lost most of my frens
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sigh..... after most of my frens got their bikes/cars licsense i have not seen them in months. sigh.... those with their own transport has isolated themselves no more with ppl like me with no licsense 1.
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by the way,if u guys r wondering y guys dont fetch me go out with them cos i m ugly. i m the ugliest among my sisters.so the guys fetch my other sisetsr out but not me.all of them go out left me alone. please tell me wat to do. y muz ppl with their own licsense change to drastically??!!
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erm.. dun sad lar.. can ask them pilion u mah.. or drive u ard... or mix with pple like mi lor.. no lic oso! hehe!~ cheer up ok?Originally posted by sad^gal:sigh..... after most of my frens got their bikes/cars licsense i have not seen them in months. sigh.... those with their own transport has isolated themselves no more with ppl like me with no licsense 1.
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erm.. its not true then u are the ugliest then u cfm no pple fetch. i oso very ugly.. but i believe there are some nice guy tat dun mind abt looks and wil give u a ride.Originally posted by sad^gal:by the way,if u guys r wondering y guys dont fetch me go out with them cos i m ugly. i m the ugliest among my sisters.so the guys fetch my other sisetsr out but not me.all of them go out left me alone. please tell me wat to do. y muz ppl with their own licsense change to drastically??!! -
if they willing to pillion me then i won't be tis pathetic already.even if the whole car or bike no pillion/passengers,they also won't let me hitch a ride, they will give the same excuse tat they wanna ride alone or drive alone.if one of my sis ask for rides,they immediately will go to my sisters house viod decks wait for them.
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monsters thnx very much for ur encouragement.but even though other guys fetch me,it will not b frm the same grp of ppl i always hang out with.then when i meet up with my usual grp they will always talk bout things the previous day,where they when,wat they do,how fun was it.then i can only listen silenty,sometimes don't know wat they talking bout also. sometimes i feel so lonely until i cry quite alot tis days.
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erm.. like tat ar.. no pt aredi lor.. move on and find other frenz lor.. if ur sis is real gd to u~.. they wil acompany u, dun sit bikes or cars, they wont leave u just like this..
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erm.. maybe u shld have a gd toke with ur "sis"... let them know how u feel.. ask them to try to get u involve with the outings..Originally posted by sad^gal:monsters thnx very much for ur encouragement.but even though other guys fetch me,it will not b frm the same grp of ppl i always hang out with.then when i meet up with my usual grp they will always talk bout things the previous day,where they when,wat they do,how fun was it.then i can only listen silenty,sometimes don't know wat they talking bout also. sometimes i feel so lonely until i cry quite alot tis days.
this kind of tings.. no pt crying..
its either u move on.. or u let them know how u feel....
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if they dont like to pillion,then they should not pillion any 1 even my chio sisters.y dont pillion me only! sigh..... anyway my sisters also quite playful so of course they go out with those guys cos got bike/car when going out.while others gals of our age muz take bus or mrt.i won't flame u monster.u r quite a gd adviser/listener.thnx alot!
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erm.. dun need to thanks..i just tryin to help.. y so many pple so sad.. pengz.. now i feel sad oso..
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ehh i tink the main thing wif having good friends of the same sex is whether u all can click or not.....nothing much to do wif appearance....seems like u might not be able to click well wif ur sisters tats y got such problems
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by the way i want u guys to know tat i m not jealous tat they got transport to fetch them n i don't.i don't want the transport i juz want my frens back!!! back to when we used to go out together.having fun!i wish we could go back to before i don't mind taking bus/mrt/taxi forever! i juz want my frens back....
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not everyone enjoys taking public transport.
as for the guys, ever thought that maybe they are interested in and are wooing your friends?
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guys thank u so much for listening n replying to my complains so early in the morning.i think its better for me to go to bed,if not the more i think = more sadness.so sleep then no need to think so much already.i will continue asking for ur advice tomorrow ok guys.pls feel free to comment i m most willing to hear them out.gd night guys,slp early too.
