Troubled Heart
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Do you sometimes feel that although u have a lot of things in your heart but u have no1 to share with.
A lot of worries in yr mind but no one is around to give you a listening ear?
A lot of thing troubling you but no one to turn to?
Everyone is focusing so much on you that whatever small things u do or make creates a big fuss among your frens?
When you are not around, they are bad-mouthing you in front of your GF?
You had to put up a strong front to show everyone you are strong when in fact you are weak and scare on the inside?
And people always misunderstand the meaning behind your actions and starts to blame you for not doing anything or doing the wrong things.
After a while, you just gets so tired from all the wrong attention and all the misunderstanding. -
Sounds like someone i know....Originally posted by r3plica:Do you sometimes feel that although u have a lot of things in your heart but u have no1 to share with.
A lot of worries in yr mind but no one is around to give you a listening ear?
A lot of thing troubling you but no one to turn to?
Everyone is focusing so much on you that whatever small things u do or make creates a big fuss among your frens?
When you are not around, they are bad-mouthing you in front of your GF?
You had to put up a strong front to show everyone you are strong when in fact you are weak and scare on the inside?
And people always misunderstand the meaning behind your actions and starts to blame you for not doing anything or doing the wrong things.
After a while, you just gets so tired from all the wrong attention and all the misunderstanding.
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*pat pat* sayang.. y ur friends so cruel one.... but there are people out there who are insensitive to those around them.. gotta live with it .. btw are u a piscean or cancer or scorpio?? coz water based signs then to be more easily affected by crude words... anyway, there are no other ways around it.. try to think of some ways to counter their words.. this shud allow you to be able to handle the sitution better instead of being stressed out
gd luck to you -
just be yourself.
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Be easy on life and life would be easy on you...
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my question here is how ur other half weight the importance between u and her friends.
if they are more important, given any reason, u suck thumb and squueze ball. perhaps congrats her friends for successfuly causing a small into into a big fuss. gievn watever their agenda.
anyway, if u love ur other half, u give her ur trust that she knows wat's the truth. no point arugin with those CBM wad u should have done or said. wad's important is the relationship between u and ur other half
Originally posted by r3plica:Do you sometimes feel that although u have a lot of things in your heart but u have no1 to share with.
A lot of worries in yr mind but no one is around to give you a listening ear?
A lot of thing troubling you but no one to turn to?
Everyone is focusing so much on you that whatever small things u do or make creates a big fuss among your frens?
When you are not around, they are bad-mouthing you in front of your GF?
You had to put up a strong front to show everyone you are strong when in fact you are weak and scare on the inside?
And people always misunderstand the meaning behind your actions and starts to blame you for not doing anything or doing the wrong things.
After a while, you just gets so tired from all the wrong attention and all the misunderstanding. -
15th Nov 2004, Life hasnt got any better. In fact it got worse, more and more problems are surfacing and they are choking the life outta me.
Many a times, the thought of taking the easy way out crossed my mind. But the thought of leaving my family behind made me think twice.
Family, relationship, friends and other problems are really just too much for me to take it. I spoke to a friend the other day and she told me i'm thinking too much and i'm stretching myself thin.
Maybe she's right maybe she's not. I Dunno. I'm so confused now that i can't think clearly anymore. I dunno if what i'm doing is right or wrong. I dunno if what i'm doing now is for myself or my family.
Everyday I gonna put up a strong front and face the challenges ahead and this is draining me dry. I'm mentally drained and emotional exhausted. I so sick and tired of it.
Is Life really so difficult? Or is it just me? -
What kind of answer would you like to hear? The truthful answer or a concealed one? But the truth is that LIFE IS THAT DIFFICULT. Accept it.Originally posted by r3plica:15th Nov 2004, Life hasnt got any better. In fact it got worse, more and more problems are surfacing and they are choking the life outta me.
Many a times, the thought of taking the easy way out crossed my mind. But the thought of leaving my family behind made me think twice.
Family, relationship, friends and other problems are really just too much for me to take it. I spoke to a friend the other day and she told me i'm thinking too much and i'm stretching myself thin.
