Final advices for me
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Don't you get it that my problem is not due to NS at all? NS is just 1 of the things that happens to be the top thing in my life at the moment and even if not for NS, i will still be having worries for something else.Originally posted by pwnz0r:honestly you need a freaking life and hobby... stop worrying so much. your life is not going to end with NS.
be positive and hope for the best.
you don't even know how will it like inside and you already think that you cannot make it.
in my opinion, NS is only one stepping stone in life and barely even the toughest aspect of life. you will encounter very much more difficult obstacles.
are you going to quit and contemplate suicide every time you face an obstacle?
can you call yourself a man even?
step up and take some responsibility for yourself, your life and your family. stop suckling your mother and start being a man. -
weak? i am not weak. i am juz unfortunate to haf a negative mindset. pple haf different ways to solve problem. some find solutions immediately and some seek help, some take it naturally. but for me its way too different i keep whatever problems in my mind and worry abt them.Originally posted by Terribear:I know that sometimes the recruits will do funny things to each other in their spare time, like teaming up to strip the weakest person in the platoon and trying to shave the unfortunate person's b-all-s with a gillette shaver..
I have seen it with my own eyes... -
do not lose faith. you will bound to have some hardship in life. no doubt u will be worry, but you ought to face the truth.Originally posted by AhJun:Don't you get it that my problem is not due to NS at all? NS is just 1 of the things that happens to be the top thing in my life at the moment and even if not for NS, i will still be having worries for something else. -
i can tell u tt right now i haf many more worries besides NSOriginally posted by DarkMatter:do not lose faith. you will bound to have some hardship in life. no doubt u will be worry, but you ought to face the truth.
- what should i do after NS
- since i can't go poly where am i going to study after NS
- Go private institution but which 1 to choose
- It will cost alot of money. how am i going to pay
- whether private institution gd anot
- career prospect
and the list goes on and on
p/s: dun tell me to take it one step at a time becos i can't. since i haf this problem, i have never been able to take things one step at a time. not even if u force me to. -
this is funny... seriously, the image i'm getting is that u are trying to keng your way out...
best not to adopt such an attitude during ns... at least until they certify your condition... your platoon mates won't look too kindly on u... they will just think u are a keng kia and your life will be pretty much more miserable.....
sort of a self-fulfilling prophecy and it will be a vicious cycle...
look on the bright side... half the time, u dun even have time or the energy to think during ns... it is pretty emotionally and physically shack for someone who is unprepared for it...
think about it... how many ppl have gobe in with the same worries but still come out alive and having learnt something or made some good frens inside... -
quit then.. quit everything..
go enter a monastery..
or are you even anxious about that?Originally posted by AhJun:Don't you get it that my problem is not due to NS at all? NS is just 1 of the things that happens to be the top thing in my life at the moment and even if not for NS, i will still be having worries for something else. -
u can always seek help from your friends when u come out of the army. Thats where the thickess friendship bonds u can find. They will be glad to advice u on how to go on to your road. I have learn alot from my csm, oc and follow colleagues.
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can we jus lock this thread???
the more i see the more blood i vomit
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are u toking abt meOriginally posted by Father Lim:this is funny... seriously, the image i'm getting is that u are trying to keng your way out...
best not to adopt such an attitude during ns... at least until they certify your condition... your platoon mates won't look too kindly on u... they will just think u are a keng kia and your life will be pretty much more miserable.....
sort of a self-fulfilling prophecy and it will be a vicious cycle...
look on the bright side... half the time, u dun even have time or the energy to think during ns... it is pretty emotionally and physically shack for someone who is unprepared for it...
think about it... how many ppl have gobe in with the same worries but still come out alive and having learnt something or made some good frens inside...
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u say lock then lock ah? there r pple whu wants me to post back in this thread when i book out. even the MOD lazerlord is helping me. u say lock then lock for goodness sake what a joke.Originally posted by RaTtY8l:can we jus lock this thread???
the more i see the more blood i vomit -
double post
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dun need to get work up. its better for u to go and prepare all your stuff u might need for tmr's enlistment. Dun forget all your documents, appointment cards, u'll need it.
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yah lah... my sction got one keng kia.... go OOC also keng...Originally posted by DarkMatter:are u toking abt me
in the end everyone in the section all bochup him... -
i finished preparing alrdy.Originally posted by DarkMatter:dun need to get work up. its better for u to go and prepare all your stuff u might need for tmr's enlistment. Dun forget all your documents, appointment cards, u'll need it. -
y u all keep thinking i am faking it? its realli disheartening for someone wif mental difficulties and the appropriate evidence. i am juz merely seeking advice here and what i get r sacarstic remarksOriginally posted by Father Lim:yah lah... my sction got one keng kia.... go OOC also keng...
in the end everyone in the section all bochup him... -
no worries, I'll try to clear your doubts whenever I am free.Originally posted by AhJun:y u all keep thinking i am faking it? its realli disheartening for someone wif mental difficulties and the appropriate evidence. i am juz merely seeking advice here and what i get r sacarstic remarks -
friends? what friends? ever since i failed to make to poly, i was always feeling inferior and humiliated.Originally posted by DarkMatter:u can always seek help from your friends when u come out of the army. Thats where the thickess friendship bonds u can find. They will be glad to advice u on how to go on to your road. I have learn alot from my csm, oc and follow colleagues. -
i'm replying to darkmatter and not to u, and wat i posted was the truth...Originally posted by AhJun:y u all keep thinking i am faking it? its realli disheartening for someone wif mental difficulties and the appropriate evidence. i am juz merely seeking advice here and what i get r sacarstic remarks
i realize u like to point out that u have the evidence that u have a mental problem... if so, why didn't u take action earlier...
why wait till just before u go into ns then u decide that your mental problem is a big issue...
i can accept that u do have a mental problem but u are also trying to keng your way out of ns with this problem...
and that's the impression u are giving to me... -
Ah JUn,finished packing?
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yea finished packing alrdy.Originally posted by Marco_Simone:Ah JUn,finished packing? -
Relax la,its your last evening...Originally posted by AhJun:yea finished packing alrdy. -
having onli grad frm a sec sch, i gauged tt perhaps my constant worries and tendency to gif myself stress and pressure was juz a personality i had and i thought tt i'll get over it. however, i was nv able to recover frm the fact tt i can't make it to poly and had to enter ns. NEVER. even now. I started to haf sleepless night and big loss of appetite. I didn't know tt i was serious or perhaps i juz shrug it off as a negative personality which doesn't require any attention at all. the thing tt gave me the most impact was what happened after tt. i figured out tt since i'll be entering ns, i got to do something abt it. i had to do something to help myself be it medication..counselling whatever.Originally posted by Father Lim:i'm replying to darkmatter and not to u, and wat i posted was the truth...
i realize u like to point out that u have the evidence that u have a mental problem... if so, why didn't u take action earlier...
why wait till just before u go into ns then u decide that your mental problem is a big issue...
i can accept that u do have a mental problem but u are also trying to keng your way out of ns with this problem...
and that's the impression u are giving to me... -
i am so pressurized now tt i nid to do everything fast fast.Originally posted by Marco_Simone:Relax la,its your last evening... -
So how u gonna spend the evening?Originally posted by AhJun:i am so pressurized now tt i nid to do everything fast fast. -
i dunno. my thoughts r running wild. i am not going anywhere. i am staying at home. i guess i can onli continue to surf this forum.Originally posted by Marco_Simone:So how u gonna spend the evening?