hm yeah, but its very hard. I went into depression last year, maybe I still am.Originally posted by MightyFlameboy:Now, there we have it, an actual testimony of a VE agent who learnt it thru the hard way. Bro, dun worry too much, as treat it as a bad experience, and never give up on life.
There's bound to be failures and successes, and at least, u've learnt that some people cannot be easily trusted, even ur good friends. MLM would totally change a person's mindset and perceptive of life (I'm being neutral here, not saying whether it's for the good or bad), and u can't treat ur frenz who entered into MLM as the same frenz they were few yrs ago.
Pick up ur life, juz go thru ur education once again, get back into ur frenz' and relatives' good books by publicly declaring u're not wif VE anymore and apologize fer ur past actions, and importantly, try ur best to FORGET the whole stint in VE.
Now, as fer those VE agents who're raving abt their cool frenz they made in MLM, such as Mr enquiries, I wonder whether ur MLM frenz are really that exceptional and actually cares abt ur future, whether or not u bring in sales, or they're like the stereotype that the dude mentioned? Manipulating and hypocritical? :S
I'm sure they'll just say "It's just business"Originally posted by silvernitrate:hm yeah, but its very hard. I went into depression last year, maybe I still am.
Actually I really hope if anyone from this forum is from VE, please relay my story to them. I just want to see whether they felt that I'm too weak, or I'm just too stupid.
Np.i from ve,i help u relay yr story to them.all the best 2 u.Originally posted by silvernitrate:hm yeah, but its very hard. I went into depression last year, maybe I still am.
Actually I really hope if anyone from this forum is from VE, please relay my story to them. I just want to see whether they felt that I'm too weak, or I'm just too stupid.
oh you're from VE?Originally posted by AlessandroTan:Np.i from ve,i help u relay yr story to them.all the best 2 u.
erm.i gt friends like liangchou doing well,some may quit.Originally posted by silvernitrate:oh you're from VE?
so what do you think of my situation than bro ?
am i stupid, or too weak?
It's kinda ironic that u stated explicitly in ur initial post, that u're aware tt u were exploited by ur boss, and their attitude towards u depended on ur level of sales ie. hypocrisy, and tt u regretted ur stint in VE overall, and now, u're asking a VE guy (possibly as hypocritical as ur boss) to evaluate ur situation, and (still) ignorantly blaming urself for the situation tt u're in now. Isn't it so?Originally posted by silvernitrate:oh you're from VE?
so what do you think of my situation than bro ?
am i stupid, or too weak?
no because during my time in Venture era, i've seen some of my uplines labeling those who quits a loser or plain stupid to quit. So well i'm just wanting to see whether they thought of me the same way too.Originally posted by MightyFlameboy:It's kinda ironic that u stated explicitly in ur initial post, that u're aware tt u were exploited by ur boss, and their attitude towards u depended on ur level of sales ie. hypocrisy, and tt u regretted ur stint in VE overall, and now, u're asking a VE guy (possibly as hypocritical as ur boss) to evaluate ur situation, and (still) ignorantly blaming urself for the situation tt u're in now. Isn't it so?
U're neither stupid or weak. At least in the strict sense of the words. Wad I can say is tt u're stupid enough initially to trust ur coursemate to join his MLM company. That's all. Besides tt, I'm glad u see the disadvantages of MLM and got out of it before ur life really gets out of hand. It could be much worse than just merely, relatives ostracizing u, and bosses giving u the f-uped look, and wasting a year of studies.
Bro, waste no more time tinking back wad went wrong. Maybe VE was reali f-uped, or at least the team tt u're in. Or even maybe u partly at fault fer being incompetent. But looking back do u no good. Why not juz let everything go, and start life anew, get back into a good relationship wif ur relatives n study hard to get ur degree? Juz my 2 cents.
You know why? Because they have no basic pay, and income depends on commission. Commission from downlines like you, who trust too much in the company.Originally posted by silvernitrate:no because during my time in Venture era, i've seen some of my uplines labeling those who quits a loser or plain stupid to quit. So well i'm just wanting to see whether they thought of me the same way too.
Who are you? Liangchou quit?Originally posted by AlessandroTan:erm.i gt friends like liangchou doing well,some may quit.
studies come first,ns second,after that,u're free 2 try anything.
so how u rate of the products,fair,wonderful,useless??
liangxhou still in ve.i using liangchou as a e.g 2 sliver.Originally posted by Jacky88:Who are you? Liangchou quit?
may i ask bro, what are the developments in VE now. How have you guys improved? heard you guys moved to a new office.Originally posted by AlessandroTan:liangxhou still in ve.i using liangchou as a e.g 2 sliver.
I remember them boasting being able to afford Shenton Way rent. In the middle of the city. And what happened now?Originally posted by silvernitrate:may i ask bro, what are the developments in VE now. How have you guys improved? heard you guys moved to a new office.
can tell ask more.
some people here I think want to join VE.
Obviously not me.
Yeah, I mean, it will be good for them if they did succeed in their business.Originally posted by redstone:I remember them boasting being able to afford Shenton Way rent. In the middle of the city. And what happened now?
Ask Alessandro Tan.Originally posted by silvernitrate:Yeah, I mean, it will be good for them if they did succeed in their business.
But I have lost touch with them eversince my bad experience with VE.
So anyone can clarify the situation and the state VE is in now?
lol eh I dunno who gave them my number.Originally posted by MightyFlameboy:Wahahaha... redstone... I tink u anti them too much.. They're starting to desiao u alrdy!
Hopefully, I wun get such a fonecall... ever... again... My 2 experiences wif MLM were traumatizing...
erm.Originally posted by redstone:Ask Alessandro Tan.
It left me with a very bad impression, btw. Not letting ppl leave office, hard persuading, etc
He's my old friend who tried to bring me in. MLM? Never, it's not my kind of line.Originally posted by MightyFlameboy:Huh??? SO!!! AlessandroTan is ur agent, redstone? LOL!!!
Hey Alessandro, I'm fine wif listening to ur biz plans. Budden when we're not interested and u guys start bugging us to stay, tt's hard persuading.
We're still ok.Originally posted by MightyFlameboy:So... I suppose u guys aren't frenz now? LoL! All cos' of MLM... Really spoils frenships...
It's oso not my cup o tea. In fact, I'm not cut out fer sales, even mainstream kinds like retail...
But being exposed to MLM as my first taste of how sales function, realli puts me off to a further extent, tt I wun even consider other normal sales job...
Yea, it's tt bad...