Money or love
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If anyone read be4 my post...shld know i once posted a topic abt a girl i like but she need money so left me...
i wanted to help her and etc....which i made a decision to forget abt her and nv to contact her...but....
A few days ago, she explained the whole matter to me when she saw me on msn...
She said she miss me...i was shocked...after wat had happen she say such things..
She kept sayin she no choice...she had the need for money...and tt she actually wanna be with me de......
haix today she sms me...sayin tt she maybe gonna get married next year...
I cant control and called her. she say that guy she was with propose to her..
telling me that guy is 28 and she only get to know tt the guy got a ex-wife and a daughter also....such a guy i think cant gif her happiness...
so i told her if she were to choose between me or that guy...she say she was with him for money...answer was obvious...i told her to wait for me and tt i wan her too...i will gif her wat that guy can gif her....but she say that guy can gif her wat she wan NOW...and for me...she got to wait....haix..
i wanna help her to get out the world of materialistic and easy money...so wat shld i do....can u guyz/gerz help?? -
I mean if the girl doesnt' want to stay you can't force her...
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but is not tt i forcing her...is she giving the feeling she is juz with the guy for $ and actually her heart is with me...
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u jus cant see the whole picture don u..
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if i can, i wun be here
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Didn't we already made it CLEAR TO YOU..??Originally posted by Match20:but is not tt i forcing her...is she giving the feeling she is juz with the guy for $ and actually her heart is with me...
Go with your 'feeling'... BEAR the CONSEQUENCES... You'll have a LONG WAY to GO.... -
I think she is confused, she dunno wat she wt. This sometimes happens to people getting cold feet on the verge of marriage.Originally posted by Match20:If anyone read be4 my post...shld know i once posted a topic abt a girl i like but she need money so left me...
i wanted to help her and etc....which i made a decision to forget abt her and nv to contact her...but....
A few days ago, she explained the whole matter to me when she saw me on msn...
She said she miss me...i was shocked...after wat had happen she say such things..
She kept sayin she no choice...she had the need for money...and tt she actually wanna be with me de......
haix today she sms me...sayin tt she maybe gonna get married next year...
I cant control and called her. she say that guy she was with propose to her..
telling me that guy is 28 and she only get to know tt the guy got a ex-wife and a daughter also....such a guy i think cant gif her happiness...
so i told her if she were to choose between me or that guy...she say she was with him for money...answer was obvious...i told her to wait for me and tt i wan her too...i will gif her wat that guy can gif her....but she say that guy can gif her wat she wan NOW...and for me...she got to wait....haix..
i wanna help her to get out the world of materialistic and easy money...so wat shld i do....can u guyz/gerz help??
On your part I think you shouldn't complicate things. Such a ger if marries for money and marries an ex-divorce guy somemore for the wrong reason, can she ever makes you happy knowing your own current earning ability? Such a ger never satisfied. better find someone else less complicated for your own sanity. -
cut it all off
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haix...how to cut it off...i tried not to contact her...but suddenly she will sms me..and my feeling rekindle..
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change number lor.
since she wana get married le, forget her.
somehow reminds me of the show .. -
OMG
..tot u are sensible to think for yourself...
Please for godness sake, see thru her acts... she's just trying to hold you back.. and when she got the $ from the guy, she will eventually take $ from u too.. after tat.. take $ from every guy she meet... Anyway her marriage life wont last long, such a CHILDISH act...
All of us can see, she such a b.i.t.c.h..
Wake up! wake up!
Feeling beating u up to your senses...
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OMG ..tot u are sensible to think for yourself...
Please for godness sake, see thru her acts... she's just trying to hold you back.. and when she got the $ from the guy, she will eventually take $ from u too.. after tat.. take $ from every guy she meet... Anyway her marriage life wont last long, such a CHILDISH act...
All of us can see, she such a b.i.t.c.h..
Wake up! wake up!
Feel like beating u up to your senses... -
The way I see it from your many postings you are unsatisfied & envious of the whole affair, maybe want to settle some score, get even. she knows this and is trying to entangle you. she is probably trying to see which fool will promise her the moon. A case of blind leading a deaf into a deep pit.Originally posted by Match20:haix...how to cut it off...i tried not to contact her...but suddenly she will sms me..and my feeling rekindle..
no point telling you to snap out of it thats not you want to do anyway.
but somebody is gonna get hurt and I'll put my money on you.
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How much can you help her? By marrying her??
By working your a$$ off while she parties all day?
What's the story this time, eh?
SHE needs to recieve a HARD lesson or BIG setback before she can change.
Or rather.. YOU should be the one.
