crap.not true.not all changes.
Originally posted by rafTiger:quite true, cos they find that being too nice will just be taken advantage off
some also become more vulgar, or even pick up bad habits like smoking
ya, some guys do become more vulgar, i don't like that
very subjective.... it all depends... some become more attitude after that...
I actually became more vulgar.
Sometimes, when I am outside, I find myself stopping mid sentence because of the need to find suitable adjectives to substitute the profanities.
Originally posted by teraexa:I actually became more vulgar.
Sometimes, when I am outside, I find myself stopping mid sentence because of the need to find suitable adjectives to substitute the profanities.
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Originally posted by teraexa:I actually became more vulgar.
Sometimes, when I am outside, I find myself stopping mid sentence because of the need to find suitable adjectives to substitute the profanities.
I gained the do-and-fuck-care attitude.
Originally posted by skythewood:Do a 360 deg. about turn?
Gotta take into account actual character and projected character, right.. ;)
Originally posted by LazerLordz:Gotta take into account actual character and projected character, right.. ;)
about turn is like this. 180 degrees.
360 deg is like this.
So... 360 about turn? Huh?
Some become man.
But some leh, enlist as ginnahs, pop as ginnahs, ord as ginnahs, rod as ginnahs and some at the age of 50 plus like got kids liao going to become Ah gong liao still behave like ginnahs.
You think leh
it moulded me to take the curves, bends, twists n turns when the straight road is blocked...
Originally posted by huzane89:This is just my personal opinion from my personal experiences. Men, i mean boys doing NS in the army became self-absorbed people.
Experience 1: Very good friend of mine, well not any more. Initial as NR. He was someone who listens when you are talking and responsible. After joining NS, he became very self-absorbed. Always talking abt himself. Being proud is good, but he's more arrogant. In any situation, there would always be something about him that he would share. And more, he became quite irresponssible. Mind you, he's an MOPA. Yet, he is very irresponsible, never return calls and smses, never pass official letters that he is supposed to pass. He became a Jerk! Likes to put people down.
Experince 2: A friend. Initial FM, he listens to people and always have a two way conversation. Now, he only talks about himself. Likes to put people down.
Experience 3: Another friend. Initial SK. Same case, always talks about himself.
From my experiences, these boys are more self absorbed than before after they join NS. Will they ever grow up?
Let's look at this from a logical point of view. There are two common factors in these three scenarios, namely NS and you.
What's to say that you're not the problem?
Originally posted by Worldlybusinessman:me had the same problem , In NS, yr bad side start to come out..
Nope - it's obvious that you're a dickhead right down to the DNA. It's nature, not nurture.