Keratinize,
1st, let me congrats you for keeping yr license

can understand yr feeling, really.
Well frankly speaking, from what i know, the judge does not use the word suspend, its true!!!! he only uses the word disqualified, also true!!!! but when he say disqualified for 3 mnths, its as good as saying, suspend for 3 mnths!!! so i dunnoe what that judge of yrs trying to prove. No matter if its 3 mnths, 6 mnths or 12 mnths, he will used the word disqualified. But 3 & 6 = suspend, 12 = revoke.
Is yr license still at risk? hmmm...... not for the court side but still, its still a risk for you to ride on the road now cos u got ZERO points. any small mistakes caught red handed now by any TP would still meant a striaght revoke cos u r still P plate after all. My advise to you, be extra careful in riding now or dun ride for these few mnths till u get back yr point or p plate is over.
i dunnoe abt TP suspend pple, cos normally al the proceeding have to go through court 1st, be it drink driving or speeding....... so i think the judge that day on her hearing is another nerd!!! dunnoe much abt traffic also.......sigh~really wonder how he become a judge, esp traffic side.
I also know how it feels when u r in joy, u would really want to celebrate with the one u really love. I was surprised that misunderstood and u haven't get any better. Well then allow me to put it this way lar, maybe u really hurt her too badly the other time. If she doesn't want to see u, then u go and see her then! Action speaks louder than word. I am sure she will 'forgive' you soon.......... as for smoking, hmmmm.... for sake, maybe u can try cutting down, dun need to quit totally yet lor, show her u r willing to change. Or, at least when u r with her, dun smoke lor.........
Nevertheless, take care and all the best in riding and misunderstood........ well, be thankful of what u have, u r much much much luckier than me, in all the above mentioned!
Regards
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