone in mind either.. im confused