Good Luck. -
eh...oh...just wake up to ur life n start moving on la hor...dun drag n delay ur own life bcos of a gal....u think worth it mer...
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Sad to admit, but this is the reality nowadays.Originally posted by Match20:If anyone read be4 my post...shld know i once posted a topic abt a girl i like but she need money so left me...
i wanted to help her and etc....which i made a decision to forget abt her and nv to contact her...but....
A few days ago, she explained the whole matter to me when she saw me on msn...
She said she miss me...i was shocked...after wat had happen she say such things..
She kept sayin she no choice...she had the need for money...and tt she actually wanna be with me de......
haix today she sms me...sayin tt she maybe gonna get married next year...
I cant control and called her. she say that guy she was with propose to her..
telling me that guy is 28 and she only get to know tt the guy got a ex-wife and a daughter also....such a guy i think cant gif her happiness...
so i told her if she were to choose between me or that guy...she say she was with him for money...answer was obvious...i told her to wait for me and tt i wan her too...i will gif her wat that guy can gif her....but she say that guy can gif her wat she wan NOW...and for me...she got to wait....haix..
i wanna help her to get out the world of materialistic and easy money...so wat shld i do....can u guyz/gerz help??
If the girl/guy is really desperate for the money and the other party is not third-world ugly, then yes..the girl/guy might just chose money over love.
Don't blame her for what she did, sometime when you put yourself in her position, you will be able to understand her decision.
I'm sure that she will also wish that you will find a better girl than her who will make you happier. Which of course you will...in due time.
There is nothing more else you could do at this moment except to support her decision and wish her all the best to her life...you also want her to be happy right? And if her decision is going to bring about the most happiness to her, will you still support her? I'm sure you will if you really loved her.
Good luck and time will heals everything.
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Its clearly mentioned in your post that she is only going to marry that guy for his money.. What makes you think that when she marries you, she is not marrying you for your money?? Don't be naive.. It will make you regret in the long run..Originally posted by Match20:If anyone read be4 my post...shld know i once posted a topic abt a girl i like but she need money so left me...
i wanted to help her and etc....which i made a decision to forget abt her and nv to contact her...but....
A few days ago, she explained the whole matter to me when she saw me on msn...
She said she miss me...i was shocked...after wat had happen she say such things..
She kept sayin she no choice...she had the need for money...and tt she actually wanna be with me de......
haix today she sms me...sayin tt she maybe gonna get married next year...
I cant control and called her. she say that guy she was with propose to her..
telling me that guy is 28 and she only get to know tt the guy got a ex-wife and a daughter also....such a guy i think cant gif her happiness...
so i told her if she were to choose between me or that guy...she say she was with him for money...answer was obvious...i told her to wait for me and tt i wan her too...i will gif her wat that guy can gif her....but she say that guy can gif her wat she wan NOW...and for me...she got to wait....haix..
i wanna help her to get out the world of materialistic and easy money...so wat shld i do....can u guyz/gerz help??
Just because she needs money and she "hooks" on to another guy?? IS that love? can i ask? IS that a life time commitment?? Make sure you really love her and not symphatise her in her times of need..
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What you need to do friend is either one of two things.
1. Forget about materialistic local ladies and go for malaysian or vietnam girls.
2. Get filthy rich and then you can go around breaking others peoples' heart.
$$$ means the license to do what you like here ma -
forget her...
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She is money faced.
What makes u think she won't leave u later for a richer guy?
She is only playing with u. She knows u are still crazy over her.
Be careful u don't give her any money.
Forget her.
There are better ones out there. -
Maybe you should tell her fiancee that she doesn't like him at all, she marries him out for monies. When they have broken up, you bring her to the registry of marriage and marry her right away. She ll be forever your wife.
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to love her? risk ur fortune!
be with her? live with forever agony!
actually.. she doesnt NEED those $$. she just WANT $$. just like she doesnt NEED u. she was being selfish to ask u to wait.
she NEED that guy who WANTS her. and she WANTs u to be the silly/naive man to be the spare tyre.
this girl. is damn intelligent. sly.
can u handle her? innocent guy! -
It's hard ...coz love is blind...to me...i might just feel tt she love me..
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She loves you so much enough for her to be with another man because of money.Originally posted by Match20:It's hard ...coz love is blind...to me...i might just feel tt she love me..
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No point advising Match20 anymore... he wants to die, let him die.. and suffer.. i think we should end and stop here... since he alreadi make up his mind. Next time see he posted any tread regarding this again.. thrash him..h.aha.. We done our best liao.. so is up to him... Is your ending wf the girl is bad.. dont post again.. becos we have alreadi advised you times and times again..until we very "bey chei"
Good luck!