Maybe she's right maybe she's not. I Dunno. I'm so confused now that i can't think clearly anymore. I dunno if what i'm doing is right or wrong. I dunno if what i'm doing now is for myself or my family.
Everyday I gonna put up a strong front and face the challenges ahead and this is draining me dry. I'm mentally drained and emotional exhausted. I so sick and tired of it.
Is Life really so difficult? Or is it just me? -
Look guys....yr problems are right now happening, sensible and what the everday common people faces..It is is worthwhile to live it ,face it and solve it...u are still searching for the solution..There are so-called problems which some in this world face which are not even worth thinking about..u guys are better than :-
1) a fren of mine still cant forget his teenage crush obsession and trying to get close to her even though she is having a stead ...still living in the past He believes thee's hope for him cause he says that she has made a wrong choice and will eventuall realise her folly and that may be his chance to get try again and he's doing all kinds of silly things to monitor her activities
2) Another person has a low self esteem and suffering inferiority complex..As a result he cant stay at a place for too long..always keeps on changing his aims and goals
3) yet one more who has everything in life but feels worhtless and lack of direction in life wants excitement and starts to mixing around bad company...then more problems came..now he regrets the whole affair..
What;s happening to these people?...They have problems which are not even worth at face value..yet when someone tries to advice or change them, they are not making any efforts to get out of their dilema..these people are stuck in wht they claim are problems -
Originally posted by r3plica:Do you sometimes feel that although u have a lot of things in your heart but u have no1 to share with.
A lot of worries in yr mind but no one is around to give you a listening ear?
A lot of thing troubling you but no one to turn to?
Everyone is focusing so much on you that whatever small things u do or make creates a big fuss among your frens?
When you are not around, they are bad-mouthing you in front of your GF?
You had to put up a strong front to show everyone you are strong when in fact you are weak and scare on the inside?
And people always misunderstand the meaning behind your actions and starts to blame you for not doing anything or doing the wrong things.
After a while, you just gets so tired from all the wrong attention and all the misunderstanding. You're not alone, you're not the only one who's having this problem, OK so cheer up 
Different people have different perception about things, you know. But it's good to explain to them "clearly" so that they don't get you wrong next time and think positive in life, OK so smile -
Sounds like u are toking abt me. I have been going thru these. Just to add on:Originally posted by r3plica:Do you sometimes feel that although u have a lot of things in your heart but u have no1 to share with.
A lot of worries in yr mind but no one is around to give you a listening ear?
A lot of thing troubling you but no one to turn to?
Everyone is focusing so much on you that whatever small things u do or make creates a big fuss among your frens?
When you are not around, they are bad-mouthing you in front of your GF?
You had to put up a strong front to show everyone you are strong when in fact you are weak and scare on the inside?
And people always misunderstand the meaning behind your actions and starts to blame you for not doing anything or doing the wrong things.
After a while, you just gets so tired from all the wrong attention and all the misunderstanding.
All ur frens are too busy to hear u, some say wana call u but in the end the call nvr came.
You wanted to do something constructive but those tots often come back to haunt u so u nvr got to completely do ur tasks properly.
You feel so stressed up and tired that often u cant get a gd rest at nite.
People keep telling u to not to think too much when its useless advice to u.
You have to put up a happy face when u are facing everyone, even those who created troubles for u. -
[quote]Originally posted by shaunlaw:
Sounds like u are toking abt me. I have been going thru these. Just to add on:
All ur frens are too busy to hear u, some say wana call u but in the end the call nvr came.
This happens to me all the time. But came to accept that perhaps this is ppl's courteous way of assuring.
I guess the prob with ppl like us (or me alone) is we are too honest, too sensitive
Eg. If i promised a fren to call him back regarding his prob, i will do it by all means..
You wanted to do something constructive but those tots often come back to haunt u so u nvr got to completely do ur tasks properly.
Esp at the crucial moment.. where u can't screw things up & the negatibe tods has to come back .. Argghh!!
Eg. When i'm on date with this gal i rely like, hopin things dun screw up... my past seems to come back & haunt me
You feel so stressed up and tired that often u cant get a gd rest at nite.
