but if really those very extreme one? maybe it must depends on one person "de du liang" lor.Originally posted by FireIce:ming qiang yi dang
an jian nan fang
so far none in office......there is no need to
frens-wise.......got lah....but dun relli bother.....one day, others will see his/her true colors.....
ya true lah.... but told her the same thing but she dun wan leh..Originally posted by epImetheus:tell your friend to do the same thing to the back-stabber. an eye for an eye.
(ni zou chu yi, wo zou shi wu.)
All is fair in love & war, what is unfair is just only even fairer.
then u tell that to my girl ask her to put some "surplur" around her seat lor..Originally posted by claud:take snake powder to poison the 2 headed snake lor
(ren shan bei ren qi. )Originally posted by xiao_shin:ya true lah.... but told her the same thing but she dun wan leh..
kind-hearted..
even though there will be still some kind people outside lor..Originally posted by epImetheus:(ren shan bei ren qi. )
kind-hearted people will always be bullied by people.
category : (jing shui bu fan he shui) if you don't bother/trouble me at first, i won't give you problems.Originally posted by xiao_shin:even though there will be still some kind people outside lor..
so you are classified under which category??
u first statement sound a bit hostile leh.. hahaha.. no offence hor... say sorrie first if i offenced u.....Originally posted by epImetheus:category : (jing shui bu fan he shui) if you don't bother/trouble me at first, i won't give you problems.
P.S : purely personal self-evalution only.
for a better understanding, go visit me at www.frienster.com
no problem. it takes a lot to offend me.Originally posted by xiao_shin:u first statement sound a bit hostile leh.. hahaha.. no offence hor... say sorrie first if i offenced u.....
Originally posted by claud:aiya there is sure some ways to prevent it one lor.... if no way then how come i post this topics leh... but seems like bo pple wans to participate one leh....
[quote]Originally posted by xiao_shin:
[b]Anyone meet any backstabber/two headed snake before whether is office or friends.... [b]any to suggestion on how to deal with this type of pple??
there isnt any thing that u can actually prevent things from happening, if ppl wanna sabo u, there is nothing to stop it.. u've tried to prevent it from happening in this method, but if ppl are out to get u, u also will ganna one.
sometimes WORDS really KILL [/b]
You toking abt yourself? else why you work 6 months you become my bossOriginally posted by xiao_shin:Anyone meet any backstabber/two headed snake before whether is office or friends.... any to suggestion on how to deal with this type of pple??
coz my girl always complaint to me that she has been stab by her collegue.
Pls advice..
(xian xia shou wei qiang).Originally posted by xiao_shin:aiya there is sure some ways to prevent it one lor.... if no way then how come i post this topics leh... but seems like bo pple wans to participate one leh....
ya.. she is working in rather small working environment lor....Originally posted by Devil1976:Quite common one lah... Unless you work in a UNUSUALLY small working environment...?
Usually people just...
1. Bear with it.
2. Fight it.
3. Leave the work place....
Teach you how to handle it? Alas... You teach me lah...??
Originally posted by F.O.S:You toking abt yourself? else why you work 6 months you become my boss
http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=74523
ya lor what u say is true lah.... reputation and rice bowl cannot have the best of the both also... hard to choose...Originally posted by epImetheus:(xian xia shou wei qiang).
strike(or backstab) first before anyone can do it to you. make sure everybody knows how vicious are you. so that no ones dares to backstab you.
but then your reputation might not be good after that.
you mean The Bear is involve in backstabbing and double headed snake??Originally posted by Devil1976:Quite common one lah... Unless you work in a UNUSUALLY small working environment...?
Usually people just...
1. Bear with it.
2. Fight it.
3. Leave the work place....
Teach you how to handle it? Alas... You teach me lah...??
Originally posted by F.O.S:you mean The Bear is involve in backstabbing and double headed snake??
violent guy......Originally posted by Dan Ryou Shou:kill the boss, rape his wife, torture his kids
no need to take any action one lah. just be sincere and have good PR. whatever the backstabber does against her will backfire in no time.Originally posted by xiao_shin:Anyone meet any backstabber/two headed snake before whether is office or friends.... any to suggestion on how to deal with this type of pple??
coz my girl always complaint to me that she has been stab by her collegue.
Pls advice..