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nismos132.thnx for ur reply so early in the morning,sorry but i will reply u tomorrow ok.really feel sad now liao,wanna faster go to bed so no need to think so much liao.sorry nismos132 have an early nite too.
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erm.. all i wan to say is. things wil change.. human wil change too with time.. nuting can remain the same 4ever.. u can never have ur frenz back the same way..Originally posted by sad^gal:by the way i want u guys to know tat i m not jealous tat they got transport to fetch them n i don't.i don't want the transport i juz want my frens back!!! back to when we used to go out together.having fun!i wish we could go back to before i don't mind taking bus/mrt/taxi forever! i juz want my frens back....
u can onli choose to acept it and move on!
anyway.. u might not mind takin public transport.. but this might not apply to them too....
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sad^gal... dun be sad ler... and dun say u are ugly alright?? u have ur special points. everybody does. but if ur frenz judge ppl by looks, then they are not to be called frenz at all.
there's no harm in not being pillioned by ppl dear girl, so show them that u do not nd to be pillioned by them. let them pillion ur sisters for all they wan. since they wan a pretty gal to enhance their looks on their bikes, let them do so!! heck care them!! i am sure u will still have frenz arn u who cares and concerns abt u.
i knw how it feels in ur position right now, but i dun think thye are worth being sad for. once gt licsense then throw u at one side. dun kill a whole herd of sheep cuz one of them gt a virus of sth... u still will have many frenz arn u. we can be ur frenz too if u dun mind. so dun fret too much abt them anymore. give urself some time to cool dwn and think things through. face the reality girl, its that harsh.
hope i helped u somehow... the rest is up to u to decide. all the best dear girl. smile too!! =]
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Wat I think is that you should just get on with your life, find other friends and dun bother about them lor. If they doesn't treat you like a fren, then you dun too lor.
And no one is UGLY in this world, each of them have their own beauty and they should be proud of themselves. Why care about what other people think?!
Lastly, if possible, try going to the outing with us. Think none of us will be unwilling to give you a ride. We are the good ones around.
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AiYA i think those guys are trying to woo those ger frends of urs , dats why ,anyway dont care about them , they are not your only frends
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thnx guys!its gd to see so many encoraging ppl.but juz want to tell u its hard for me to juz change my life by inviting new frens and leaaving the old ones.i have been with those frens for yrs.its really hard to leave them.sigh.... all i can do nowadays is to stay at home,doing nothing the whole day.maybe one of tis days i may go out on an outing with u guys.
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hey no problem we welcome anyone for our outings
but tell u tis some riders r sensitive to whu their pillions r and some mayb not so it might not b ur friends fault?? but whu knoes ^-^
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ppl who isolate u after since they got their own mode of transport are not called ur frens lor. cos personally i dun see having a license wil actualli make u 1 grade higher class or watsoever. Transport is meant for convenience ma.. if they dun wan tompang u, u either find other ppl to go out wif or get ur own means to go out lor.
ppl dun realli care abt looks for who they r pillioning one la. Many ppl here aso got pillion ppl whom they have not met b4 ah. dun tink 2 much k?
cheer up~~
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nbz.. no one pillion you i pillion you ah! but most important is not how you look, but your weight... hahahah.. kidding kidding...
some people are shallow lor.. let them be lar.. soon enough you'll know who your real friends are... btw i don't really pillion people, girls or guys, cos no spare helmet..
newbie rider also.. not safe.. kekeke...
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Cool!!!! I like ur style man.Originally posted by l3stat:nbz.. no one pillion you i pillion you ah! but most important is not how you look, but your weight... hahahah.. kidding kidding...
some people are shallow lor.. let them be lar.. soon enough you'll know who your real friends are... btw i don't really pillion people, girls or guys, cos no spare helmet.. newbie rider also.. not safe.. kekeke...