Hi im a 3sg medic, recently ive had like tons of family probs plus gf stuff n crappy things all along the way n my timing in my unit really screws me up coz i live like in msia n stuff so i dun go home unless on weekends n stuff n i can only see my family during those times n even that i also have stuff on weekends... as such i reported i was stress to my camp MO who is also one of my superiors n he referred me to PCC n SCC. Apparently im also supposed to go for n overseas cover but im excuse overseas from my psychiatrist since he said im too stressed up by my own probs, but my own other superiors are not happy about it....they then raised the issue above again and now the higher up wants to take action against me saying tat as a 3sg ive not performed to the best of my ability or excel or what not further crap and lead man and stuff...but i have no man under me in the first place......and im like thinking to myself..."DUDE i reported wayyy early they i am not in the right mind now coz im really bummed by alot of things...whats with this sudden take actions stuff..." i was goin nuts n was like scared id break down n do stomethin stupid when i talked to my psych who then told me to just talk it out with my MO the same thing...then when raised higher up this guy then said tat was an implied threat against superior as well n wanna take action against that...
is there anything i can do about this?
You can honestly communicate with your family on your timing, and they would understand. In this manner, you can concentrate on your medic routine in camp. Oversea may be good alternative for you as it temporarily suspend you from family and social gathering on weekend, since these creates much stress for you. Once you are having peace mind while away for oversea, you may realize you mistake and get yourself into good shape of harmony. Hope that his suggestion would be of usefulness to you.
Originally posted by angelights:Hi im a 3sg medic, recently ive had like tons of family probs plus gf stuff n crappy things all along the way n my timing in my unit really screws me up coz i live like in msia n stuff so i dun go home unless on weekends n stuff n i can only see my family during those times n even that i also have stuff on weekends... as such i reported i was stress to my camp MO who is also one of my superiors n he referred me to PCC n SCC. Apparently im also supposed to go for n overseas cover but im excuse overseas from my psychiatrist since he said im too stressed up by my own probs, but my own other superiors are not happy about it....they then raised the issue above again and now the higher up wants to take action against me saying tat as a 3sg ive not performed to the best of my ability or excel or what not further crap and lead man and stuff...but i have no man under me in the first place......and im like thinking to myself..."DUDE i reported wayyy early they i am not in the right mind now coz im really bummed by alot of things...whats with this sudden take actions stuff..." i was goin nuts n was like scared id break down n do stomethin stupid when i talked to my psych who then told me to just talk it out with my MO the same thing...then when raised higher up this guy then said tat was an implied threat against superior as well n wanna take action against that...
is there anything i can do about this?
This really sucks, but the only advice I can give you is to suck thumb.
There are so many superiors against you one person, 99.9% you sure lose and kenna some sort of crap if you continue to try to push a way for yourself.
go up chain of command, if they still don't or can't help, go see MP.
@ whimsy : well what u say may be true but family thing is more complicated than tat...if i do go..when i come back there would be even more loads of "bombs" waitin for me to slowly defuse >.<
@forbiddensinner: yeah tats the prob...its vry biased...alot of nonsensical crap...i still do my job at the end of the day no 1 gets hurt i never once took MC and always complete what im given yet they wanna simply say "poor performance" like wtf is wrong with these ppl zzz hate this kind of shit...
@trolol: well...thing is higher up again would be chief of army medical core @[email protected] tat even advisable? or would hotline be better?
Originally posted by angelights:@ whimsy : well what u say may be true but family thing is more complicated than tat...if i do go..when i come back there would be even more loads of "bombs" waitin for me to slowly defuse >.<
@forbiddensinner: yeah tats the prob...its vry biased...alot of nonsensical crap...i still do my job at the end of the day no 1 gets hurt i never once took MC and always complete what im given yet they wanna simply say "poor performance" like wtf is wrong with these ppl zzz hate this kind of shit...
@trolol: well...thing is higher up again would be chief of army medical core @[email protected] tat even advisable? or would hotline be better?
If you want, I will rather you take the hotline option.
If you go any higher, you may just be send for a holiday trip in DB.
Originally posted by angelights:Hi im a 3sg medic, recently ive had like tons of family probs plus gf stuff n crappy things all along the way n my timing in my unit really screws me up coz i live like in msia n stuff so i dun go home unless on weekends n stuff n i can only see my family during those times n even that i also have stuff on weekends... as such i reported i was stress to my camp MO who is also one of my superiors n he referred me to PCC n SCC. Apparently im also supposed to go for n overseas cover but im excuse overseas from my psychiatrist since he said im too stressed up by my own probs, but my own other superiors are not happy about it....they then raised the issue above again and now the higher up wants to take action against me saying tat as a 3sg ive not performed to the best of my ability or excel or what not further crap and lead man and stuff...but i have no man under me in the first place......and im like thinking to myself..."DUDE i reported wayyy early they i am not in the right mind now coz im really bummed by alot of things...whats with this sudden take actions stuff..." i was goin nuts n was like scared id break down n do stomethin stupid when i talked to my psych who then told me to just talk it out with my MO the same thing...then when raised higher up this guy then said tat was an implied threat against superior as well n wanna take action against that...
is there anything i can do about this?
so u meant that u and your direct MO both also kena investigation?? and also your senior medics wantto stir shyt?
