EH HELP ME MAN!... depressed pre-enlistee need advice
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EH guys and enciks, got problem man
am enlisting this coming FRIDAY n am depressed like jialat man. simple say, i haf a problem wif my weight in which no matter how much i eat or train im like never growing any bigger! n u to make it worst, im skinny like f**k man! i mean serious sial, past two months i've been gym-ning, eat-ing, exercising n aiya, doing every means possible to grow myself into a decent size but i look at myself in the mirror and its like... no difference sial!! wtf!!
..im 19 n my weight is like only 55kg!! n im not even frm ethopia! im frm singapore man! foods everywhere! ...but im not skinny, just SKINNY LIKE HELL MAN.. i look like a piece of majong paper frm sideview and my limbs, DUN EVEN GO THERE. sighs forgive my curses but really man, forget e self esteem shit, i juz dun noe how im gonna even survive e army man, that is one thing, den somemore confirm will kena mock or teased or tekan or humiliated by e other fit guys n enciks...
N WORST STILL i dunno what on earth the docs were thinking but i got pes a for med check up despite e fact tt im juz skin n bones man! sigh is der any sort of programs or training for skinny pricks like me? i mean seriously man, im not gonna look good in whatever uniform man and i use to have deep interest in e military n e art of warfare n stuffs n like so damn enthusiastic bout e army but looking e way i am now i can juz forget bout those man.
wanna noe from any old birds here on what e army's gonna do to ppl like me , gonna take me one damn load of courage to pull this one off man, but juz need sum words frm any enciks here so i can do this with a less-troubled mind thanks -
Any enciks here?
Im not qualified to give him advice la...
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you're enlisting in the singapore army, not the US navy seals, so what if you're skinny ? ...
skinny is good, it's better than enlisting as a lard tub ... -
i mean seriously, what can they do to you? shove truckloads of rice down your throat?
stop thinking so much. many people were depressed before they entered too, they had to learn to take the shit thrown at them. -
i also not enciks... but i can tell u once u go in u will be fatter when u come out... theres nothing wrong being skinny... ur mind is weak....
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i think TS is hinting at us on telling ways to chao keng
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you teach him larOriginally posted by STUU:i think TS is hinting at us on telling ways to chao keng 
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mr BrUtUs: "i also not enciks... but i can tell u once u go in u will be fatter when u come out..."
really ar? how come man?
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If you can run 2.4km in less than 9min = OK
If you can incline pull hold more than 2 times = OK
If you can withstand lots of scoldings = OK
If you are not overweight = OK
If you are very fit and got lots muscle = OK
If all the answer is OK, you should be really OK.
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What is mean ish. GO in when you are boii, Come out as a MANOriginally posted by [G]erm:mr BrUtUs: "i also not enciks... but i can tell u once u go in u will be fatter when u come out..."
really ar? how come man? -
KNS.. i also weigh as light as u when i enlisted also no prob.. dun woory la.. it's not so terrible as u make it out to be..
anyway joining army made me gain weight.. -
If you are skinny so be it... you have not seen my G4 when i was an nsf.. he also skinny like a pole. But a LTC lei.... now Chief Supply Officer already...
So..doesnt mean skinny or fat or muscular or wad... you cannot take it. Skin and bones does not matter.
And yeah, you will gain weight. More if you got a slack vocation. -
That's gaining bad weight.. xiong unit u can gain good bulk.Originally posted by mhcampboy:
If you are skinny so be it... you have not seen my G4 when i was an nsf.. he also skinny like a pole. But a LTC lei.... now Chief Supply Officer already...
So..doesnt mean skinny or fat or muscular or wad... you cannot take it. Skin and bones does not matter.
And yeah, you will gain weight. More if you got a slack vocation. -
You did not state your height,hence it hard to determine whether you are under weight or not.Well i somehow think that being lighter is better as u see it much more easy to do chin up with a lighter body weight as pull up is not only determine by your arm power but also your own weight,the lighter u r,the lesser weightload u are going to have and that goes for running too,i have seen a lot of PTI durning my BMT and they are mostly small size but fit guys.
I think your problem is not really due to your body weight,but your own fear of enlisiting.Try to think positive and it will help you,treat BMT as a free gym for u to train yourself,and try to get along well with your bunk mates. -
go do the best you can, keep your chin up and don't let anything like that get you down.. through force of will..
2 years is fast.. we had to go through 2 1/2 years and it was a less enlightened time...
you will be fine...
being light is better than being obese.. trust me... -
Relac la. Weight dun play a part. It do not mean u r big mean u can take the load easier than your peer. I gt my platoon mate like on 1.6 +- weight lesser then 55 but run 2.4 under 9.45 min, did 12 pull up and easily get his 200 incentives.
Why worry now. What will come will eventually come. After all I was a skinny guy (i should say small sized)before i was enlisted but after my 3 month BMT i bloated instead of losing more weight. -
lol wana compare when i was 19 i was 47kg n 1.65 m tall.....now its 62kg cause of working out
anyway being thin isnt a concern la in bmt....some of my bmt PCs are also thin n yet they can become officers -
But his case cannot be too xiong also.. or else.. he wont grow. i can see lots of skinny riflemen.. they never grew at all.. fitter yes. but never grow in size.Originally posted by Gackt247:That's gaining bad weight.. xiong unit u can gain good bulk. -
wahaha.. dont worry ba.. i also 1 bamboo.. ht 180 wt only 52.. i tink is not your boby tat matter.. should be your mind..
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my OC is underweight...no probs there.....
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it is your fitness that is important, not skinny or fat.
as long as you are enough to meet the requirements you will be just fine. -
are u underweight? anyway there is no regulation stating u cannot sign on if u r certain weight right?
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I tink should be no problem lar. Maybe u wear no.4 will look a bit funny, that's all.
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Ya. Aim to be a clerk. Then can wear number3. Looks smart.Originally posted by gnoik:I tink should be no problem lar. Maybe u wear no.4 will look a bit funny, that's all. -
I was 53 kg, 1.7m when I enlisted.
I was 57kg when I POP-ed.... much of the mass gain was in terms of muscle.
I did my own strength training after last parade. Go figure.