to Tweety
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To : Tweety
I like to tell you to stop all you stupid thing you doing, you have not only up set me and other. your mother is badly hurt by the way you behave, you really need help that is go counselling, we can't do anything for you. your problems is create by you so you need to solve it yourself, we are not Doctor or anybody.
Please go home early it will not help going round telling people how bad you are, put picture on your skin will noty solve your problem. Get yourself drunk will not help you to get a guy or someone you can marry to or save you out ....
STOP DREAMING !!!!!
VERY disapoint with you Tweety
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If you really need help, go counselling now
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her brain is sick !!!!Originally posted by blowfish: -
Tweety go counselling !!!!
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Relax okie.. Putting up something like this doesn't seems like it's gonna help much also....?
She's an adult already... So long as she's improving and on her corrective path, don't see why we should be damning her all the way...? Don't expect her to change overnight okie...? And give her a little more piece of 'freedom'...? It's her life... Only her rights... Besides.. I don't really anything really bad about kite-flying and having a tattoo...? Maybe you're right in the sense that it won't help her much... But still doesn't mean she should live as if she's staying in a prison right...?
Give her time... She'll probably slowly learn to see things by herself..? No use scolding her all the way yeah...? Don't really see how that's gonna help if she's really as bad as you say she is...?
Talk about changing for the better....? Hmm... -
susan, dun have to do this lah.
How will u feel if someone keep asking u go conselling??
Don't feel nice also rite??
Ok...hope u understand.
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she is not ... she refuse to face fact. she really need counselling....Originally posted by Devil1976:Relax okie.. Putting up something like this doesn't seems like it's gonna help much also....?
She's an adult already... So long as she's improving and on her corrective path, don't see why we should be damning her all the way...? Don't expect her to change overnight okie...? And give her a little more piece of 'freedom'...? It's her life... Only her rights... Besides.. I don't really anything really bad about kite-flying and having a tattoo...? Maybe you're right in the sense that it won't help her much... But still doesn't mean she should live as if she's staying in a prison right...?
Give her time... She'll probably slowly learn to see things by herself..? No use scolding her all the way yeah...? Don't really see how that's gonna help if she's really as bad as you say she is...?
Talk about changing for the better....? Hmm...
the way she behave now make me sick ....
keep give the pity look, that why all her friends run away.
go see doctor la tweety, you are sick, you need counselling.
i want her to face fact.
a person can't face fact how to help. so is she ask for it so she have to a mend it. that is what you said too Devil1976 .
She really need counselling, her problems very big. -
Let her solve her own problems
You went through heartbreaks before. You know how it feels, and sometimes you just don't want to be told what to do. -
??? what happen..
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xking I know what you mean.Originally posted by xking:susan, dun have to do this lah.
How will u feel if someone keep asking u go conselling??
Don't feel nice also rite??
Ok...hope u understand.
she need to face fact, she really need it.
we all been talk to her for 4 yr there no changes and it dose help.
she really profession help...
even devil and other know her case.
I post is to let other know you all want to help had to be perpare. she need is profession help... not us.
SHE have to learn to stand up alone. this we can't do it for her. -
susan, no point bringing something so private into forums. i think there's a need to loosen up a bit.
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by bringing this up, you're causing more misery.
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you are wrong she want you all to save her and she just sit here ....Originally posted by littlebeaker:Let her solve her own problems
You went through heartbreaks before. You know how it feels, and sometimes you just don't want to be told what to do.
like now she is still dreaming.
her mind now is you all come help me push me can liao.
Point:
you need how many to push her ??? 10.... 20....
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I not bring is up for nothing here ....Originally posted by Nelstar:susan, no point bringing something so private into forums. i think there's a need to loosen up a bit.
so trying to set trap to other again ....
DANGER COMING.....
she really need counselling!!!!
I will said till she go ....
everyday ....
HER MOTHER IS OLD AND SICK .... and where she she when she need her???
her mother have to be there when she need help.
where is she ??? you are adult can't even look after yourself and your parent who old ... disapointed.
reponable to yourself and your parent first. you can enjoy till you know how to look after yourself!!!! -
thank you for reminding but I till will do it .....Originally posted by littlebeaker:by bringing this up, you're causing more misery.
I very disapointed I do not want other to follow what I try.
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I said she'll need to make much changes... Though I would agree with you that there're some things about her which is still not quite acceptable for others (some even for me myself?)... But at least I can see that she might be making improvements and starting to think a little more differently....Originally posted by MeOwSuSan:she is not ... she refuse to face fact. she really need counselling....
the way she behave now make me sick ....
keep give the pity look, that why all her friends run away.
go see doctor la tweety, you are sick, you need counselling.
i want her to face fact.
a person can't face fact how to help. so is she ask for it so she have to a mend it. that is what you said too Devil1976 .