Originally posted by angelights:Hi im a 3sg medic, recently ive had like tons of family probs plus gf stuff n crappy things all along the way n my timing in my unit really screws me up coz i live like in msia n stuff so i dun go home unless on weekends n stuff n i can only see my family during those times n even that i also have stuff on weekends... as such i reported i was stress to my camp MO who is also one of my superiors n he referred me to PCC n SCC. Apparently im also supposed to go for n overseas cover but im excuse overseas from my psychiatrist since he said im too stressed up by my own probs, but my own other superiors are not happy about it....they then raised the issue above again and now the higher up wants to take action against me saying tat as a 3sg ive not performed to the best of my ability or excel or what not further crap and lead man and stuff...but i have no man under me in the first place......and im like thinking to myself..."DUDE i reported wayyy early they i am not in the right mind now coz im really bummed by alot of things...whats with this sudden take actions stuff..." i was goin nuts n was like scared id break down n do stomethin stupid when i talked to my psych who then told me to just talk it out with my MO the same thing...then when raised higher up this guy then said tat was an implied threat against superior as well n wanna take action against that...
is there anything i can do about this?
Dude grow up !!! stop whining like a kid - for sake you are a 3SG
This is not the army issue also not your future employer isseu.
You have weekends - you just have to make do best with the allocated time. Too bad if you parent choose to stay in malaysia - you cannot visit them so be it . A lot of malaysian & china workers all worst off then you.
You have stuff in weekends ??? -then have stress in camp. Who does not want to super long weekend and do what we want. But just not possible - you just have make a choice and be happy with it. Just that you too wimpy and greedy want all that why stress.
Stop using a stress and breakdown as and excuse, time you face life as a man !!! On 2nd thought maybe charge you , remove your 3SG then lock you up - resolve everything !!!
Like that you no need to worry and decide what to do with weekend - stay lock up = no stress.
dude u ,must have some serious issues ur self ranting on someone elses post thats looking for help. and sorry no i dun have weekends to myself usually because im always stuck doing crap for the army HELLO read properly u dufus.
its not i want a super long weekend u dumb shit its i dun got even a proper one these days u.
why u wana play rank in the first place? im still human at the end of the day u idiot. charge me?... a person like u who has no sympathetic value in life itself should go to jail first or mayb suffer what others are suffering first then see if u can handle it u nitwit
they say "army cock-up"
Head got no sense and Tail got no clue
tats how this nein kar army works
put it this way, some problems are really beyond control.. not enough time for the family.. fine, but if there are really issues which will eat into work and affect the quality, they have to be discussed and worked out. stress should only be the final resort if proven to be beyond control by your doctors/higher-up medics =/ cos after all, they somehow will feel the heat.
btw TS is in combat unit? maybe that might explain the kind of saikang that u get?
Originally posted by angelights:dude u ,must have some serious issues ur self ranting on someone elses post thats looking for help. and sorry no i dun have weekends to myself usually because im always stuck doing crap for the army HELLO read properly u dufus.
its not i want a super long weekend u dumb shit its i dun got even a proper one these days u.
why u wana play rank in the first place? im still human at the end of the day u idiot. charge me?... a person like u who has no sympathetic value in life itself should go to jail first or mayb suffer what others are suffering first then see if u can handle it u nitwit
dude - read your post yourself, you have all the time to rant on-line and visit MO .....frankly you just feel everything you do in army is crap !!!
Face it = you have got it a mental issues !!!
I still think TS should talk to MO, because when MO recommend, other people won't say no.
military redress is now made simpler and readily available by writing in.
in the past, terms such as redress, writing in, email, psychiatrist, voicing is never in existence...count yourself lucky that you are still able to write to SGFORUMS....there wasn't any form of outlet in the past...except with signing more extras for bring the matter up....MOs were KINGS that one more word will get you kicked out and redo the whole BMT
train yourself combat fit...physically and most importantly MENTALLY....if every soldiers were to seek redress for any kind of discomfort....it would be a shameful SAF...
Originally posted by Fcukpap:military redress is now made simpler and readily available by writing in.
in the past, terms such as redress, writing in, email, psychiatrist, voicing is never in existence...count yourself lucky that you are still able to write to SGFORUMS....there wasn't any form of outlet in the past...except with signing more extras for bring the matter up....MOs were KINGS that one more word will get you kicked out and redo the whole BMT
train yourself combat fit...physically and most importantly MENTALLY....if every soldiers were to seek redress for any kind of discomfort....it would be a shameful SAF...
Then if MO, CSM and WO can have power to abuse soldiers n make them sign extra, anyhow punish, is that a shameful SAF?
ok not so easy... only appointment holders [including WO] have the rights to charge/issue extra. and they usually do so only when a powerful figure gives his/her feedback. [eg, hair too long for guys and the CCWO saw it during an official function]
the rest who are above SSG/ME2 can on paper officially recommend charge/extras... like a NSF MO who has an additional bar as compared to some OCs in tekong, at most can only shoot an email over to the concerned OC if one of his recs is medically proven to be malingering and the MO's 'job' is handed over to the OC to deal with him.
btw nowadays is much more reasonable and negotaible/explainable, and if some1 wants to play punk, whoever concerned will pay him/them back.
thx loads to the rest of u guys
@storywolf dude i got the time to rant online now only because its my break time n im using my freaking frens phone, secondly my post was at 2 am in the morn u idiot...i cant even sleep till tat time wat u expect...u urself have some serious issues which u cant solve so u go around screwing others...