can somebody tell me ?
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Just curious ::
if those male riders allow their gf to go out with other bikers ?
eg, other guys pillion their gf,
or mayb
will they pillion other gers with/without telling their gf ?
i have some frens who doesn't allow their gf to be pillion but others, but they tend to pillion other gers -
Why dun yopu ask them 
Well I think they are MCP loh. -
they say can brake hard hard den
what is MCP ? -
male chauvinist pig..
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It's a matter of trust......??? when the guy allow his friend to pillion his gf. If a guy doesn't allow his gf to be pillion, then i guess he don't trust that guy. Sometimes it's not that the guy will try to " eat his gf tofu " but safety as well, whether his friend ride dangerously.
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One thing u must understand, being pillioned, the body contact will be very close.Originally posted by [L]inG_eR:Just curious ::
if those male riders allow their gf to go out with other bikers ? eg, other guys pillion their gf,
or mayb
will they pillion other gers with/without telling their gf ?
i have some frens who doesn't allow their gf to be pillion but others, but they tend to pillion other gers
If your partner is a biker, shd, or shd not, being pillioned or pillion others, the choice lies beneath your own hearts. Many people diff views.
1st view, mutual respect, respect your partner that u shouldn't get close contact with the other gender.
2nd view, open, pillion as friends, no other thoughts. And safety wise, u trust the other biker who is pillioning u?
So u ask urself, what are your views? 1st or 2nd? The choice is yours. -
hehe something to add on... what u wish to do.... let your partner do... what u dun wish to do... dun let ure partner do. And oso erm... note to all charbos out there.. pls show at least alittle bit of respect to ure rider or bf b4 u think about bike hoppin in a group outing or whatever... gum sial :XOriginally posted by TZR:One thing u must understand, being pillioned, the body contact will be very close.
If your partner is a biker, shd, or shd not, being pillioned or pillion others, the choice lies beneath your own hearts. Many people diff views.
1st view, mutual respect, respect your partner that u shouldn't get close contact with the other gender.
2nd view, open, pillion as friends, no other thoughts. And safety wise, u trust the other biker who is pillioning u?
So u ask urself, what are your views? 1st or 2nd? The choice is yours.
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Ling_er!!!!??? Are u the nice, pretty, shy ling_er that i know??? anyway.. its all respect. u dun1 ur bf pillion ger, then u dun sit other pple bike. If he disrespect u, then u got all the right to do wat you wan. But its both party oso dun mind... then best lor...
anyway sit other pple bike oso dangerous. if they are reckless rider then how? if anything happen to u, who will be more sad. ur bf or the rider. (rider will onli feel guilty and not sad)
there is this news on a malay ger who is young and pretty and who wish to be model when she grow up. but just becoz of a rider she just knew, she now lost both her leg...
anyway... if ones make a choice and bad ting happened, dun blame other, blame urself. -
Alright lah brudder!!Originally posted by HighwayAngel:hehe something to add on... what u wish to do.... let your partner do... what u dun wish to do... dun let ure partner do. And oso erm... note to all charbos out there.. pls show at least alittle bit of respect to ure rider or bf b4 u think about bike hoppin in a group outing or whatever... gum sial :X 
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Aiii Sehh!! Weeeww wiit! POwer Da Day~Originally posted by MoNsTer:Ling_er!!!!??? Are u the nice, pretty, shy ling_er that i know??? anyway.. its all respect. u dun1 ur bf pillion ger, then u dun sit other pple bike. If he disrespect u, then u got all the right to do wat you wan. But its both party oso dun mind... then best lor...
anyway sit other pple bike oso dangerous. if they are reckless rider then how? if anything happen to u, who will be more sad. ur bf or the rider. (rider will onli feel guilty and not sad)
there is this news on a malay ger who is young and pretty and who wish to be model when she grow up. but just becoz of a rider she just knew, she now lost both her leg...
anyway... if ones make a choice and bad ting happened, dun blame other, blame urself. 
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this may be a reason too..Originally posted by jacobs:It's a matter of trust......??? when the guy allow his friend to pillion his gf. If a guy doesn't allow his gf to be pillion, then i guess he don't trust that guy. Sometimes it's not that the guy will try to " eat his gf tofu " but safety as well, whether his friend ride dangerously. -
hehehehe hey... hey just gibin some advices and stating some facts to those pillions who have these habits nia... hope never offend any charbos ard here... kekeke if any charbo kana offended by what i says... erm pai seh hor... sorry to provoke ure anger which arose from ure guiltOriginally posted by TZR:Alright lah brudder!!
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Originally posted by TZR:
am i rite to think this way ?