Enuff sleep is impt.. esp for emotionally drained ppl. Thats my best excuse for sleepin more than 12 hrs everyday
People keep telling u to not to think too much when its useless advice to u.
You have to put up a happy face when u are facing everyone, even those who created troubles for u.
Take care. Can always pm me or anyone of the resident counsellor here for help if u are feelin rely down
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Originally posted by A Beautiful Mind:
Just felt that my life is messed up.
[quote]Originally posted by shaunlaw:
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Sounds like u are toking abt me. I have been going thru these. Just to add on:
All ur frens are too busy to hear u, some say wana call u but in the end the call nvr came.
This happens to me all the time. But came to accept that perhaps this is ppl's courteous way of assuring.
I guess the prob with ppl like us (or me alone) is we are too honest, too sensitive
Eg. If i promised a fren to call him back regarding his prob, i will do it by all means..
You wanted to do something constructive but those tots often come back to haunt u so u nvr got to completely do ur tasks properly.
Esp at the crucial moment.. where u can't screw things up & the negatibe tods has to come back .. Argghh!!
Eg. When i'm on date with this gal i rely like, hopin things dun screw up... my past seems to come back & haunt me
You feel so stressed up and tired that often u cant get a gd rest at nite.
Enuff sleep is impt.. esp for emotionally drained ppl. Thats my best excuse for sleepin more than 12 hrs everyday
People keep telling u to not to think too much when its useless advice to u.
You have to put up a happy face when u are facing everyone, even those who created troubles for u.
Take care. Can always pm me or anyone of the resident counsellor here for help if u are feelin rely down
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Refer to my thread "Group Dynamics" for one of the things ongoing now. -
Life can be really difficult at times... But it'll probably take YOURSELF to make it TWICE AS DIFFICULT....Originally posted by r3plica:15th Nov 2004, Life hasnt got any better. In fact it got worse, more and more problems are surfacing and they are choking the life outta me.
Many a times, the thought of taking the easy way out crossed my mind. But the thought of leaving my family behind made me think twice.
Family, relationship, friends and other problems are really just too much for me to take it. I spoke to a friend the other day and she told me i'm thinking too much and i'm stretching myself thin.
Maybe she's right maybe she's not. I Dunno. I'm so confused now that i can't think clearly anymore. I dunno if what i'm doing is right or wrong. I dunno if what i'm doing now is for myself or my family.
Everyday I gonna put up a strong front and face the challenges ahead and this is draining me dry. I'm mentally drained and emotional exhausted. I so sick and tired of it.
Is Life really so difficult? Or is it just me?
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Useless advice? In fact I would think that 'telling you not to think too much' is quite an appropriate and GOOD advice for you... One thing about 'advices' is that sometimes they're NOT like pills and medications... After you've heard or taken them then you'll just feel SO MUCH BETTER... Sad to tell you but NOPE... Alot of times they just don't work that way...Originally posted by shaunlaw:Sounds like u are toking abt me. I have been going thru these. Just to add on:
All ur frens are too busy to hear u, some say wana call u but in the end the call nvr came.
You wanted to do something constructive but those tots often come back to haunt u so u nvr got to completely do ur tasks properly.
You feel so stressed up and tired that often u cant get a gd rest at nite.
People keep telling u to not to think too much when its useless advice to u.
You have to put up a happy face when u are facing everyone, even those who created troubles for u.
What's the point of people telling you not to think too much and you still do it? What's the point of people asking you to change and yet you still don't...?
Of course practising better mental controls and not to think too much would take some time... But give yourself some room to BREATHE... GO OUT... ENJOY LIFE... Meet people and MEET MORE PEOPLE!!! Though some of them MIGHT SUCKS... Though some of them might even OFFEND you.. But that's just the way LIFE IS... Just like yourself offending others... Sometimes you just can't help much of it...?
BEING HAPPY is not about just putting up a HAPPY FACE... It's about WHAT YOU WANT and what you think YOU DESERVES... And if you think you deserves it, the WORK for it....