Problems in BMT
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Very hard to cope. I am having 2 days mc due to depression I suppose from the MO. the pace is too fast I cannot catch up already. then always last den all must do pumping because of me. got condem already. sad.
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how come always last?
never catch up with the rest during running? -
learn to adapt. u must change to suit the environment and not the other way round.
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Always try your best don't think that u cannot do it.Originally posted by DarkMatter:Very hard to cope. I am having 2 days mc due to depression I suppose from the MO. the pace is too fast I cannot catch up already. then always last den all must do pumping because of me. got condem already. sad. -
wah depression so gd can take 2 days mc,wah lau last time i really fever only give me medicine and attend B!!!
Anyway if u have problem i think it best u tok to your sec comd loh but i tell u frankly ,nobody can help u want,u just have to learn to adapt loh,u have the whole co of rec doing the same thing leh,if others can do it,why can't u? -
how come depression not sent to IMH?
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Year of birth is 1979?
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bcos he suffering from 'selective depression'.Originally posted by tarutaru:how come depression not sent to IMH? 
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Come on pal, don be too negative.
I in army also do stupid thing that the rest of mate kanna drop down.
cannot keep up? u will. but take times. -
u really believe the data ppl put in profile ar.Originally posted by maggot:Year of birth is 1979?
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Must be those every enlistment day bring MC until one day ARMO declare he is fit and MUST enlist.Originally posted by maggot:Year of birth is 1979?
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I got 2 cases of those last time... recruit same age as OC the other older than OC.
First day enlist already got "Photosensitive, Excuse sunlight!!!" -
which coy?
at 1st i was also having problem learning how to adapt to it. slowly. talk to ur sec. comd, ps or pc. i am sure they will be able to help u.
i am also having problems trying to adapt to my new camp. but dun give up. u can do it man. -
u can do it
i last time recruit also say cannot cope here and there take mc everytime. untill, i change my mindset to ' the only easy day was... yesterday' so i chiong -
You got a problem, talk to your sect comd, Plt sgt or PC.
If still cannot talk to your OO.
You also have to make sure you are trying your best, everyone can tell if your effort is genuine or you are just "wayanging".
Life in the working world is worse than your time in NS.
So its not the end of the world.
Suck it up and drive on. -
the OO is ur best friend, your Godfather... always look for him to drink kopi and chit chat about your problems, and backstab urs sgts.
Don't get depressed over SAF. Not worth it. -
SAF
Serve And Fc*k-off
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Better learn to adpet quick. Bmt is consider the most easy in your 2yr time. If u can't catch up than good luck to you. You will be living a hell 2 yr of your NSF lifeOriginally posted by DarkMatter:Very hard to cope. I am having 2 days mc due to depression I suppose from the MO. the pace is too fast I cannot catch up already. then always last den all must do pumping because of me. got condem already. sad. -
hi just been through bmt n i m like u too at first cant cope with bmt espically during 1st 2 weeks, not used to the scolding, tekaning n training etc
but as time goes by, u get more friends n u will be used to the scolding and all these anxiety is more or less gone.
i suggest u speak to the orientation officer or wad. i feel that it isnt advisable to speak to platton coomander , platoon serg etc -
n btw bmt is the most enjoyable exp of ns , when u get posted out thing get different, even if u go to a slack vocation, u will find new probs like monotonous work n overdemanding superiors.
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My diagnosis for your problems? It's all in the mind.
You had spent eight pages in another thread begging us to help you chao keng. We spent those eight pages telling you to wake up your ideas and drop the negative mindset. Now you find yourself at the losing end with your negative mindset.
We have been telling you time and again - change that negative mindset of yours. I know it's tough, and I know that BMT life is a total culture shock from the freedom of civillian life. But that's the way it is. As Gordon has said, you adapt to army life, not the other way round.
Ask yourself this: why is it that you always got your platoon punished? Don't come and tell me that it's because your PS doesn't like the look of your face. Is it because you're the last to get things done? Is it because you're the last person to fall in at 5.30am in the morning?
If that's the case, how about going through your mistakes and learning from them? If you want to know, I also learn things at a slower pace. I initially got my platoon knocked down several times as well. But I learnt from my mistakes and resolved to do my best not to commit them again.
I know I'm sounding harsh on you. But I ain't bullsh*tting you, either.