1st view, mutual respect, respect your partner that u shouldn't get close contact with the other gender[b].[b]From my pt of view, got bf or gf doesn't mean u have to ditch or keep a distance away from frens, but have a limit of closeness[/b]
2nd view, open, pillion as friends, no other thoughts. And safety wise, u trust the other biker who is pillioning u? No other thoughts, but if u think u cannot trust the biker in tiko terms or skills, dun be his pillionSo u ask urself, what are your views? 1st or 2nd? The choice is yours.[/b] -
Originally posted by MoNsTer:Ling_er!!!!??? Are u the nice, pretty, shy ling_er that i know??? I dun think i am the person u r refering to.anyway.. its all respect. u dun1 ur bf pillion ger, then u dun sit other pple bike. If he disrespect u, then u got all the right to do wat you wan. But its both party oso dun mind... then best lor...i got no bf now, last time used to have a bf who ride, i can't be pillion by others,i rejected going out with my frens who ride.In the end, i always found out he pillion other gers, i dun feel nice at all.
anyway sit other pple bike oso dangerous. if they are reckless rider then how? if anything happen to u, who will be more sad. ur bf or the rider. (rider will onli feel guilty and not sad)
there is this news on a malay ger who is young and pretty and who wish to be model when she grow up. but just becoz of a rider she just knew, she now lost both her leg...
poor ger
anyway... if ones make a choice and bad ting happened, dun blame other, blame urself. -
i hate those gers who had bf n still sit others pillion....Originally posted by HighwayAngel:hehe something to add on... what u wish to do.... let your partner do... what u dun wish to do... dun let ure partner do. And oso erm... note to all charbos out there.. pls show at least alittle bit of respect to ure rider or bf b4 u think about bike hoppin in a group outing or whatever... gum sial :X 
they realli dun noe the word respect.....
but wad can those bfs do?
go pillion chais lor@!!
but sometime trust cant be overuse, wen ur bf trust u, doesnt mean u can climb over his head
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1.) Yeah, what i mean "close contact" was skin and body contact, not friendship contact.Originally posted by [L]inG_eR:am i rite to think this way ?
2.) Yeah thats what i said~
But very hard sometimes, coz even i pillion my gf, i don't give 100% gaurentee its safe, but as a b/f, i will put in whatever i can to protect ourselves lor. Accident this kind of things not really skills or what, also must see luck. If sway someone drive their wheels across your face, then...? Your bf will be the one sad, ur friend guilty, and you? REGRETED.
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Yeah man~! I hate some girls that always climb on bf head one. heh heh heh this is called WCP = Woman Chuvinist PigOriginally posted by milkshake:but sometime trust cant be overuse, wen ur bf trust u, doesnt mean u can climb over his head -
All i can say is, your ex b/f SUXX big time.Originally posted by [L]inG_eR:i got no bf now, last time used to have a bf who ride, i can't be pillion by others,i rejected going out with my frens who ride.In the end, i always found out he pillion other gers, i dun feel nice at all. -
i agree with my bao bei. My dear dun pillion other ger, i dun sit other pple bike.. Its a respect between us.. and we dun lie to each other as in do it behind each other back.Originally posted by TZR:All i can say is, your ex b/f SUXX big time.
If this kinda respect oso canot achieve.. then no pt liao mah the relationship. Its a correct ting tat u are no longer with him.. -
hurhurhur... most do wor nowadays... and infact alot of them are great at taichi...anyway... alot of them dunno what they want deep down... always fickle mind... always last min can't commit...bo bian one.... only solution for guys... "eye for an eye"...Originally posted by milkshake:i hate those gers who had bf n still sit others pillion....
they realli dun noe the word respect.....
but wad can those bfs do?
go pillion chais lor@!!
but sometime trust cant be overuse, wen ur bf trust u, doesnt mean u can climb over his head -
??? cookie monster???Originally posted by MoNsTer:i agree with my bao bei. My dear dun pillion other ger, i dun sit other pple bike.. Its a respect between us.. and we dun lie to each other as in do it behind each other back.
If this kinda respect oso canot achieve.. then no pt liao mah the relationship. Its a correct ting tat u are no longer with him..
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yup u're right by any means...Originally posted by HighwayAngel:hurhurhur... most do wor nowadays... and infact alot of them are great at taichi...anyway... alot of them dunno what they want deep down... always fickle mind... always last min can't commit...bo bian one.... only solution for guys... "eye for an eye"...
but an eye for an eye must as well break up if u cant accept her ways.
what i did is, i will tell u straight in ur face, i dun like u sit others ppls bikes, but doesnt means u CAN'T @ ALL.
i haf not married u, cant control u TOTALLY, but @ least try ur best to respect my thinkings... NO 100% guyz realli allow their gfs to b like this, but TRUST is still the word, u dun trust her, might as well blown off, even if a ger wana run lion or wadeva, let her do, i might count myself lucky to find her like this n not later on -
i find that some gers or mostly still dun noe hw to think..., i guess if theres a national service for gers, thats would be great...Originally posted by HighwayAngel:hurhurhur... most do wor nowadays... and infact alot of them are great at taichi...anyway... alot of them dunno what they want deep down... always fickle mind... always last min can't commit...bo bian one.... only solution for guys... "eye for an eye"... -
doubt so.... NS might not help.. i have seen alot of guy who go thr NS liao.. tinking stil like Kids.Originally posted by milkshake:i find that some gers or mostly still dun noe hw to think..., i guess if theres a national service for gers, thats would be great... -
actually it would be nice... if there's national services for girls too, doesn't really have to be in the front line... maybe nursing etc.... then everyone will have the slightest knowlegde of what to do if there's ever needs arise ....for mentally "maturity thinking" i think it's just individual case to case debate....alot of factors would have to come into the view and taken into consideration... for eg. childhood, up bringing style of different families and stuff like that...Originally posted by MoNsTer:doubt so.... NS might not help.. i have seen alot of guy who go thr NS liao.. tinking stil like Kids.