Originally posted by martin_lim85:
i dun fit to do office admin work
hm..
you can either sulk at your bad luck, lament on your vocation, and feel bitter over doing something you think you are not suited to do,
or
you can accept the situation as it is, no matter how bad it is, try to make the best of it by looking for and appreciating the positive points, stop comparing with the others, stop thinking "what if", and start to live your current life, and start to feel useful and contribute yourself and your soul again.
at different points in our lives, we all have to do things we do not like or do not think we are able to or suited to, etc. but we still have to do them, and more often than not, we pull through, we prevail, and we emerge stronger.
i hope you can complete your mourning soon, set aside your feelings, and start to live your life. dont think you like to feel sulk for the whole of your ns rite? dont you like to feel happy? its really up to you. you are able to control that.