$$ or Love??
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$$$ is NOT everything, but without $$$ it will be NOTHINGOriginally posted by AsTr0GiRL:Hmmm... this seems like a pretty long time ago thread.. Ya.. Guess chemistry is e main thing... Coz without chemistry, you won't even really wanna spend time with this person.. But wat comes next? -
chemistry and feeling..$$ is never an issue.Originally posted by elindra:I will look for Chemistry first
No Chemistry, No Love x2!
$$? As long as we don't have to starve and lead a decent living, that's fine since there is already Chemistry & Love
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Originally posted by LilO gIrL:chemistry and feeling..$$ is never an issue.
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I used to think chemistry and love... Now I feel that $$ is more impt than love... Who knows what is love now anyway??
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When 2 persons can get together, its call 'yuan fen'.
To me $ is secondary matter, as we r human beings. If we r leong (broke), we sure find a way out no matter how...dun tell me when u r in need of $, u still stay at home and shake ur legs.
In the beginning of a r/s, most couples are in 'tian mi mi' (honeymoon) period. This is call 'ai qing'.
However, as time flies, things may not be as perfect as u had expected:
1yr later, becomes naggy (grumble abt dis and tat)
2yrs later, becomes demanding (y u do dis and not tat)
3yrs later, becomes .............
Juz assuming only, dun mean all couples la.
but When 2 person are together for a couple of yrs or rather mths, naturally, both will get used to each other, be it flaws or beauty; and if they r meant for each other, they grow old together, loving and accepting one another for whom they r. This r/s is base on 'gan qing'.
One cannot use $ to measure the importance of ur love. But sad to say; in this world, there r women who go for $.... depending on case by case.
A person's wealth is in his brain, not in his pockets. -
choose the $$$$$
save u alot of heartache -
$$ cannot measure love but without $$$, u can see what love will turn into!!!Originally posted by kiekie:When 2 persons can get together, its call 'yuan fen'.
To me $ is secondary matter, as we r human beings. If we r leong (broke), we sure find a way out no matter how...dun tell me when u r in need of $, u still stay at home and shake ur legs.
In the beginning of a r/s, most couples are in 'tian mi mi' (honeymoon) period. This is call 'ai qing'.
However, as time flies, things may not be as perfect as u had expected:
1yr later, becomes naggy (grumble abt dis and tat)
2yrs later, becomes demanding (y u do dis and not tat)
3yrs later, becomes .............
Juz assuming only, dun mean all couples la.
but When 2 person are together for a couple of yrs or rather mths, naturally, both will get used to each other, be it flaws or beauty; and if they r meant for each other, they grow old together, loving and accepting one another for whom they r. This r/s is base on 'gan qing'.
One cannot use $ to measure the importance of ur love. But sad to say; in this world, there r women who go for $.... depending on case by case.
A person's wealth is in his brain, not in his pockets.
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U need both together. True gals claim that it's chemistry when seeking love. But guys learn the hard way, that money goes a long way in sustaining love. In sg context, it's mostly guys who do the courting, of cos there's cases of the opposite. But if money is no longer an issue, then u have more time to develope the chemistry vital for love.
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chemistry. reason is simple: there are many with money.
but not many can ignite that spark.. -
Chemistry first but later must see whether we share the same values/ family background + his character (whether he is caring, mature & responsible).
Money is not the most impt. thing. -
Ever wonder in the first place why guys keep mistress when they are unhappy with their gfs/wives? So gals followed, being materilistic and flirtious... who actuali started it? it doesnt matter...
my point is guys flirt, so wats life left for his gf? endless hurt given the fact that most gals are more sentimental. So in the end, where does love and chemistry stand? nowhere. gals have witness and heard from the tales of many what hurt they have been thru for love.. they condemn all guys like how guys condemn gals. Why not say people are selfish? better others get hurt than oneself?
before guys start pointing fingers, have they see themselves at wat kind of attitude they are hving? for example, poor but not hardwrking? of cos, i wldnt say guys are at total fault but rather every individual has, be it guy or gal..
like some forumers say, tis topic debate is endless, when one onlys knows how to critise others but not themselves. when one seeks revenge when he/she feels they are a victim(put in so much effort but received little). but people are not born to be slaves. if u r willingly to do this much and received little, you hv made a choice or u can make a choice... when all these does not cease(complex human emotions and behaviour), none of the questions tt is brought is going to change anything, isn't it? that's life ! -
money is part of daily needs. Everything involves money but when a r/s turns sour it does not mean $$ is involved.. Friendship can turn sour but it does necessarily involves money. It just a lack of character and confidence and perhaps many other factors so money isnt always the cause. besides not say no $$ = no love, than again who doesnt? u mean u dont?Originally posted by Kenashi:$$ cannot measure love but without $$$, u can see what love will turn into!!!