To any girls that can help me

• Rockshowjay56

  20 Oct 04, 22:33

  Im in this relationship, well not anymore....I've been seeing this girl for over a year. And i want to get her back. Shes giving me the oppertunity too but she wants my heart. I dont know how to show it. Im not really good at these kinda things............Im so clueless on what to do. I dont know what girls want. I could use anyhelp to win this girl back, before its to late. Can anyone please help me? Just please email me. ~J
• nuchio

  20 Oct 04, 22:35

  everybody is different.
  
  just ask .......... her.
• ahmike

  20 Oct 04, 22:42

  Originally posted by Rockshowjay56:

  Im in this relationship, well not anymore....I've been seeing this girl for over a year. And i want to get her back. Shes giving me the oppertunity too but she wants my heart. I dont know how to show it. Im not really good at these kinda things............Im so clueless on what to do. I dont know what girls want. I could use anyhelp to win this girl back, before its to late. Can anyone please help me? Just please email me. ~J

  Write a letter about how you meet her(what she wear,her personality), what she meant for you(during you were together...but say like u didnt notice her how important she is during she beside u until she left)..., during the time she not with u how do u feel?
  
  And at the end of the letter write write something like a poem. When she read finish ...grab her hand.This is what i did for my ex-gf last time.
• men_@_arms

  20 Oct 04, 23:38

  Originally posted by Rockshowjay56:
  Im in this relationship, well not anymore....I've been seeing this girl for over a year. And i want to get her back. Shes giving me the oppertunity too but [b]she wants my heart. I dont know how to show it. Im not really good at these kinda things............Im so clueless on what to do. I dont know what girls want. I could use anyhelp to win this girl back, before its to late. Can anyone please help me? Just please email me. ~J[/b]

  So why did she dump u in the first place????? Only u can fix this by asking her what she wants from u?
  
  Unless u want advice on a date plan?
  
  
• elindra

  20 Oct 04, 23:49

  I think action speaks louder than words.
  
  Like my fiance, I know that he truely loves me when we just got together not too long, and I came down with food poisoning when my parents were overseas, he came over to take care of me, cook for me, clean up my mess (I vomitted so much and choked up the sink but he is willing to clean that up for me as well)
  
  Or if he knew that I am home alone and most likely too lazy to cook and end up eating instant noodles everyday, he will actually cook and pack dinner over to eat with me. (So sweet )
  
  Or small things like waking me up every morning without fail, so that I won't oversleep for work
  
  He's not good with words as well, but he expresses his feelings very well through his actions.
• cOnFuSiOn

  21 Oct 04, 00:38

  Originally posted by elindra:

  I think action speaks louder than words.
  
  

  agree! hm... so wad's the reason to y u dumped her? she probabaly loves u..so she's giving u the chance.. but she must also be afraid that the same problem may happen and u'll dump her again? gals arent realli complicated creatures... saying and doing sweet stuff like some have mentioned is gd enuff.... hm... many guys are insensitive.. perhaps u should listen more to wad she says when u;re dating... i was very touched when this guy i liked bought a heart shaped chocolate cake for me on a date... it's like i was onli making a passing comment that i think it's nice and i liked it on our last date... didnt believe that he would get it on our next date.. u noe.. things like that... she'll be like " wow... he actually takes note of the little things i say".. it's realli sweet... show lots of ur care and concern.. especially if she gets sick or stuff... when u think she'll need someone by her side.. try to be the one there for her....
• RETARDED_MORON

  30 Dec 04, 18:07

  Originally posted by Rockshowjay56:

  Im in this relationship, well not anymore....I've been seeing this girl for over a year. And i want to get her back. Shes giving me the oppertunity too but she wants my heart. I dont know how to show it. Im not really good at these kinda things............Im so clueless on what to do. I dont know what girls want. I could use anyhelp to win this girl back, before its to late. Can anyone please help me? Just please email me. ~J

  Show her that you are WILLING to sacrifice.
  
  It is up to you how you manifest that, but that is the key to winning your girl back.
  
  Otherwise, you are pretty much screwed.