you are gay isit?Originally posted by Lim Li Hao Matthew:Do gays have to do NS?
wa, how u noe one ... lolxOriginally posted by martin_lim85:i saw quite a few when i was enlisting that day
probably the guy did not declare? or perhaps he "turned" gay afterwards? if he had declared, it is quite impossible for him to become an officer... SAF has its image to maintain.Originally posted by nismoS132:i don't think all are put into clerical positions.
my bunkmate knows a gay whose an officer.
there's a difference between being effeminate and being gay... those you could tell from looks and mannerism are probably the former.Originally posted by martin_lim85:i saw quite a few when i was enlisting that day
for the sake of the uninitiated. effeminate = kuniang.Originally posted by wuming78:there's a difference between being effeminate and being gay... those you could tell from looks and mannerism are probably the former.
possible i guess.Originally posted by wuming78:probably the guy did not declare? or perhaps he "turned" gay afterwards? if he had declared, it is quite impossible for him to become an officer... SAF has its image to maintain.
hm... interesting. it depends on the circumstances surrounding the revealing i guess - how the person got caught.Originally posted by AYU's faithful:if nv declare then SOMEHOW kena caught wat will happen? Gay can go DB?
why not?Originally posted by Lim Li Hao Matthew:Do gays have to do NS?
Gay men might find it easier to serve in NS and reach leadership roles if they do not declare and are not found/caught in compromising situations.I would not find such a gay man guilty of misleading and lying since he has not done anything detrimental to the image of the Army and we do need as much combat-fit people as possible.Effeminate guys find it very much tougher, even though they might be straight, but stereotypes have made it so much easier for them to be lumped into the 302 category.Originally posted by nismoS132:i think depends on his superior bah. if the fella is fucked up and everyone hates him, they could probably charge him for giving false information.
but then, a 302 that wants to serve NS as per normal, and even makes it through OCS will most probably not have any attitude problems? seeing how he's making an effort to NOT avoid the physical training that a large no. of straight men are making a huge effort to avoid.