She really need counselling, her problems very big.
Give her some time and have more confident in her... In any case, I think that'll be much better than to condemn her and leaving her to her own despairs...? -
x 2. I think this is a little way to far reaching into someone's private life...Originally posted by Nelstar:susan, no point bringing something so private into forums. i think there's a need to loosen up a bit.
This thread ain't gonna be helping much. By posting a thread like this, how do you suppose it would help her? Might as well just call her or PM her on your own?
Give her SOME SPACE. By SUFFOCATING her like this, you'll only PUSH her BACK into her OLD WAYS... SIMPLY BECAUSE she'll have no other ALTERNATIVES to choose from... -
Originally posted by MeOwSuSan:
Personally, I think she's just looking for new friends..? I'm not sure if she would be doing what you've said about her again, but give her some benefit of doubt? It's not like such a wonderful thing to condemn someone even before that person has taken any action or even show any sign of doing it? Based on SPECTACULATIONS ALONE is NOT enough...
thank you for reminding but I till will do it .....
I very disapointed I do not want other to follow what I try. [b]tweety go counselling. [/b]
You should know her 'background' better yourself... She needs SUPPORT... Though she might not be doing it the right way now, let her LEARN... It's not like she's really doing GREAT HARM to the others (or the forumites) now...?
Regarding her parents and other more personal stuffs, please talk to her in private... Posting it up IN A PUBLIC FORUM probably won't make it any MORE EFFICIENT...
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Originally posted by MeOwSuSan:
If you're agreeable, I would LIKE to CLOSE this THREAD
To : Tweety
I like to tell you to stop all you stupid thing you doing, you have not only up set me and other. your mother is badly hurt by the way you behave, [b]you really need help that is go counselling, we can't do anything for you. your problems is create by you so you need to solve it yourself, we are not Doctor or anybody.
Please go home early it will not help going round telling people how bad you are, put picture on your skin will noty solve your problem. Get yourself drunk will not help you to get a guy or someone you can marry to or save you out ....
STOP DREAMING !!!!!
VERY disapoint with you Tweety
MeOwSuSan
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wow tis kinda ting private 1 no need post here lar...also... guess she already an adult..she know wat she's doing...ppl often do wrong tings..bt 1 day they will realise.........we are'nt perfectionist...no right to tell ppl do wat or force ppl go conselling.............i cant guarantee i am in the right mind too......so i aso need to go conselling? bcos i often ki siao 1...hahahhahahah u..tok to her personaly better posting here oni make her pai seh n make ppl tink whos tat person u tokin abt? cos more troubles nia.....wont help lar susan
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Agree...
Dun push her up the wall
Show her concern
Show her the way to think for herself...
u push n push one day u will see the reverse effect
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I din noe the exact story. BUT I feel ALL she need is some1 to support her (Not depend on) . Personally i feel u r too harsh to her. Every1 went thru tat stage. How bad they took after a r/s differ from each person. some may juz be lucky to have friends overcome tat stage.
Previously, some1 was so emotional tat I tot she will commit suicide. I accompany her everywhere, hoping she will feel better with some1 to hold on. I din ask for her gratitude. But hope she can now put some persistence in helping another in need. She is not hopeless even if the world feels she is...
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my words to tweety....
U need a purpose in Life. Time to move forward... A Time when to let it go. Life is precious & please remember that death is NEVER a solution. PERSISTENCE is the word. U shd know the feeling of losing some1 dear. Spare a thought for ur the many who cares for U - Ur family members, friends, Susan.... It may take time to heal the wounds in U. & I URGE U NEVER TO GIVE UP.
If U r studying, channel the thoughts into the books. it will hurt less. If U r working, keep urself busy so U wun have the time to daydream. U muz find a will to live on.
I always use the following to encourage ppl when they r down
DUN CRY WHEN IT'S OVER...... SMILE 'B COS IT HAPPENS
Hope the next time when i see u, u will be bleaming with joy. Dun let susan always worry about U. She have her own problems to solve. I believe u r old enough to think
Rgds & best wishes,
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occupy urself more..lor....go fly kite gd mah go n run here n ther can sweat & lose weight
i like to fly kite aso bt nw no time fly...arbo go learn tings like cooking....studies...calligraphy......gun shooting...etc -
Originally posted by Ah Ma:occupy urself more..lor....go fly kite gd mah go n run here n ther can sweat & lose weight i like to fly kite aso bt nw no time fly...arbo go learn tings like cooking....studies...calligraphy......gun shooting...etc
gun shooting????
susan better dun say anymore...wait she go take up gun shooting then u jialat liaoz...
fly kite nia still ok..